On June 8, 2019, a video about the college entrance examination caused great controversy among netizens. The protagonist of this video is named Wang Hengjie, who swoops down on a woman waiting outside the examination room. This woman is Wang Hengjie's mother Li Jiao, at the end of the video, the mother and son kneel together and cry with a headache, and the people around them have applauded, and the picture is moving.
For this video, some netizens are shocked by Wang Hengjie's filial piety and are touched by the deep affection between mother and son; but some netizens question that they just came out of the examination room, knelt down in public, and in front of so many reporters, this Wang Hengjie was very suspicious of putting on a show.
So why did Wang Hengjie kneel to his mother outside the examination room? Having just passed the threshold of the college entrance examination, what will be the future trajectory of his life?
Abandon the 985 colleges and universities and be firm in your own choices
In September 2019, accompanied by his mother, Wang Hengjie pulled his suitcase and walked into the school gate of Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications. Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications is a famous 211 university in Beijing, but for Wang Hengjie to be able to enter the college entrance examination of 985 University, it seems a little insufficient. Wang Hengjie's relatives, as well as netizens who have been paying attention to Wang Hengjie's dynamics, feel very strange about this, why do 985 schools not study, to choose a significantly lower grade of 211 university?
In response to this question, Wang Hengjie himself did not respond, but his mother Li Jie answered the question. Li Jie said: "This child has had ideas since he was a child, and I don't need to think he is too worried. The same is true for this university, he wants to go north to the vast city to break in, I went with him. He also likes computers, and told me that the university computer major was good, and I thought that the feelings were good. Li Jiao, who fully respected her son's wishes and choices, received more love and respect from her son with an equal attitude.
On the eve of the start of the school, Wang Hengjie and his mother packed their bags at home, and his mother told him: "Don't relax when you enter the university, or seize the time to study and improve yourself." If the school has arranged social practice in the winter and summer vacations, then enthusiastically sign up, don't worry about me, my mother will take care of herself at home, and you must also take care of yourself. ”
Wang Hengjie heard Li Jiao's advice, supported her shoulder to sit down by the bed, and said to his mother: "Mother rest assured, I am so old that I can definitely take care of myself." I'll be home whenever I'm free, and my mother doesn't want me to miss you! Wang Hengjie's words made Li Jiao laugh.
The next day, after entering the school, after taking the opening items, Wang Hengjie went to the dormitory with his mother to pack up his things. Watching his mother nag while taking things outside, he couldn't help but go to the bathroom and secretly wipe his tears. After the mother and son packed up, they went to eat lunch outside the school gate, and Li Jie was about to prepare to go home. Watching his mother's figure in the car gradually drift away, Wang Hengjie's vision gradually blurred. The boy has tears and does not flick, but he sheds tears for the inseparable feelings in his heart, and he is not ashamed.
Wang Hengjie, who successfully enrolled in the computer science major, firmly believes in his goals and dreams, and he is often present in the library on rest days, the office of professional teachers, and the computer room laboratory. In addition to studying, Wang Hengjie also joined the student union and participated in various college student competitions. The counselor said of this student, full of smiles: "This young man is very smart, and he is willing to endure hardships, and he will definitely be amazing in the future." ”
Growing up in a single-parent family, mother and child have a deep affection
It can be said that Wang Hengjie's body brings together a lot of advantages, sunshine, firmness, intelligence, hard work, filial piety, this excellent young man, can not be separated from the cultivation of excellent mothers. But what many people did not expect was that such an excellent Wang Hengjie grew up in a single-parent family.
When Wang Hengjie was nine years old, his parents divorced, and he lived with his mother. The sensitive Wang Hengjie soon understood that his parents no longer lived together, and his mother would have to take care of herself, which would be more difficult. "I must be more obedient and help my mother do what she can." I am a little man who can take good care of my mother. At that time, Xiao Wang Hengjie thought like this.
Every morning, without the need for his mother to call, Wang Hengjie will consciously get up and read the text, waiting for his mother to make breakfast. After school in the afternoon, he will not play outside with other children, he will go home first, seize the time to finish homework, and help his mother who cooks. He would not secretly stay up late at night, and especially consciously slipped into the bed early.
Li Jie sometimes said to her son, "Baby, you can go out and play with your friends more." Unexpectedly, Wang Hengjie replied to her: "If I go out to play, my mother will be lonely at home alone doing housework." Li Jiao was shocked that her young son could say such a thing, and this son was so sensible that it made her feel painful.
In order to give her son a better life, Li Jiao learned to start a business and do a clothing business. After the start of her career, Li Ji became busier and had little time to take care of her son, who she feared would rebel. One weekend, he took time out to take his son out to play. In the luncheon, Li Jiao said to her son: "Mother has been too busy for a long time and ignored you, have you ever been angry with your mother?" ”
Wang Hengjie replied: "Mother rest assured, I am not angry, I know that my mother is very hard to make money, I am a big man, can take care of myself." Li Jiao, who thought that his son would rebel, got such an answer, and his heart was warm.
