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"Ace Troops" a wedding, Gu Yiye poked his two "human settings", reborn but unchanged
With the completion of the wedding with Ah Xiu, Gu Yiye's youth years officially came to an end, after which he realized his ideals, more of the identity and responsibility of other people's husbands and fathers.
Many viewers are always struggling with the question of love and non-love, but for Gu Yiye, he may want to understand the difference between love and love at the moment of decision.
Sorghum said that for the sake of Ah Xiu and Xiao Fei, Gu Yiye completed a rebirth, and also let many people be reborn once.
This is the meaning of Gu Yiye's behavior, the heroic part and the tragic part, and the meaning produced by his behavior is never in himself, or in a specific person, but in the entire environment, and even radiates farther.
We can accept that Gu Yiye came to this world with a mission, so we can't just accept this slogan, but accept his actions.
What he did, in a shallow sense, was to take care of the widow of the old platoon leader, and moreover, the guilt of himself was also a kind of redemption. But the practical significance is far greater than this, Gu Yiye taught all people who can only play lip service kung fu, what is meaningful sadness, what is effective responsibility.
In this wedding, Gu Yiye broke his two personalities, which may also be the biggest misunderstanding of himself in this life, one is that he is not very good at talking, and the other is that Xiaofei "recognizes me very much".
The phrase "not very good at talking" is more like a habitual self-effacing. In fact, Gu Yiye is too good at talking, not the kind of speaking that is fluent in language and accurate in wording; it is the kind that has a clear purpose and a precise rhythm, making people irresistible, and obediently following his train of thought.
Fortunately, Gu Yiye is kind-hearted, and the purpose of "persuasion" is to benefit others, otherwise this level of language use and the control of people's minds and emotions will trick people into doing bad things.
During the wedding stage, Gu Yiye said two paragraphs to Ah Xiu, and the purpose was very clear. Before the wedding, he took his father's inability to attend the wedding as a starting point in order to dispel Ah Xiu's inferiority complex and explain why he wanted to be with Ah Xiu.
Everyone knows that this marriage did not start with love, Gu Yiye did not say directly, you can not live without me, you have to thank me well, nor cheat, saying how much he loves her.
He put Ah Xiu in the position of "giving", gently described his gains in this relationship, and let Ah Xiu also become an active participant in this relationship.
Even sincerely analyzing his past with Jiangnan Zheng, from the parents, to the past, to the gap between the two sides, to the meaning of marriage, a little bit to dispel Ah Xiu's multi-faceted concerns.
As for Ah Xiu, many people feel that if she really knows what Gu Yiye gave up, she should take the initiative to refuse. But how to say it, for a girl like Ah Xiu who grew up in the mountains, she may really not understand what Gu Yiye has lost.
And in her values, the greatest reward may be to take care of each other and take care of her in the second half of her life, so there will be a situation of treating Gu Yiye as another son.
Coupled with the fact that Gu Yiye was so good at speaking, Ah Xiu must have slowly believed that his reward was indeed beneficial to Gu Yiye.
So Gu Yiye said that when he felt that he was not worthy of Ah Xiu, Ah Xiu also retorted in particular seriousness, "I think you are particularly good", does this use you to comfort (crying and laughing can not be .jpg).
The second paragraph is the wedding scene, he put himself in front of everyone, put himself in the "shame", put Ah Xiu in the position of paying, this time I am afraid that not only Ah Xiu, many people present will believe that Gu Yiye is really happy.
People like Gu Yiye are simply the standard of mate selection, and he will use the silent gentleness of moisturizers to make you become confident and better unconsciously. So to interject a digression, whether it is love or friendship in the interaction with people, when you find that the other party often demeans you, immediately how far to run.
There is a saying that is very true, happiness is not a state, happiness is an ability. Looking back at Qin Hanyong and Zhao Hongying, looking at Xia Lin and Han Chunyu, their stories all started with love, but the state of getting along was not necessarily happy.
Excellence is a habit, and excellence is also three-dimensional. Let us believe that Gu Yiye can find a way to make himself and others happy in love, love, family and responsibility.
Speaking of the second point, I never expected that Xiao Fei, who "specially recognized him" in Gu Yiye's mouth, was the most resistant person to this wedding, and even refused to change his surname many times.
To be honest, if it weren't for this child, Gu Yiye might not have made this decision. He may believe that Ah Xiu can remarry and be happy, but when he sees XiaoFei, it is equivalent to the continuation of the old squad leader's life, how can he rest assured that he will give the old squad leader's flesh and bones to an unknown and strange family to raise.
Gu Yiye is a man, men know men best, that era and the environment that Ah Xiu is in, there are a few men who can regard other people's widows as their own, sorghum will coax Xiaofei to be happy, and said that the son wants to give birth to himself, others may not even bother to coax.
It is precisely because Gu Yiye knows that he is a minority of people who are not understood, so he believes that only he can bear this responsibility.
But Xiaofei did not understand, for him Gu Yiye may be an uncle who visits his relatives once or twice a year, and he thinks that he lives under the aura of the hero's father in the village, in fact, he does not know that this aura is supported by this Uncle Gu.
But Gu Yiye has not told Xiaofei about this patience and dedication, because in his opinion, he is too tired to live, if he can, he does not want Xiaofei to be like him, sometimes it is also a kind of happiness to not understand things.
Looking at Sorghum's monologue again, Gu Yiye was reborn, indeed reborn, from the petrel teenager in the sun, reincarnated as a man who carefully healed his family.
But in fact, Gu Yiye has never changed, when he picked a skirt for Ah Xiu for the squad leader, Gu Yiye said that love is for her to like, in the face of the old squad leader's rebuttal, the current Gu Yiye seems to accept, but in fact, all the way down, he is always giving them what they like and want.
Not everyone can meet love, have a marriage with love for a long time, excellent as Gu Yiye may also have to lack such a piece in his life, but still that sentence, it is better to have regrets than regrets In the things they care about most, the ideal will not fail Gu Yiye.
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