Because of the 700,000 yuan of demolition money, my son and I became enemies, and we have not seen my son's family for 4 years
Narrator: Takasawa
Finishing: Mr. Xiao Han
My name is Gao Ze, 61 years old, born in a first-tier city, only 2.6 kilometers from the city center, when I was a child, I often went to the city center to play, and then when I grew up, I participated in the work, every time I went to the city center, in addition to doing things, I was passing by. I got married early, when I was 20 years old, and I took two wives in my life, the first of whom died of illness at the age of 28, and then the second at the age of 30.
The first wife gave birth to a son for me, from a young age is very naughty, not good to study, since the marriage with the second wife, even more unable to discipline, at that time, just thinking that the son can grow up quickly, and then find a job, marry a daughter-in-law, my obligation can also be considered fulfilled.
My second wife bore me three children, two sons and a daughter. Our family has more than 500 square meters of homestead, except for half of the house, the other half is to grow some vegetables, anyway, it is in the courtyard wall.
I have worked for so many years, I have been conscientious, after all, a family of six, it is not easy to raise, as if the children behind me are obedient, learning is good, the eldest son junior high school do not break in the society, there is no serious job. The second son went to college and was assigned a job, the third son and the younger daughter found a job after graduating from high school, and later they all found a partner to start a family, basically I did not care.
But the eldest son became my heart disease, whether he worked or not, almost every week he would come back to ask for money, and my salary at that time was also very low, a few hundred yuan a month, and then rose to a little more than three thousand in his forties.
Watching the three children have all started a family, the eldest son is still a bare stick in his more than thirty years. No less bothersome relatives and friends to introduce the object to the eldest son, the eldest son is not capable of being picky, seven or eight years have not found a suitable daughter-in-law.
In 2006, the news of the demolition of our village was ushered in, but for various reasons, it was postponed until 2013, when the whole village was allowed to move out, and the eldest son came back from outside at this time to live with me.
People are selfish, whether it is for people's children, or as parents, I thought at the time, the eldest son is not angry anyway, when the time comes to give him a suite on the line, after all, there are many children in the family, and it is also possible to see that each person can get a suite.
In 2016, the house and demolition money came down, my family divided six houses, because at that time several sons were separated, so in the village is a lot of shares, there are millions of compensation, the eldest son as desired to share the house, but in this piece of money, I am not in a hurry to distribute to the children, one is that the daughter married out, if not given, there will definitely be trouble, to the three sons may have opinions, especially the eldest son.
But in the end, it is impossible to escape the harm of money.
In 2017, the eldest son brought back a woman, also in her thirties, divorced, saying that she was going to get married, I thought this is a good thing, after all, my son is not small, I can give him a family, I am also more comfortable. After all, this is also the last wish.
Marriage cost more than 200,000 yuan, but not long after the marriage, the son came back to ask me for money, the opening was 1 million, I said what do you want so much money to do, the son said to separate the family. At that time, I was very angry, the two young sons did not separate the family, you divided the family.
But the son made a fuss, I promised to give three hundred thousand, after all, I still have to guard against this daughter-in-law, because the situation in her family is not very well understood, I have not been there, give more afraid that the money will disappear in a few days, but the son did not agree, and finally said that it was to give 700,000 on the line.
But in the end I did not give a penny, since this, my son and I do not have contact, even if the phone can not be called, once I saw what he was doing, I went to my son's house, because it is in the next neighborhood, it is also still moving houses, the son married and daughter-in-law and the son she brought with him to live together.
The moment I knocked on the door, it was my daughter-in-law, who saw that it was me, and closed the door fiercely, and since then, I have never seen my son's family again, and it has been almost four years now.
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