Lead:
A healthy romantic relationship should be based on equality, love, and mutual respect. Anyone who suppresses or tramples on the other party in the name of love is not love!
The so-called PUA is not what everyone imagines the art of hooking up, the art of communication and so on.
It is an immoral act of squeezing your feelings and even money through "brainwashing" and "mind control"!
First, the common PUA routine in love
Step 1: Shape the human set-up and attract the "prey"!
He will disguise himself as a "prodigal son who has been hurt by love", or a "successful person with a successful career", or a "love field white", to stimulate the curiosity and exploration of his prey.
During the chat process, they will flexibly match their own personalities according to the information provided by the prey.
Step 2: Subvert the human design and stimulate the "compassion" of the prey!
After the prey is hooked, show his vulnerability to the other party, reveal the softest place in the heart, subvert the human design, let the prey mistakenly think that he has a special status in his mind, and arouse his sympathy.
Step 3: Implicit confession in exchange for conditions!
They do not take the initiative to confess, but guide each other to confess through some inducements. Then he binds him to an emotional contract, causing his prey to agree to his various conditions.
Step 4: Amplify each other's mistakes and destroy each other's self-esteem!
In the process of falling in love, he will deliberately amplify the mistakes and lies of the other party, in order to make him fall into a deep sense of guilt.
Let the other party continue to blame and regret, and gradually lose reason and judgment in the collapse.
Step 5: "Emotional abuse" to make the target person resigned
Through a series of emotional brainwashing and suppression in the early stage, the other party will willingly spend money for him and dedicate everything for him, thus plunging the victim into the abyss of doom.
Second, the heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without
A healthy relationship should be good, and all acts of hurting others in the name of love are unforgivable!
Because it is you, because we believe in love, we will always subconsciously choose to trust.
But there is no shortage of sinister and ghostly people in this world, who don't love you and come to hurt you.
People who are deeply involved in the game will only get deeper and deeper, and only outsiders know how outrageous this relationship seems.
Falling in love is a happy and self-motivated thing, if you feel humble in a relationship and your bottom line drops again and again, please run away!
Conclusion:
Among all sentient beings, sometimes you can't tell whether some people are human or ghost.
The only thing we can do is to protect ourselves and maintain a sane heart while being kind.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, don't always "love the brain" when in love, polish your eyes, and use the golden eyes of fire to identify the demons and ghosts in the world. Then, stay away from them!