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In this world, there is more light and fluttering love, more dew love, men and women meet by chance, as long as they reach each other's will, they can start a relationship, the two sides do not have to bear any responsibility, and if they do not get together, they will disperse.
Some people treat you simply out of desire, do not really move their hearts at all, turn around and merge into the crowd, and when the two people never see each other again.
Some people are still talking sweet words today, tomorrow they will not love if they don't love, and their hearts are getting cheaper and cheaper, and it is difficult to meet the love of one or two people in a lifetime.
Few people are willing to pursue a person in years, to wait for a person, as long as the other party does not respond for a long time, then turn around and invest in the next goal.
Lip service says that he loves someone, but he has no patience to wait, everyone is roaring and rushing forward, always feeling that there are better people in front of them, and it is not worth stopping for a person.
Even if yesterday was still in love with deep affection, he turned around and went to the arms of the new love, not remembering the old man at all. This is a state that most people will have, and it is rare to hear that kind of long-term waiting love affair.
Ask the person next to you, "How long will you wait for someone?" "It's hard to hear that touching answer anymore.
Especially for men, it is difficult for them to stay for a person, it is difficult to wait for a long time for a love, and it is difficult to love hastily separated, which is the norm of their feelings.
Therefore, women do not dare to easily believe in the love in men's mouths, and dare not believe in the so-called true love.
True love is never said with one mouth, but by action to find answers. Never listen to what men say, but see how they do it.
In fact, if a man completely loves a person deeply, he is willing to wait for a long time, and this is the deepest concern of men.
People who have seen the world famous book "Love in the Time of Cholera" will surely be moved by this love that spans half a century.
The book tells the story of a long-awaited waiting, Alyssa and Fermina met when they were young, and they had a secret affection for each other, and in the beautiful years, Alyssa fell in love with Fermina at first sight and began a passionate pursuit.
Lang has a concubine intention, which should have been a sweet fate, but the two people are different, Fermina's husband dislikes Alyssa as an ordinary telegraph clerk, feels that he is humble and unworthy of his daughter, and tries to break up the two people.
Later, Fermina married Urbino, a doctor who was right in the door, and in the eyes of outsiders, the marriage was happy and complete, but only she knew the taste.
Alyssa began to wander among all kinds of women, to have relationships with different women, but never stopped for anyone.
He always had Fermina in his heart, because of her, he began to work hard, just so that he could one day stand with her and no longer be hindered by the world.
He had been waiting for some day when he could stand in front of Fermina and tell about his long-lasting love, and it was not until the death of her husband Urbino that this wish finally came true, and at this time they were already in their twilight years, and this love affair lasted for fifty-three years, until the age of 76, when the wish was finally fulfilled.
Finally Fermina asked Alyssa, "How long do you think we've been going back and forth like this?"
Alyssa replied: Once in a lifetime. He had been preparing for this answer for a long time.
Some people say: As long as people who love each other, no matter how long it has been, they will still meet in a circle.
But in fact, all the seeming causes are actually the result of a person's silent efforts.
There are too many people who have disappeared in our lives, think carefully about how many people we have lost along the way.
There are many people who have never met again after just one-sided relationship, and some people hold hands and walk through a journey, and finally part ways. Many of those who were separated never saw again.
To reduce love to fate is a little too unreliable, and if you want to achieve your wishes, you still need to rely on human efforts.
If Alyssa had accepted the gap in mendi and hadn't worked hard for it, he might not have had the chance to stand before her for the rest of his life.
If he hadn't loved her so much, he might have chosen someone who was right in the right place to enter into marriage and go through this life, and the two of them might never have the chance to meet again.
Alyssa has had many relationships, he sees clearly that he and them are just dewy love, he clearly distinguishes desire from true love. Those brief acquaintances are forgotten in the blink of an eye, and the deep love for Fermina can make him wait for a lifetime.
Men's affection is also thin, their thin affection is always reserved for irrelevant people, deep affection is only left to one person, to the most important person in the heart.
A man's deepest love for a woman has always been only one, and he has spent half his life guarding it until he can finally come together with you. The past has passed, and no matter how long the rest of your life is, I still hope to be able to accompany you.
The same is true of Cai Xiaoguang's love for Zhou Rong in "The World of Man", as long as it is what she likes, he will do his best to help her achieve her wishes, she travels thousands of miles to find true love, and he helps her.
He had been silently guarding her behind him, waiting for her, until finally there was a place around her, and he was finally able to stand by her side.
The simple love is forgotten, but the deepest love will always linger in the heart and will not be forgotten for a long time.
In "Love in the Time of Cholera", Alyssa's very different attitude towards Fermina and other women is an interpretation of men's deepest concern for women.
This book can be said to describe love in great detail, there are short-lived feelings due to the pleasure of the flesh, and there is also the unswerving protection of the soul, every time you read this book, you will have more understanding of love.
In this book, we can see the many forms of love, and we can deeply understand the true meaning of love. I recommend you to read this book, let us be closer to love, understand love.
I hope that we can all meet a long-lasting love, and I hope that we can all find the courage to pursue love in this book.