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I suspect that the baby is too abrasive to learn, and her father is so angry that he wants to beat people! The 8-year-old boy dodged with a pencil in his hand straight into the back of his head

Jimu news reporter Liu Xun

Correspondent Gao Chenchen

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Father and son quarreled when writing homework, the father was so angry that he reached out to beat the baby, and the child raised his hand to block it, but still held a sharpened pencil in his hand. As a result, the tip of the pen was inserted obliquely into the back of the head, just a few millimeters from the spinal canal. At Wuhan Children's Hospital, after overnight emergency surgery, the child finally turned around. On January 10, experts from Wuhan Children's Hospital reminded parents to learn to control their emotions, and emotional outbursts will not help solve the problem.

The 8-year-old boy Jump jumps (pseudonym) and is a second-grade elementary school student. Near the end of the term, my parents prepared some revision questions for jumping to consolidate exercises. On the evening of December 31 last year, after Jumping finished writing his homework, his father checked and found that the accuracy rate was good, but the handwriting was too messy, so he asked him to rewrite the scrawled part of the neat. Jumping was reluctant and forced to sit honestly at his desk. According to dad's recollection, the child will play with the eraser for a while, find a ruler for a while, and rub it for half a day and refuse to write. Dad, who had been standing behind him, looked at him without hitting, and raised his hand to prepare to hit people. Jumping and seeing that his father was angry and about to hit him, he immediately raised his hand to block his father, but he held the pencil he had just cut in his hand, and just like that, the pencil was inserted obliquely into the back of his head.

I suspect that the baby is too abrasive to learn, and her father is so angry that he wants to beat people! The 8-year-old boy dodged with a pencil in his hand straight into the back of his head

Mom and Dad were immediately frightened and quickly sent Jump to Wuhan Children's Hospital. When Xu Jump was delivered to the emergency department of the hospital at 8 o'clock, he was conscious, his limbs were reacting normally, and there was no obvious blood on the surface of the wound on the back of his head. Doctors quickly received him to neurosurgery and began preparing for emergency surgery.

At 11 p.m., the surgery begins. Huang Wenkai, a neurosurgeon at the hospital, found that the pencil entered from the occipital part of the child's head, crossed obliquely to the right side of the neck, and entered the body for about 7 centimeters, fortunately not inserted into the skull. But the situation is still dangerous – the pencil is only a few millimeters away from the spinal canal, and the vertebral artery is near the pencil. If the spinal canal is broken, the child may be paralyzed, and if the artery is injured, the child's life is in danger on the spot.

I suspect that the baby is too abrasive to learn, and her father is so angry that he wants to beat people! The 8-year-old boy dodged with a pencil in his hand straight into the back of his head

On the operating table, Dr. Huang Wenkai carefully removed the pencil in its entirety, and because he was worried about the increased risk of infection in the body of graphite or wood chips residue, he repeatedly rinsed the trauma channel and injected tetanus needles for anti-infection and debridement treatment. After a day of treatment and observation in the ICU, on January 2, Jump was successfully transferred to the general ward.

"The child is very lucky that the pencil is not inserted into the skull, otherwise the risk of infection is greatly increased." Du Hao, director of the Department of Neurosurgery of Wuhan Children's Hospital, introduced that before, the hospital also received a boy who ran while eating, chopsticks inserted into the skull after wrestling, and girls with snack bamboo sticks inserted directly into the bottom of the tongue, the treatment process is very thrilling, and some parents have pulled out foreign bodies before seeking medical treatment, which is absolutely prohibited and very dangerous.

I suspect that the baby is too abrasive to learn, and her father is so angry that he wants to beat people! The 8-year-old boy dodged with a pencil in his hand straight into the back of his head

Afterwards, parents confessed that they "regretted it" and were worried about leaving psychological shadows on their children. Du Hao reminded that parents are prone to emotional breakdown and anger when tutoring their children's homework, and the catharsis and outbreak of this emotion will not help the tutoring homework, and there may be unexpected situations like this. There is no danger to life like jumping is a blessing in misfortune, otherwise parents will regret it.

Du Hao suggested that parents should pay attention to controlling their own pressure and emotions, rather than letting children "do the problem itself", it is more important to let children have "enough independent, calm thinking and problem-solving ability", calmly accompany children, when they repeatedly show the distress of parents on homework problems, parents can press their impulses to try to reprimand or educate them, try to think and pay attention to the reasons behind them, from the essence to help the child. At the same time, for young children, parents should establish good family rules, repeatedly do a good job of safety reminders, such as pens, knives and forks, sticks and other items have safety hazards, such as running around must pay attention to, not to mention running with things in their mouths to prevent accidents.

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