At present, many people are discussing the problem of children's "precocious puberty", in fact, to say precocious puberty, the current post-10 children, the earliest mature should be Japanese children.
When I was traveling in Japan with my friends earlier, I met a group of girls in more mature clothes on the street, and I thought that they were at least in their early 20s, but later I found out that they were actually only twelve or thirteen years old, which was really quite shocking, because in our country, twelve or thirteen-year-old children only know how to play games, write homework, and worry about pocket money, but this group of children is more precocious than I imagined.
Later, after chatting with a friend in Japan, I learned that this was the norm in Japan, and Japan's post-10s children were precocious, but Japanese parents had become accustomed to it.
01 What are the aspects of precocious puberty in Japanese children?
The first is the dress, which can be clearly seen, the more mature girls you see on the streets of Japan, in fact, the real age is only in their early teens, obviously have a more mature dress, but the voice is very young, the contrast is great. On the other hand, our domestic children are still wearing school uniforms at this time, girls are wearing ponytails, and parents are not allowed to wear makeup, but Japanese parents do not care about this aspect, even if their children wear heavy makeup and perm their hair, they also feel normal.
Secondly, the ideological aspect, the contrast in this aspect is even more obvious, if you have chatted with Japanese post-10s children, you will find that their ideas are very advanced. For example, I talked to the japanese friend's child, she will take the initiative to mention her future mate selection, as well as her own concept of marriage and love, in her opinion, marriage must find good material conditions, as for the emotional aspect, it can be put in the second place, and even talked about if there is no suitable object, in fact, it is not impossible to choose Dink in the future.
For teenagers, it's surprising to say such a thing, after all, such thinking has exceeded the things they should consider at their current age. Our domestic children are relatively idealistic and will not think about things that far away for the time being. This may be affected by the social atmosphere, after all, Japan is in a more serious aging situation, all say that Japan has "low desire", which also leads to the thinking of children after 10 years deeply influenced.
In addition, many Japanese children after 10 have a higher degree of awareness of "sexual consciousness" and are more open, in Japan, in fact, there are few concepts of "male avoiding mother" and "female avoiding father", but in their view, there is nothing wrong with parents and children being close. Most japanese children have undergone a more comprehensive sexual education popularization, saying that Japan is the most "open" country in Asia, which is not unreasonable.
Even so, we do not talk about which country's education is better, because the development model of the country is different, the process of social development is also different, and people's living habits and life concepts are more different, so the education given to children is naturally different.
I have to admit that there is a big gap between Japanese children and our domestic children, but it can be said that domestic children are more energetic and more energetic, which is still very gratifying.
There are also many people who are discussing whether they should carry out comprehensive sex education for domestic children, in fact, in response to this, there are still more people who are supportive, especially the current new generation of young parents, who are more concerned about the full popularization of children's sexual awareness.
Previously, a kindergarten in Chongqing did a questionnaire survey and found that over the years, parents have paid more and more attention to their children's sex education, and they have indeed conducted sex education.
The problem is that many parents do not know how to carry out comprehensive sex education for their children, some are embarrassed to carry out, thinking that children may understand it when they grow up, and even some school biology teachers will find it difficult to talk about when they talk about similar physiological courses, and sometimes they will directly blur a line, which is actually not conducive to the full formation of children's sexual consciousness system.
From the child's three years old can be the child's sexual education enlightenment, starting from books, videos, animations and other forms, as the child grows up, and then continue to popularize this aspect of the child's knowledge, small to the reproductive parts of the health care, large to self-protection awareness, each must be popularized to the child, so that it is more conducive to guiding the child to walk on the right path of growth, and may also improve the child's self-protection awareness, reduce the occurrence of dangerous situations.
Conclusion: Japan's post-10s children's "precocious puberty", is the result of the role of social climate, in this context, how domestic parents should educate their children has also become the key, for the different personalities of children, the implementation of different educational methods, rather than using a unified template to copy and paste to the children, so that the education of children is difficult to have great achievements.