Mr. Nakayama was originally lu Muzhen
"Cole, give me the pen." When he said this, Lu Muzhen ate every word, very hard, as if he was making a difficult decision.
Sun Ke was also dignified, presenting a pen and paper.
"Mother..."
Lu Muzhen shook his hand and wrote it into a "can" word. What could be seen was that the seal was shaking like a bad look, and she didn't know how rugged her heart was.
Then, she turned to look at zheng zhuo, the guard officer, and said calmly:
"I really can't help, I don't know enough, I don't know English, I have my feet wrapped, it's not convenient to walk, I really can't help!" 」
It made Zheng Zhuo's eyes get hot. This generous and tolerant mother of state is really heart-wrenching!
Yes, you guessed it.
She was the first mother of the Republic of China, Dr. Sun Yat-sen's wife, Lu Muzhen.
Lu Muzhen
When Sun Yat-sen wrote to lu Muzhen that she was in love with Soong Ching Ling in Japan and wanted to divorce him, she replied to the word "ok".
A "can" word, abusing the weeping people, a hundred times.
Just as you and I expected, Mr. Nakayama's marriage to his wife is also the product of the fate of his parents and the words of the matchmaker.
Like all old Chinese women, Lu Muzhen grew up immersed in traditional Chinese culture.
Although she was born in a family of scholars, and her father also went to the United States to do business, her thinking was not civilized, and the old-fashioned family education model for women was also carried out for her daughter.
In the family's smoke, Lu Muzhen has trained a female red worker to be skillful and proficient, she is virtuous, foot-binding, filial piety, and obeys her parents. This is naturally a good daughter-in-law that all parents are looking for with lanterns.
Sun Lu's two families were family friends, and Sun Yat-sen's brother Sun Mei was friendly with Lu Muzhen's father.
At that time, Sun Yat-sen, who was taken to Honolulu by his brother to study, received a Western-style education and was an eye-opener. The Western world suddenly opened up his thinking and pattern.
In addition to the compulsory subjects, Sun Yat-sen was also exposed to the Bible.
Because of the long period of contamination, he accepted the Christian word and had the intention of being baptized for a while.
For this idea of Sun Yat-sen, his brother Sun Mei felt deviant. The eldest brother is a traditional Chinese, lest the younger brother be deceived by XiHua, so he forcibly sends him home.
Ben hoped that his brother would live in peace when he returned home, but he did not expect that he would openly destroy the idol of the god in the village! This shocked the parents and the eldest brother.
Mr. Nakayama was young
In order to make the younger brother accept his heart, the brother proposed to marry Sun Yat-sen a daughter-in-law, hoping that the restless brother would be able to be born with a tender entanglement.
In this way, under the arrangement of his parents' orders, Sun Yat-sen, who had advanced democratic ideas, and Lu Muzhen, who strictly observed the way of women under traditional culture, came together.
The year they were married, she was seventeen, he was eighteen, cardamom was in full bloom, but not because of love.
But it is not sad that people have lived this way for generations.
The difference is that his ambition is to overthrow the old society and create a new world of freedom. And she, destined not to be autonomous, her mission is to put her husband first and drift with her husband.
This is what the cultural attributes she follows are asked of her, and her thinking and vision are limited to this. Although he is diligent and thrifty and endures the family and does not seek anything in return, he is destined not to be like-minded with Mr. Zhongshan.
Only three months after marriage, Mr. Zhongshan set off for further study in Hong Kong, at this time, Mr. Zhongshan's ideal was to study medicine to save the country.
Her goodness still made Sun Yat-sen feel sorry. She took good care of her parents during his studies, and was in order outside the home.
And every time he went home from the province, he had to wear new clothes and shoes and socks made by her own hands when he returned. Most of the clothes on her mother's body also originated from her skillful hands.
Undoubtedly, such a good daughter-in-law, the in-laws are naturally overjoyed.
Once, Sun Yat-sen brought back a Japanese priest, and the parents were extremely disgusted with their son's intoxication with Western-style culture.
But after Lu Muzhen's gentle words of persuasion, her parents eased their attitude, and before leaving, the Japanese priest gave her a thumbs up.
In particular, when Mr. Zhongshan's father was seriously ill, she stayed in front of the bed every day, personally mixed soups and fed medicines, and directly touched Sun Yat-sen to the point of tenderness.
In this way, they had their first child, Sun Ke, a family together, with a little bit of fun and harmony.
The story develops here, if according to the ideal of quiet and good years, the countryside is interesting, and the respect is like a guest. The husband's study of medicine, and then the hanging pot to save the world, is also a perfect picture.
Mr. Nakayama's family
However, her husband is Sun Yat-sen, if it stops here and does not reverse, there may be one more famous doctor in the world, but in China, there will be one less father of the nation.
After studying medicine in Hong Kong, Sun Yat-sen practiced medicine in Macau and Guangzhou.
Here, he became acquainted with many people of insight with advanced ideas, and worked with them to plan the 8,000-word "Book of Li Hongzhang".
This letter was written in a letter that was flawed in the time and sincere, and Mr. Chen shut himself at home, wrote for more than ten days, and repeatedly revised it with Chen Shaobai.
