A few years ago, a single woman spent 500,000 yuan to "buy fine" to give birth to a mixed-race child of the five countries, the news was popular all over the Internet, when many people accused this single woman, but also labeled her with a variety of labels, such as "sublime beauty", and some people said that she was not responsible for her children and so on.
However, after understanding it, I found that this single woman named Ye Haiyang is the CEO of a company, has its own company, and the company has better development prospects. The reason why I choose to go abroad to select high-quality sperm is to give birth to a high-quality baby, and in terms of Ye Haiyang's parenting model for children in recent years, it is actually not lost to any two-parent family.
On Ye Haiyang's Weibo, she often posted herself and her daughter's daily life, and wrote a lot of family letters to her daughter, all of which revealed the hopes she placed on her daughter. Last year, Ye Haiyang threw out an explosive message that he was already preparing for a second child, and the video at the time also said that it had spent 160,000 yuan, and also revealed that the second child was also a daughter.
Now Ye Haiyang's Weibo is still updating the daily life of her second child, from many photos, it can be seen that the stomach has begun to show pregnancy, and she also said that the sperm and the first child selected by the second child are from the same man, which shows how much she likes a child, and in order to have someone to accompany her eldest daughter, it is also painstaking.
Some netizens said, "Being a mother is addictive." Ye Haiyang may be in this situation, but she is definitely not a whim, her love and care for her children may be better than other mothers, and some people may say that it is because she has money, so she can provide better resources for her children. But in fact, she neglected a little, that is, her companionship with her children.
She almost gives her daughter time outside of work, how many people can do it? At present, many young parents, when working, give their children to the elderly at home to bring, wait until after work, return home will feel very tired, want to have a little time of their own, so most of them will choose to play mobile phones, or watch TV, very few parents will spend a day to accompany their children to play games, even if they really go to accompany children, most of the time is also while playing mobile phones, while coping with children, and did not achieve high-quality companionship, which is for children, On the contrary, it is harmful and unprofitable.
There are also many female netizens who mentioned that "like Ye Haiyang, cross the man to have a baby." "But in fact, this is unrealistic for most women, why do you say so?" Just take a look at the following.
First of all, in terms of economic conditions, Ye Haiyang spent 500,000 yuan in the first child, and does not include the subsequent parenting and education of her daughter, such economic conditions are not available to most women at present, even if it is lowered by one level, then it will cost at least double digits, and if there is not enough savings, then the subsequent parenting of children is also a major problem.
And Ye Haiyang has his own company, the economic conditions are better, and he can afford to pay these efforts, so it is relatively easy to deal with these. If you are an ordinary woman, I am afraid that I will be crushed.
The second is the care of the child, even if Ye Haiyang is a single mother, but Ye Haiyang has many good friends around her, and her parents are also with her, so she is not so worried about the care of her daughter. And from the video she sent, the child's personality is very cheerful, and it can be seen that the child who grew up in a loving environment has a face full of happiness.
Moreover, in the face of public opinion, Ye Haiyang herself, as the CEO of a company, can see that her personal ability is stronger, which also means that her psychological endurance will be stronger than other ordinary women, when after giving birth to a child, the whole network is almost not optimistic about her, and there are many negative comments, but she does not care, and she also responds with a very calm attitude on Weibo, which also harvests a lot of good feelings.
Just imagine, if you change to other women, in the face of bad evaluation, it will most likely become very depressed, and even affect the normal life of yourself and your children. But Ye Haiyang managed her and her children's lives well, silently responding to those who were not optimistic at the beginning.
Of course, Ye Haiyang is not without trouble, she is also worried that in the future, her daughter will ask her why she does not have a father, and she is also worried that the child cannot enjoy complete love, which is why she loves her child more wholeheartedly, it can be said that she is both a father and a mother, and the hardships of this are difficult to understand.
Therefore, it is not recommended to emulate Ye Haiyang's choice, there may be countless heartaches behind such a choice, but she did not reveal it. Every time I see the comments below her Weibo, there will be many women who say that they want to save money to study, and they will feel more worried, after all, once they take this step, there is no way back if they want to regret it.