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Throw in the peach, repay it with a lee.
This is a word of gratitude to the teacher. Most likely, it is from the "Book of Poetry And Papaya", because there is a sentence in the "Book of Poetry And Papaya" that says: Vote for me with a peach, and repay it with Qiong Yao; vote for me with a wooden plum, and repay it with Qiong Jiu.
Peach, papaya, and plum are all the fruits of the buds; Qiong Yao and Qiong Jiu are also the names of beautiful jade.
The mood is really beautiful.
Now, we use "peach and plum all over the world" to describe the teacher's teacher's boundless grace.
Recently, a topic of "what kind of students will go back to school to see the teacher" has aroused a lot of heated discussion. Some people say that most of the students who can go back to school to see the teachers are poor students in the class, rather than the bully students that the teachers cultivated with their own heart.
After graduating 01, why do few people go back to school to see teachers?
Two days ago, the little nephew returned to Beijing. Quietly, my little nephew is a proper bully! Because he was not registered in Beijing, he went to yanjiao to study after junior high school. This time during the winter vacation, I made an appointment with my elementary school classmates and went to see the teacher together.
I asked him: Since you are looking at the teacher, what kind of teacher ceremony have you prepared for the teacher?
The little nephew said: We have prepared a large stack of junior high school math papers for the teacher...
I was surprised. The little nephew looked serious and said: This is the gift. Let the teacher feel what we feel after we went to junior high school.
The little nephew is still young and has just entered junior high school.
Today we want to talk about, at least after high school and college, adults who participate in the work, which of them often return to school to visit teachers?
Some self-media posted that a class teacher said:
Most of the students who graduate from high school and are admitted to college can come back to visit their teachers, most of whom are not the students who were in school——— those students of 985 University.
Some class teachers also said that they were very heartfelt, and they were very attentive to the students who studied well, but it was not these students who came back to visit, but some of the students who had mediocre grades.
Why?
Let's take a look at a few netizens' views:
Netizen: Xueba has to go through elementary school, junior high school, high school, university, graduate school... Which stage of teacher is the right one? Not every stage has a teacher that you remember deeply. The scum may be in the society in junior high school, and if the junior high school teacher has a profound influence on him, he will definitely visit! Xueba may only improve with academic qualifications and status, and will only remember the teachers who have a greater impact on themselves in the later stage, which is a very real problem.
Netizen: It's not that Xueba is unwilling to come back to see the teacher, it's really desperate to roll people a desperate in the roll, roll roll, roll homework, roll learning.
Netizen: The mixture is not good, naturally I dare not go back to visit, for fear of losing people to the teacher
Netizen: A few years ago, a university president said in his speech at the graduation ceremony that "academic qualifications are not as good as ability, diplomas are not as good as levels, and IQ is not as good as emotional intelligence." Confirmed - students admitted to the 985 rarely return to the school to visit the original source of the teacher.
It seems that the reason why Xueba did not go back to see the teacher was summarized by nothing more than 2 points:
1, Xueba is still struggling hard, there is no time to go back...
2, xueba admitted to 985 after the mix is not good, no face to go back to see the teacher, so strong psychological monster.
02 So, what kind of students are generally students who go back to visit the teacher?
Some people say that it is not the school bully who can go back to visit the teacher, most of them are students who are not so good at studying? I think it's also very one-sided.
For example, I, study in general, but I have hardly ever gone back to visit a teacher. It's not that I'm not grateful to the teacher, and it's not that I don't want to visit the teacher... It just feels a little bit of a gap.
Those around me who study well and those who study badly rarely go back to see the teacher. On the contrary, he lives closer to the teacher and often goes back to visit the teacher.
This is more convenient in terms of location.
Some netizens believe that those who can often go back to see the teacher are well-mixed students:
Netizen: Often back to school to see the teachers are those who are well mixed, high social status students, so that students and teachers have face, many teachers only exist in the eyes of this kind of students, this is the reality! Second, in the social development is not good, poor jingling students will not go back to see the teacher, no face to see, walking far away to see, some teachers will intentionally avoid, this kind of students do not have the help of silk, this is also a reality!
Another netizen analyzed from the aspect of personality and came to this conclusion:
Outgoing, conspicuous, and emotionally deep. Instead of the nest, deep and ... I don't go back to my alma mater much
Some netizens told their true stories:
Before I graduated from high school, my homeroom teacher always looked down on rural students, and most of us who were admitted to school were still rural children. All of us rural students basically didn't go to see him after graduation!
I think, in the end, which students go back to their alma mater to see the teacher, this question, in fact, there is no standard answer, no matter how to answer will feel very one-sided, this has nothing to do with grades, it has to do with people. And the human factor is varied. It's complicated.
03 written at the end
Teachers, preachers are also karmic and confused.
Teachers have been respected professions since ancient times, and the ancient sages we know well can also be called great educators and thinkers, but unlike the current professors of knowledge, ancient teachers are more focused on settling down and cultivating themselves; now they are more inclined to learn good scientific and technological knowledge to enter a good university, choose a good job in the future, make more money, and contribute to social development.
Perhaps this is the requirement of the development of the times, but the moral cultivation that the ancients focused on must always be adhered to and unshakable. Even in a society with such a developed technology now, it is even more difficult to test people's moral behavior.
The teachers in the school, I have to say, are mostly good teachers who advocate teacher morality, but there is also some rat stinks a pot of soup.
A good teacher will naturally receive sincere blessings from many students. Of course, if you have free time, you still have to go back to visit the teacher, which is a "sense of gratitude" as a student, and those students who do not go back to visit the teacher may have various reasons, but I believe that the road that I have walked with the teacher will always be remembered.
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