The TV series "Perfect Partner" is being broadcast, in which Gao Yuanyuan plays chen shan, an elite female lawyer.
As soon as Chen Shan appeared, she was a capable workplace style, which made it easy to associate with the setting of "White Bone Essence". Usually, such "white bone essences" are all rooted in the work, for the sake of career unscrupulous means, most of the elderly unmarried, a small number of married regardless of the family.
But Chen Shan's appearance completely changed this traditional impression.
Chen Shan is the "desperate three ladies" in the law firm, and she can work without eating or resting, which is like AI. She also worked hard to "balance family and career", her daughter jumped suspected of food poisoning, and Chen Shan's worries were all written on her face.
The most important thing is that in the play, Chen Shan and Sun Lei (Zhang Luyi) can be called textbooks for their children's education methods.
After jumping and pretending to be sick to the hospital, Chen Shan put down her work and rushed to follow, she rushed into the ward to see that jumping was okay, and she was angry and loudly criticized jumping.
Turning out of the ward, Chen Shan, who had calmed down, said to Jump, "It is not your mother who is wrong to be angry with you in public, but this matter is that you did it wrong." ”
In the cognition of many parents, as long as the child does not do it right, there is an absolute commanding height to blame the child, criticize the child, and even use any extreme way.
Chen Shan's words put parents and children in a very equal position, "getting angry is the mother's fault" and "pretending to be sick is the child's fault", even the parents do not have the right to "absolute sanctions".
Subsequently, Jump sent a doll to Chen Shan and wished her mother a "happy birthday in the lunar calendar". Chen Shan felt a little sorry for the child, but she also had to follow up on the big project at the other end, so she said to Jump, "Mom likes your gift, but Mom has to be busy." ”
"You can't hold you when you pick up a brick, and you can't support you when you put down a brick." This is the inner portrayal of many working mothers in society. It is undeniable that working mothers are hard, but many mothers are accustomed to complaining about this pain and ignoring the desires in their children's hearts.
Chen Shan can't completely put down her work and hug her daughter, but her sentence "Mother likes your gift" before going to work affirms her daughter's approach and thanks her daughter for her efforts, so that her daughter will not question herself because of her mother's work.
On the other hand, Sun Lei also attaches great importance to communication with children.
Chen Shan closed work, Sun Lei jumped to Jingjing's house barbecue, seeing jingjing's loss without his father's company, Sun Lei pretended to praise the jingjing family's barbecue stove, jingjing said: "This is the father let people send it in the morning." ”
Sun Lei took this opportunity to tell Jingjing: "You see, although Dad is not there, he has always cared about you, right?" ”
This sentence may be spoken by everyone, but not necessarily everyone can say it. Just like Wu Min, in fact, she is also trying to establish a positive image for her husband in front of her children, but she rarely expresses it.
Children do not speculate like adults, what they hear and see, they will naturally think what it is, even if it expresses the love of parents, it is very important for the growth of children.
Later, there was a little episode during the barbecue, and in order to educate the naughty boy, Sun Lei kicked the boy's ball away. The boy called his mother to explain the reason, the mother apologized according to the boy, and Sun Lei also sincerely apologized for his behavior.
Parents are the child's enlightenment teachers, and at the age when they are most likely to imitate, the words and deeds of parents will always subtly affect the child.
Chen Shan and Sun Lei's education methods have achieved a good personality of jumping, so even if it is the father who often accompanies the jumping, the jumping will not ignore the mother. The description in her little essay can clearly glimpse this love.
The good personality of jumping is inseparable from Chen Shan and Sun Lei's proper way of education, and communication with children is also an art, I don't know if parents and friends have practiced it according to the lines in the play?