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In ancient times, the status of women was very low, and the so-called "three from four virtues" was the moral bondage of feudal etiquette to women. One of the three is to marry and obey the husband, and all words and deeds must be obeyed by the husband, which cannot be said to be sad.
But there are no shortage of exceptions, there are still many "afraid of wives" men in history, in the family status is almost reversed, become "husband from the woman". For example, the national hero Qi Jiguang is a typical fear of the inside. It is said that Qi Jiguang was afraid of his wife's reputation, and even the middle of the army could not look down, so he instigated Qi Jiguang to hold a sword to scare his wife to Zhenfu Gang, and When Lady Qi saw it, she roared: What do you do with the sword? Qi Jiguang was frightened by this roar and the sword fell off, and hurriedly said: Prepare to kill a chicken for the lady to eat! Such fear of the inside, led to a momentary joke!
In the pen of the great writer Su Dongpo, there is also a person who is afraid of his wife, that is, Su Dongpo's good friend Chen Yu! Chen Yu (陈慥), also spelled Ji Chang (字季常), is a resident of Longqiu. He is the son of Chen Xiliang, a colleague of Su Dongpo, and a close friend of Su Dongpo. Chen Yu is good at swordsmanship, has the style of a ranger, and the wife he marries is also a master of this way, so Chen Yu is extremely afraid of the inside.
Su Dongpo even wrote chen's fear of the inside into the poem, and also passed down an ancient famous sentence and idiom of "afraid of wife". And look at this song "Send Wu Deren and Jian Chen Jichang":
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Send Wu Deren and Jian Chen Jichang
Northern Song Dynasty Su Shi
Mr. Dongpo did not have any money, and for ten years the family burned all lead.
Gold can be stuffed into a river, only frost sideburns are inexplicable.
The Residents of Longqiu were also pitiful, talking about the fact that there were sleepless nights.
Overhearing the roar of the lion in Hedong, the staff fell into the palm of his hand in a daze.
Who is like the Prince of Puyang, drinking and eating meat to get his own immortals.
There are no things left in the living fables, and I learn to forget about family Zen at home.
Ten acres of land in front of the gate, Qingxi around the house flowers for days.
Xitang was drunk and unconscious, and the falling flowers were like snow and spring wind.
When I visited Qingquan in Lanxi, I have done cloth socks and green rows.
Ji Shan is not an old man without congratulations, and I am happy to go back to the wine boat.
Hate Jun does not know Yan Plain, hate me for not knowing Yuan Lu Mountain.
The copper camel will meet each other, shake hands and smile for three thousand years.
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This poem was written by Su Dongpo to his friend Wu Deren, whom he had not seen for many years, and the poem mainly described Wu Deren's life as free and free, not in the form of objects, and at the same time, he also wrote that his own quest for the Tao and Chen Yu's quest for Buddha were not as good as Wu Deren's small dashing. Among them, a sentence describing Chen Yu is "overhearing the roar of the lion in Hedong", which is the most famous, deriving the idiom of "hedong lion roar".
These few words are a joke about the pity of Chen Yu, a resident of Longqiu, who talked about the Buddha all day long and said that Xuan had forgotten to sleep, and when he heard his wife's roar, he was frightened that his cane fell, and his heart was dazed! You can see how afraid he is!
Chen Yu's wife is the Liu clan of Hedong, and it is said that Chen Yu has always been laughed at by Friends such as Su Dongpo. Su Dongpo, along with a group of friends, instigated Chen Yu to go to the Qinglou to prostitute himself, but liu heard the wind, and not only chen Yu himself knelt down and was reprimanded, but even Su Dongpo and others were expelled by Liu's brain. It is no wonder that Su Dongpo wrote such things as fear of nei in his poems, and also described Liu Shi as "lion roar". However, because of this, a famous sentence and a popular idiom have been handed down!