2022 can be described as the explosive year of middle-aged film and television works, from the "Xiao Min Family" that has just finished and aroused the audience's hot discussion to the popular "Happiness Duo" and "Perfect Partner", which are now popular, they all tell the choices and attitudes of middle-aged people in this era facing career, love, and family marriage.
"The Perfect Partner" is about two families, two couples, how to balance family and career, is a modern social environment, with practical significance and topic discussion of the work.
However, judging from the currently broadcast episodes, the discussion on how to balance the topic of family and career, the performance in the play is still too superficial, most of which is supported by lines, but it is Zhang Luyi's father Sun Lei's view of his daughter's education, which has become a highlight of the play.
There is a plot in which Sun Lei takes his daughter to jump to Wu Min's house as a guest, they are barbecued in the courtyard, and the children next door play football and hit the barbecue grill, and sparks splash around and make Wu Min's hands burn.
Sun Lei asked the child to apologize to Wu Min, and the child next door, Gao Zhiyang, felt that he was right, refused to apologize, and pointed at Sun Lei and said, My parents don't care about me, what do you rely on to point fingers.
As the saying goes, if you are not afraid of mischievous children, you are afraid of uncultured bear children. In real life, presumably this kind of child should be the most headache for parents, when your tolerance and rationality meet their unreasonable trouble, they should be at a loss.
However, the way Sun Lei is handled in the play makes people feel relieved, and at the same time makes people feel that they have the significance of learning and learning.
In the face of such a bear child without tutoring, Sun Lei first of all is not reasonable, but to fight back in a for tat way, and immediately kicked the soccer ball, saying I didn't see your soccer ball, you didn't see the barbecue grill, the child was anxious, called out to the mother.
Judging from Sun Lei's behavior at that time, it was indeed excessive, but it was also a good way.
The mother is a reasonable parent, let the child apologize to them, and at this time Sun Lei's response is also very generous, taking the initiative to admit his mistake, saying that as an adult, he is also wrong, should not play flying football, and finally apologized to the child.
Sun Lei's best move is to teach the two little boys in the play a lesson in the image of a mature man, leading by example, apologizing for doing wrong, no matter adults and children, dare to be a man. At the same time, it also shows that mothers who dot on two children are principled, and that not being weak and doting on their children is the right way to educate their children.
As well as jumping writing essays, the title is my violent mother, this "violence" is a positive word.
She wrote that my father said that my mother's violence against me was to make me a useful person to society in the future, to be violent at work, to make time to accompany me; to be violent to bad people, so that more people would not be violent.
Sun Lei praised her, and her father only told her a little, and he played so well that he could write these words, indicating that Sun Lei educated his children very well.
Jump has a workaholic mother, busy for more than a month can not have dinner with the child; early out and late home, back home the child has fallen asleep, for a long time can not say goodnight to the child, even the child wants to give the mother a birthday, have to lie to their sick hospitalized mother will put down the work appear.
It is conceivable how much the child desires maternal love, and for other children, there will definitely be complaints and rebellion. And the jumping and dancing in the play is cheerful, well-behaved and sensible, and the mother is busy with work and can understand, obediently waiting for the mother to come home.
From the content of the composition, it can be seen that Sun Lei taught the child to love and tolerate, in the case that the mother can not accompany the child, explain to the child that Ann's mother works to make our family live better, and it is not easy to love the mother and tolerate the mother's work.
For example, Sun Lei made a dish, Jing Jing first stole the dish and said it was delicious, and Wu Min said that his son was very rude.
Sun Lei told Wu Min that he should set up fewer rules and regulations for his children, don't suppress his nature, and what he needs most now is the courage and self-confidence of a boy. Jing Jing lacked the company of his father for many years, and even his sick and hospitalized father could not be present.
The absence of fatherly love has caused Jing Jing to feel insecure and cower in everything he does. Sun Lei, a parenting expert, also realized Jingjing's problems and taught him to swim and learn to be brave and confident.
Sun Lei is a wet dad in the play, a housework child with a handbag, giving up the opportunity for promotion and salary increase for the family. Maybe some people say that he has no sense of enterprise, a bit of a nest, and wants to mix in the unit for a lifetime.
But do not deny that he is a good father, he has a correct view of parenting, he is patient with his children, understands children, makes children become confident and sensible, who dares to say that he is not a good father?