In high school, I was fully accompanied to reading, and my son knelt down in front of him
Wang Hengjie, who was smart and hardworking, really lived up to expectations and was admitted to Hefei 168 Key High School. After entering high school, the study task was heavier, and Wang Hengjie was more arduous. One weekend When Wang Hengjie came home, Li Jiao immediately blushed when he saw him: "Did you not eat well at school?" How did you lose so much weight? Looking at her son like this, Li Jie decided to accompany him wholeheartedly and not miss her son's most important moment because of work.
So she became a stay-at-home mom and rented a house near the school to accompany her. "Mom, this dish is delicious, and this soup is delicious!" When did you learn to do this? Wang Hengjie ate the family meal and asked in surprise. Li Jie smiled and squinted at his son's praise: "Your mother is so smart, as soon as she learns, she will eat more when she is delicious, and we have to keep up with nutrition." ”
On weekends, Li Jie would come to Wang Hengjie's room again and pull him outside: "Walk around and accompany my mother to run, learn to exercise for so long, my body can't collapse." Wang Hengjie replied with a smile: "Mom, you can rest assured, I still insist on jumping rope every day." Li Jiao, who gets along with Wang Hengjie like a friend on weekdays, will show the warmth of her mother at key moments.
In a mock exam, Wang Hengjie took a bad exam, and when he returned home, he was visibly depressed, and Li Jiao comforted: "It's okay, isn't it just a small exam, let's check the omissions and fill in the gaps." Wang Hengjie said despondently: "Mom, what if I fail the college entrance examination like this?" Mom, I'm so tired. Li Jiao replied painfully: "What does it matter, it is not only the road of reading, it is really not okay, let's start all over again, my mother can afford to raise you." ”
Accompanied by Li Jiao wholeheartedly day by day, in June 2019, Wang Hengjie ushered in the college entrance examination. The two-day exam was intense and exciting, and the time seemed to pass at once. On the 8th, after the last subject of the exam, Wang Hengjie knelt down to Li Jiao: "It is my mother's hard work and companionship for so many years that makes me grow up healthy and happy." Thanks to Mother! Li Jiao looked at her son's "surprise" and also knelt down and hugged her son and cried.
In the face of online reviews, choose to be yourself
The scene of Wang Hengjie kneeling to his mother outside the gate of the college entrance examination was photographed by the crowd of onlookers and posted on the Internet. Comments from netizens poured in, mixed reviews. Some people say that he is filial piety, heavy feelings, and has a conscience; some people say that he is a "mother treasure man", too dependent and not independent; some people say that he is sensationalizing and just putting on a show...
In the face of various comments, Wang Hengjie said calmly: "They are all outsiders, passers-by who don't know anything, whatever they say, I just do what I think I should do." Wang Hengjie, who is calm and calm, has shown maturity far beyond his peers.
After entering the university, he enriched himself steadily, diligently improved himself, and also did his best to accompany his mother and repay her.
After returning home from a year's vacation, Wang Hengjie took out a sum of money and handed it to Li Jiao, who said: "Mom, this is my scholarship, the money I earned by my own efforts, and now I give it to you, and I want to prove to you that my son has grown up and can take care of you." Li Jiao held his son's scholarship in his hand, sighed with emotion, and said the word "good" vigorously, but he couldn't say anything other than excitement.
Wang Hengjie, who likes to travel, will also use the winter and summer vacations to take his mother to see the world together. He would often say to his mother on the road: "Before you took me to know the world, now I take you all over the world." "Mother and son duo have been to many places and seen a lot of beautiful scenery. Li Jiao looked at the excellent and sensible son in front of him, and for the first time, he was glad that he was diligent enough not to cultivate his son into a negative teaching material for society.
Recalling the experience of these years, Wang Hengjie said: "I don't know how lucky I am to have such a good mother, it is she who makes me grow up healthy and sunny in an unsound family environment, and she teaches me the correct three views." And Li Jiao will also be grateful to the heavens for their pity: "Thank God for giving me such a good son, I hope he can continue to work hard and become a useful person to society." ”
epilogue
The mother-son relationship between Li Jie and Wang Hengjie can already be called a model mother-child relationship. Many children of single-parent families will have inferiority, sensitivity, and paranoia, and this inevitable family shadow, under the careful care of Li Jiao, is smoothed out little by little, and finally disappears into Wang Hengjie's life. These two people are lucky to have each other as mothers and sons.
Chinese parents often have an insurmountable gap with their children because of the wrong way of education, which in turn leads to a sharp increase in parent-child conflicts, which is a bad family relationship. The story of Wang Hengjie and his mother Li Jie may give parents and children more useful thoughts.
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