Opening remarks: After Gu Yiye withdrew, the relationship between Sorghum and Jiangnan Zheng was even more distant, why did the love between the two twist and turn?
Sorghum and Jiangnan Expedition
On the surface, the reason is simple: Sorghum does not want to take advantage of the danger, and the Jiangnan Expedition needs time to recover.
It can even be explained that because the plot needs, in order to attract the audience, the love of the male and female protagonists must be dragged out to the end to see the difference.
But maybe there are other reasons, let's take a quick guess together.
Jiangnan March and Sorghum
01, it is difficult to "put down" the Jiangnan Expedition
It can be felt that the screenwriter wants to shape the big heroine of Jiang Nanzheng into a woman with a broad heart who can afford to put it down.
Unfortunately, the writers did not get their wish. What do you think?
In the early stage, Jiang Nanzheng desperately ran wildly towards Gu Yiye, which was very real:
Living and escaping is the beginning of a girl's feelings, putting a good boy in her heart and doing her best to be good to him.
So, the verse written on the handkerchief, the anti-fever medicine, the eye drops, the socks, every bit of it is an expression of her love.
This relationship is very sweet and beautiful, and it is a unique gift of that year.
Gu Yiye and Jiangnan Zheng
The first breakup was proposed by Jiang Nanzheng, and it also caused Gu Yiye to make a major mistake in the exercise.
Just because of Zhao Hongying's sentence: If you really understand what love is and really care about it, then please protect it well. Love, as I understand it, is that I would rather destroy myself than destroy it.
But later Gu Yiye asked Jiang Nanzheng to help choose a red dress, so that this relationship was rekindled.
The war of life and death made life and death overwhelm all scruples.
Gu Yiye's post-traumatic stress syndrome has gradually pushed this relationship into the abyss.
parted
Gu Yiye's reason for Jiangnan Zheng was: You are the daughter of the division commander.
Jiang Nanzheng is different from Gu Yiye, she is more emotional, so this period of "letting go" takes a long time.
In the years of time, Jiang Nanzheng understood that this was not the real reason, but she did not want to ask.
Just like she herself said: He doesn't say, I don't ask, this may be a tacit understanding between me and him. This tacit understanding makes me feel that I have gained a kind of nobility in life, and I cherish this nobility.
This sentence is her last farewell to this feeling, there is nostalgia, there is room, there is no mercy that does not care, but the process is long, it is a long time.
"Letting go" years later
02, the inertial mode of getting along between people makes it more difficult to "take it"
Being able to put it down does not mean that it can be taken.
For Jiang Nanzheng, Sorghum was once a witness to her love with Gu Yiye, or even an escort, which made "turning the rudder" extremely difficult.
In Jiangnan Zheng's heart, it seems that it is natural to take the initiative to approach Gu Yine;
But for sorghum, she had to stand where she was, watching sorghum rush toward him.
Perhaps, this is the mode of getting along between the three people, thanks to inertia.
Three young people
Two years later, when she graduated from the Army Academy, Sorghum said to her: If I can, I want to take the world's atomic bombs and blow your heart open. Some things will never change in a lifetime, for example, I like a girl named Jiang Nanzheng, who will never change.
It was another three years, and Jiang Nanzheng visited Sorghum, and he said to her: Then you chase your technology well, and I chase you.
But Jiang Nanzheng replied: Thank you for being so good to me.
Sorghum can only say: I like you is my own business.
Confession of sorghum
In our eyes, these sorghum are already taking the initiative, but Jiang Nanzheng feels that it is not enough.
At Gu Yiye's wedding, Sorghum went to pick up Jiangnan Zheng, and he said: When are you going to be my bride?
Jiang Nanzheng said: Don't make trouble, it's too late.
I would like to ask Jiang Nanzheng, what does the "initiative" you want to look like?
It was only when Sorghum's career and health went wrong that he caught him in turn, so why bother.
Such a "can't afford" personality, how can it not make the feelings twist and turn?
Confess again
03, while sorghum is maturing, why has the concept of love become less cute than before?
Simply put, because love needs a word, called "righteousness without remorse."
Sorghum went from a stunned little soldier to climbing the ladder of career, and people gradually matured.
He gradually learned to look ahead and gradually began to associate "like" with "reality".
At the same time, Jiang Nanzheng was like a sun, rising higher and higher in his heart, making him look up but did not dare to look directly.
Dodging of sorghum
A mature mindset allowed him to learn to be inferior, to measure and match.
When he says, "I don't think I'm good enough right now," the original "righteousness" has died in his misgiving.
Therefore, when his career is frustrated, when his body collapses, it is even more impossible for him to stop desperately pulling Jiangnan Zheng;
So the sorghum that was once free is not so cute;
As a result, his dodging also "added bricks and tiles" to the twists and turns of their feelings.
Sorghum's inferiority complex
Conclusion:
Nor should love say "together" when it is "redeemed";
To seize the opportunity to go in both directions is the emotion of happiness.
Two people are not crisp enough, how can the feelings not be twisted and turned?