It has been six years since the birth of his son, and he has never expected his son to call me a father, and his son is always immersed in his own world and does not intersect with other people, and everything around him seems to have nothing to do with him. Because my son has "autism", I know that treatment is difficult and it may take a lifetime to cure, but I can't give up. Because I am the father, the father of the child!
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What makes me even more uneasy in my heart is that I feel particularly sorry for my old father, after I got married, I did not let his old man feel the blessing of his children and grandchildren around his knees, so old, but also tired his old man day and night, borrowing money everywhere, working hard to earn money to treat his children.
My name is Wang Ruijia, my son is called Wang Xianwen, and my family lives in a small village in Nanyang City, Henan Province, because my family conditions are poor, I dropped out of school early to work, and because of the poor conditions at home, I became an older youth. Later, he was introduced to his wife, Sister Nguyen Thi Thi. After marriage, we gave birth to a big fat boy. Looking at his son's chubby little face, the family was not to mention how happy they were. The arrival of our son has added a lot of joy and laughter to our family, my wife takes care of the children on weekdays, I rely on odd jobs to maintain the family, although the family is not rich, but it is also happy and healthy with diligent hands. But the happy time is so short, and it comes to an abrupt end in the year when the child is 3 years old.
When the child is more than one year old, he cannot speak and does not understand any form of communication. I thought the child was developing slowly, but the situation did not change until the age of 3. After feeling that something was wrong, I took my child to the hospital, and after various tests, the child was diagnosed with autism (aka autism), which is often referred to as "children from the stars".
The doctor told me: "At present, there is no good treatment plan for autistic patients, and can only be improved by intervention training, psychotherapy and training life skills, and the earlier this rehabilitation treatment, the sooner the child can be cured." After I heard the doctor's words, my head was momentarily confused. Since then, the whole family has lost the joy and laughter of the past.
In order to make the child's physical condition change as soon as possible, we went to Zhengzhou and Beijing major hospitals for consultation, and the doctor still recommended that the child do rehabilitation treatment. In order to save some money, we returned to the local hospital with the child. I was alone with my child for treatment, and all the financial resources were on the old father. I have also had a breakdown, despair, once wanted to give up treatment for him, but I am the father of the child, since the child came to me, I can not easily say give up, I want to shoulder the obligation and responsibility of being a father.
Because I have been doing rehabilitation for my children outside for many years, the family's economic income has always relied on the old father to farm and grow vegetables for a living, in order to save more for treatment, these days my old father works overtime to dig sweet potatoes in the field. Looking at his calloused hands and white hair, I felt guilty. But even so, we still can't afford the child's current treatment fees.
For more than a year, I have been training my children in mental sandbox, handicrafts, language, aba behavior and other courses. Although he still can't call Dad, he has made some progress. Sometimes, the child would suddenly jump into my arms and hug me, although it was only for a few seconds, but it gave me hope. Your child's recovery process is slow, but if it stops, it will quickly go back. But what makes me extremely distressed is that in order to treat my children, the family's savings have long been spent.
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