Seeing such a sentence in the circle of friends, I felt very deeply:
"The reason why I can't let go of a person is because in addition to love, there are also deep attachments and memories in my heart."
Yes, people who have loved with their hearts, if they can say forget, forget, say to let go, let go.
Falling in love with someone may be easy, and it only takes a twinkle in the eye to spark a spark.
After the cuteness, I want to forget a person, but it is not an overnight thing.
When two people are together, how deeply you love, how slowly you forget.
Even if you have been separated, the past will still inadvertently blur your eyes.
If you can't put down a person, you will often have the following 3 kinds of performance, and you can't hide it.
Reluctant to delete the other person's contact information
Some people will delete or block all of each other's contact information immediately after the breakup;
I wish the other person had never appeared in his life.
It seems decisive and resolute, but it is a manifestation of self-deception.
Loved ones, where you delete the contact information, you can draw a line with the past.
I have met people who, even though they have been breaking up with each other for more than half a year, still have each other's contact information on their mobile phones.
In the beginning, I was not used to it.
When encountering fun and interesting things, you will still think of each other at the first time and want to share them with each other;
But when I finished typing and was ready to send it, I realized that the two people had broken up.
So, immediately delete the text I just entered in the dialog box one by one.
After gradually getting used to it, I still can't help but peek at each other's circle of friends every three or five minutes.
Want to know the other person's dynamics, want to know if he is doing well.
I have also wanted to delete the other party's contact information many times, but when I clicked delete the pop-up confirmation or not, I would still be reluctant.
I was afraid that I would delete it myself, and I would really never have contact with you again.
So, even if you have been separated for a long time, your contact information is still retained on your mobile phone.
Will secretly inquire about your news
In Love in the Time of Cholera, Alyssa is obsessed with Fermina's life.
Even if the other party is already married, he still silently pays attention to the other party.
But it was only a concern that never disturbed Fermina's happiness.
From youth to twilight old people.
Alyssa never gave up on this love and affection.
Fortunately, although they missed the first half of their lives, in the second half of their lives, they finally drew a satisfactory end to this regrettable relationship.
You see, people who have loved deeply will really make people worry about it for a lifetime.
Maybe I didn't get a good result with you, but after I separated, I still couldn't help but secretly pay attention to you.
When friends are gathering, they will pretend to ask you inadvertently;
It seems that it doesn't matter, I really put it down, but my heart is still worried.
I am afraid that you will not have a good life after leaving yourself, and I am afraid that you will live too well after leaving yourself.
But whether you're good or bad, he won't bother again.
After all, you are already in the past tense.
It's hard to accept a new relationship again
Zhang Ailing said:
"I thought love could fill the regrets of life. However, what creates more regrets is love. ”
Indeed, the matter of love is sometimes really unclear.
Many people thought at the beginning that this life was her.
But you love and love, but you are still scattered by people.
But even if they are separated in the end, their hearts still cannot be easily put down.
As He Yichen said in the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo":
"If there has ever been that person in the world, someone else has become a general.
And I don't want to settle for it. ”
Some people have a very narrow heart and can only hold one person in their lifetime.
If you are unfortunate enough to miss you, then the rest of your life will be complete.
Even if the people around you are excellent, they can't collide with the spark.
Yes, some people who have loved deeply are a lifetime when they turn around.
Even if there is no fate to the end, the heart will still leave a corner for the other party.
Feelings are probably the most beautiful thing in the world, and they are also the most torturous.
We can't control a person's heart, but for a person who can't continue to be together,
All we have to do is let go of it, so that we can start choosing our own life again.