At that time, it was the Sino-Japanese War, and Li Hongzhang had no time to watch, which caused Sun Yat-sen to be disappointed for a while. After all kinds of efforts were in vain, Sun Yat-sen realized that practicing medicine to save the country was not a way.
Since then, Mr. Nakayama has embarked on the road of democratic revolution. In Hong Kong, he established the headquarters of the Hsing Chung Society, with an oath of "driving out the tarts, restoring China, and establishing a United Government."
In 1896, the Guangzhou Uprising led by the Xingzhong Association failed. The Qing government began to hunt down revolutionaries on a large scale, and when the news reached his hometown, Lu Muzhen felt inexplicably panicked.
In desperation, she accommodated herself up and down, raising money to arrest the officers and soldiers who came to arrest her. In the end, with the help of his fellow villagers, Lu Muzhen successfully escaped with his family.
At that time, the son was four years old and the daughter was still in her infancy. Along the way, Lu Muzhen took care of her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, led her son, carried her daughter on her back, and went to Honolulu to join her eldest brother Sun Mei. On the way, her little feet were worn out, and her body, which had not yet healed due to childbirth, fell ill.
Sun Yat-sen, who heard the news, was deeply moved, he knew that before, her virtuous reputation was all over the countryside, and after that, because of her virtuousness and virtue, in family affairs, he would be relieved of all worries.
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His concept of family has broken through the limitations of home, and he is full of satisfaction with the people of the country and the democratic republic of his heart.
In this way, she dragged her family and mouth from Guangzhou, to Hong Kong, and from Hong Kong to Honolulu, and from then on, she began to separate from her husband for twelve years.
Lu Muzhen is old
In twelve years, Sun Yat-sen and Lu Muzhen only met three times, and they got along for less than a year and a half. He and her young daughter were born here.
In the twelve years, Sun Yat-sen died nine times, Lu Muzhen took three children, served her mother-in-law, took care of her aunt, counted the years, and looked forward to reuniting with her husband.
Hell, she was terrified of him every day, because Sun Yat-sen was either running for the revolution, or on the way to escape, or to Japan, or to Europe and the United States, and occasionally arrested, she was afraid that her husband would encounter an accident at some moment.
In 1906, the eldest brother Sun Mei was deeply touched by his brother's patriotism and used all the money he had accumulated from years of business to the revolutionary cause, resulting in the bankruptcy of the farm. Struggling to make ends meet, he moved to Hong Kong with his family.
At this time, his son Sun Keshang was studying in Honolulu, and the separation from his son drew out Lu Muzhen's bitterness. In the mist of tears, she thought of years of separation from her husband, looking forward to the stability of the present world, and suddenly felt that the road ahead was vast, the mountains and rivers were far away, and she did not know where to go.
At that time, she was middle-aged and had experienced half a life away.
Fate had arranged for her to be a wife to a pioneer of the times, and her patriotism made her husband already put life and death aside.
Guangzhou Uprising
Although she did not know what a democratic republic was and what was a national righteousness, she did not hesitate to accompany and bear it silently.
During the separation, she kept her thoughts in her heart, and the deeper the love, the more she cut it, and the tighter she worked.
It was not until 1911, the success of the Xinhai Revolution, that Sun Yat-sen finally ended his exile and was elected "Provisional President of the Republic of China".
At that time, Lu Muzhen was also awarded the title of "Mother of the Nation".
When she arrived in Nanjing to reunite with her husband, she was warmly welcomed by the members of the League, and everyone greeted the arrival of the "Mother of the Republic of China" with a sense of ceremony.
This made Lu Muzhen feel deeply afraid. In the honor of the "Mother of the Nation", she did not feel the glory of no honor, but rather an unspeakable torment.
She has a deep inferiority complex to her own little feet, and her ignorance of national reason and current politics makes her panic.
She avoided every opportunity to show her face as much as possible, and even if she hid at home, there was still a steady stream of people who came to visit Mr. Nakayama.
Mr. Nakayama and his friends
All the vips who went to the house had an unusual respect for the mother of the country, which made her feel great pressure.
They discussed current politics and discussed ways to save the country together, enthusiastically and enthusiastically. She was ignited, and she wanted to do something, but she couldn't do anything.
In less than a month, she proposed that she wanted to go back to her hometown, obviously separated for so long, it was difficult to calmly compare and live in peace, but she chose to go back.
Sun Yat-sen understood his wife's thoughts and gave her some entanglement. She left her daughter with her husband.
After that, she wrote a letter to persuade her husband that he had no culture and could not help much, and that he should find a woman with new ideas as a concubine, which would help him to save the country.
Faced with this request, Sun Yat-sen did not agree. Subsequently, Sun Yat-sen resigned from the post of president and, at the false invitation of Yuan Shikai, took Lu Muzhen's mother and daughter on a tour of Beijing. And this swim may be one of her good memories.
He told his wife about his wishes: "My ideal is to build a 200,000-mile railway in China. ”
Mr. Nakayama with the child
History will always joke, and behind the false courtesy, there is yuan shikai's ambition to restore the imperial system.
