Brothers and sisters, who are their own siblings, should be the closest to each other.
But once they have their own families, they become two real families.
It is common for brothers and sisters to interact more than to come and go, especially in front of their parents, and they want to suppress each other.
When people are old, they understand that the interaction between brothers and sisters actually has additional conditions.
Brothers and sisters, there is no too competitive heart
Between brothers and sisters, if the heart is too heavy, too competitive, sooner or later will be like a stranger.
Some short-sighted brothers and sisters like to compare with each other when they get along.
Compare family circumstances, compare houses, compare cars, compare children, compare work, compare who has a better life, who has a future, who has more money...
Compare and go, look at each other and hate each other.
The one who wins begins to look up at the top and looks down on the one who loses; the one who loses begins to be resentful and depressed.
In the end, no matter who it is, it is actually a loss.
Brothers and sisters have the closest blood affection, but also the closest people in the world, for father and mother hope that brothers and sisters can help each other, rather than compare with each other.
Embarrassing brothers and sisters, not the ability, pulling brothers and sisters forward, is the most powerful!
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Brothers and sisters, no matter how close they are, they must also settle accounts
Brothers and sisters, we must clearly settle the account, and do not pretend to be confused on money.
Especially when we are in difficult times, brothers and sisters lend us money, we must know how to return.
Don't take the efforts of your brothers and sisters for granted; don't take the support of your brothers and sisters as the cost should be.
Brothers and sisters have their own families, and we must not embarrass them for our own interests; we must not take advantage of them because of our own embarrassment.
Brothers and sisters get along, if you owe a debt, you must know how to return it, and if you borrow money, don't be reasonable.
If you are close as a brother and sister, you must also carry it out in money. After all, everyone's money is changed by sweat.
Without the entanglement of money and wealth, without the grievances of money, brothers and sisters will get along more harmoniously; the feelings of brothers and sisters will be more long-lasting.
Brothers and sisters, they all value affection between each other
Parents are around, brothers and sisters are a family, parents are not around, brothers and sisters are blood relatives.
Parents want two, or even more children, and don't want to see them turn against each other. Instead, they want their children to help each other, to see their respective families thrive.
Brotherhood is connected by blood, is the expectation left by parents, and is the embodiment of true feelings in the world.
If we value family affection between each other, rest assured of the expectations of our parents, take each other's concern seriously, tolerate each other, and help each other more, the feelings of brothers and sisters can become more and more intense.
Interacting with siblings is actually the run-in of two families, and when there are disputes and disputes, we must know how to take the initiative to resolve and take the initiative to get closer to each other.
The fate between brothers and sisters is the fate of playing from childhood to adulthood, and it is an extraordinarily rare fate in this world.
Praise, only by cherishing it well and respecting it more can we be long-lasting and stable all year round.
Author: Wuming, Source: Uncle Wuming.