There is a chinese word called "fear of the inside", and the ancient wife is called "inner person", so the translation is fear of the wife, which is said to come from the Assassin Monopoly in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Zhuan Zhu was a butcher, once, more than a dozen enemy families came to the door to make trouble, and in a single breath, they raised their big fists and threw all the gang to the ground in a moment, at this time, Zhuan Zhu's wife shouted "come back" in the house, and Zhuan Zhu immediately bowed his head and obediently entered the house.
This happened to be seen by Wu Zixu, who was fleeing to the state of Wu, and he felt strange, so he went to visit Zhuanzhu, and during the small talk, Wu Zixu asked him: "How can you, a good man with a strong body, be afraid of a woman?" ”
He replied with a smile, "Whoever can submit to the hands of a woman will be able to stretch above all men." Later, at the instigation of Wu Zixu, he stabbed Wu Wangfu to death with only a fish intestine sword, thus shocking the world.
In this way, a man is sometimes afraid of the inside, not really "afraid", but he knows how to use love to tolerate, not to hurt the other party's feelings with great strength.
Throughout history, it is not uncommon to be afraid of celebrities, so let's pick three famous people to talk about.
Afraid that the wife is not enough to say to ordinary people, then if the emperor is angry with his wife and runs away from home, this matter is fresh, you don't believe it, Sui Wen Emperor Yang Jian is such a person.
Shi Zai, after Yang Jian established the Sui Dynasty, he still loved his empress Dugu clan deeply, and even when discussing the affairs of the dynasty, he had to sit with her on a dragon to the temple, and during the discussion, if there was something wrong with Yang Jian's edict, the empress would also remind him on the side, so Yang Jian benefited a lot. After retiring from the dynasty, the husband and wife both returned to the palace to sleep, and they felt quite relieved with each other.
When he was old and fading after being alone, Yang Jian looked at the warblers and swallows around him, and couldn't help but start to feel excited.
One day, he secretly spoiled a beautiful Lieutenant Chi, but after being alone, he learned that he killed the woman in a fit of rage.
When Yang Jian heard the news, he was heartbroken and indignant, and he ran to the outskirts of the Imperial City on horseback, and he couldn't help but weep and sigh in the sky! Later, under the persuasion of the minister who came to look for him, he returned to the palace in a sullen mood.
A year later, Yang Jian was still thinking of the empress's affection, and when he was critically ill, he took the hand of the crown prince Yang Guang and said, "You can't forget the empress, after I die, you will bury us together, if you know it underground, you may be able to reunite with her." ”
This is the emperor Yang Jian, who is afraid of the inside, and wang dao, a prime minister who is afraid of his wife.
Wang Dao can be called the founder of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, born from the Zhongyuan Shi clan, in the position of prime minister, he assisted Emperor Yuan, Emperor Ming, and Emperor Cheng in his lifetime, and his brother Wang Dun oversaw the soldiers and horses of Jiangzhou and Yangzhou, so people at that time had the saying that "the king and the horse, share the world".
However, even such a powerful Zaifu was actually afraid of his own life.
It is said that Wang Dao raised a concubine in the house with his wife behind his back, and once he did not know who was raping, this matter was actually learned by the lady, so he asked someone to drive to the court to find Wang Daoxingshi to ask for guilt.
Wang Dao was discussing military information with his ministers at that time, chatting with spit and self-satisfaction, a family member came to inform him of the situation, Wang Dao was frightened like chaff after listening, and he could no longer care about his face, passed through the crowd, and jumped onto an ox cart outside the door.
In a hurry, he only took a tail (similar to dust, as a tool for repelling insects), and hurriedly went to smack the cow's ass, wanting it to go fast, even if the tail was too short, and the rut was too long, the anxious Wang Dao extended his arm and could not reach the cow's ass, for a while, he sweated down, causing the onlookers to laugh forward and backward.
Later, some people were amused and suggested that when adding nine tin to the prime minister Wang Dao, it was necessary to add two articles: short car rut and long tail.
Speaking of a general who is afraid of the inside, this person can be described as a famous person, known to the world, he is a generation of anti-Wu hero Qi Jiguang!
Qi Jiguang's strict defense of the coast, which made Wu Kou tremble with fear, but his reputation as "afraid of his wife" was also well known.
Once, husband and wife quarreled, Qi Jiguang was kicked out of the house by his wife, and had to move to the military camp.
When the generals of the Qi family army saw the situation, they all fought for him, and someone gave him an idea: "Your Honor, you are a great commander of the army, but you have been bullied by the insiders into such a way, how wronged." Why don't you trick her into coming to the barracks, help you give her a ride, and she will obediently listen to you in the future. ”
Qi Jiguang pondered for a moment, thinking that this plan was feasible, so he slapped the table with a big hand and ordered someone to summon madame.
Not long after, Lady Qi stepped to the military tent, and saw that the generals in the tent were lined up in two shifts, one by one with horizontal eyebrows, the sword was sheathed, and Qi Jiguang in the hall was even more serious, not angry and arrogant, but she did not have the slightest fear, but pointed at Qi Jiguang and said: "What are you looking for me?" ”
As soon as Qi Jiguang heard this, his hands and feet trembled in an instant, his face was red, and he walked down involuntarily under his feet, pounced, and knelt down on one knee and said: "Specially invite Madame to parade!" The generals of the two rows heard the words, and they all covered their mouths and smiled, so they had to turn around and run out in gray.
The story is over at this point, three famous people who have shocked the ancient and modern, have their own prestige side outside, and their private lives are like very ordinary people, quite tender like water, perhaps this is the real ancients.