For ordinary people, when the ideal of fullness meets the reality of bone, the worst thing is a chicken feather. The difference is that when Song Jiaoren was killed and Yuan Shikai's plot became apparent, it was China's democratic republic that shattered the ground.
Yuan Shikai's ambitions for restoration angered the Chinese people, and Sun Yat-sen angrily launched a second revolution. But soon, the second revolution ended in failure.
Sun Yat-sen again fled to Japan. This time, Lu Muzhen's fate was irreparably reversed. Sun Yat-sen met his lifelong confidant, Soong Ching-ling.
These two people are a match made in heaven in the eyes of the world. Very few people know Lu Muzhen, and no one knows Song Qingling.
Sun Yat-sen was caught in a dilemma, on the one hand, a wife who had been together for many years, had children for herself, took care of the family, and had no complaints.
Mr. Nakayama and the revolutionaries
His feelings for her are uncompromising affection, and it seems that from recognizing her existence, he recognized her as a relative.
She honored his parents like a daughter, and when her father died, she lost a full circle of weight. When her mother died, she hurried to see the last side of the old man," and it was also her to take care of her mother's affairs.
Such a relative, if he abandons it, it is difficult to convince himself.
On the other side are confidants who meet and hate each other. She replaced her eldest sister Song Ailing as her English secretary, Miao Ling Huisi, who studied Chinese and Western. And I met him nearly half a hundred years ago, and how willing to lose it!
When Song Qingling was young
Without a compromise, Song Qingling was a devout Christian and could not accept a concubine. And how can you not be a Christian?
Besides, with Song Qingling's knowledge and cognition, even if he is not a Christian, how can he be willing to be a concubine and share a husband with others?
Besides, if I and my colleagues die nine times and break the old era and open up a new era, is it not also for the sake of freedom and democracy, breaking the feudal pattern of three wives and four concubines in the feudal imperial system?
However, this means that you can't have both.
He was really reluctant to leave Song Qingling, so he sent Sun Ke and the bodyguard Zheng Zhuo to find Lu Muzhen with a handwritten letter.
The letter stated the fact that he had met Song Qingling and asked his wife if she could divorce her.
Lu Muzhen read the letter with trembling hands, and on the reply, he waved a "can" word to solve the entanglement of the three people.
It is conceivable that the historical scars left by that special era for this sensible Chinese woman are all weeping in a "can".
She loved him so much that she loved him without remorse, without herself.
In the League, the allies completely vetoed Sun Yat-sen's divorce. At this time, only Lu Muzhen came forward to resolve this situation.
He sent Lu Muzhen to Japan, first, to go through divorce procedures, and second, to persuade his allies to change their cognition and accept the fact that Mu had become a boat.
Song Qingling
Lu Muzhen made this statement:
"Over the years, for the sake of his revolution, I have worked hard and worried about such a day, and I have long wanted to live such a day, I only hope to spend time in my hometown." Since the existing people take care of the life around me and help politics, I am certainly willing to do everything and agree to divorce Mr. Sun. ”
Since the attitude of the person concerned is such, it is not easy for others to say anything more.
In this way, he talked to her in the Chamber of Secrets for a long time, and no one knew what they were talking about.
Sun Yat-sen's guilt was undoubtedly solemn, and he said to her: You will always be a member of the Sun family, and Sun Ke will always be your son.
After that, he provided her with living expenses on time. In the correspondence, it is completely the home of ordinary couples and the brushstrokes of relatives.
She and Song Qingling are called sisters, and for her son, who is two years older than Song Qingling, he tells him to respect his stepmother.
She said: May sir and I be separated from each other and find good people.
Later, Sun Yat-sen married Soong Ching Ling, and Lu Muzhen did not look for a good person, but stayed in the Sun Mansion in Macau, floating alone for the rest of his life. He died on December 31, 2012 at the age of 8
Statue of Mr. Nakayama
She said: It's true that I love you, but it can't stop you from running to someone better than me, right? Silently forbearance, silently a thousand turns, only yourself, can deeply understand this taste.
As a descendant of the new era,
Naturally, we cannot judge the choices of that time by modern social standards.
The era they live in is actually a relatively awkward state.
For example, even pioneers such as Sun Yat-sen and Lu Xun still did not dare to disobey the will of their parents.
This is naturally related to whether the individual is filial piety or not, but it is more a stereotype left by thousands of years of accumulation of habits.
This bondage is evident not only in the oppressed, but also in the souls who rebel against their oppression.
Just as the two armies are at war, what we see is a load of guns and bullets, and what we do not see and sigh in our hearts is a fierce collision between new and old cultures and ideologies.
There is always someone to sacrifice, not just on the battlefield.
Sun Yat-sen and Soong Ching-ling
For Lu Muzhen, the seriousness and solemnity with which she pressed her fingerprints when she divorced was actually some magnificent elements. He loves her husband as true, loves Wu and Wu, respects her husband's aspirations for the founding of the country, fulfills the compassion of his revolutionary partner, and who can deny that this is not for the sake of national righteousness?
If in modern times, in such a great historical figure, such regrets should not occur again.