Text/Flying Fish
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Many people say that in their old age, they cannot avoid being desolate and lonely.
In fact, some people use solitude to enjoy life, while some people are afraid of loneliness, especially long-term loneliness, which is difficult for people to accept in their old age.
In his old age, when his wife is gone, he lives alone, alone, a room, a lone lamp, an elongated figure, no one can see, only he is looking at his relatives in the distance, looking forward to their return to reunite with themselves.
In fact, when the wife is gone, living alone, or need to consider some things, how to make your old age life a little better, how to make yourself less lonely, in fact, you need to prepare yourself, have a psychological preparation, in order to calmly live a good old age.
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In old age, if there is no way back, in fact, the rest of their lives will be very desolate.
In fact, seeing some old people, hard work for a lifetime, working hard for a lifetime, thinking that all the savings are given to the son to buy a house, the son and daughter-in-law will support them, they can also live in the house they bought, but did not think that the name of the house says son and daughter-in-law, and finally they were driven out by the daughter-in-law, there is no place to live.
I remembered that there was a pair of old people in "An Jia" who were like this, they worked hard outside for a lifetime, they had to save enough money to buy a house, and they also gave their sons a marriage, but they didn't even have the opportunity to live after marriage, and finally they wandered outside to rent a house.
In old age, if people still have no place to live, then there is no way back, and they feel that it is their real home.
Therefore, in the old age, people still have to live soberly, the house, the ticket, in fact, are the most important, do not easily give to others, children are no exception, their lives should be created by themselves, you have to keep your own these things, in the old age can live better.
To tell the truth, raising children may not be able to prevent aging, and old-age care, relying on oneself, is always a kind of confidence.
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In the old age, you must know that the "way back" is given to yourself.
What is Homecoming? You feel safe, there are reliable things, and what can support your life is actually the way back.
From a realistic point of view, it is recommended that people are old and need to prepare these three "return paths" for themselves to avoid the desolation of their old age.
First: people are old, the wife is not in you, living alone, if you meet a suitable person, you can live together, don't care about other people's ideas, after all, there is a person with themselves to ask for warmth, relying on each other, in fact, it is also a blessing for people to reach their old age.
Twilight love is no longer a shameful thing, you know, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, everyone has to choose their own way of life. When you are old, living alone, feeling lonely, just meet a person who can talk, agree, and is willing to live with yourself, then it is actually a way home.
People are old, there is a person with their own side to take care of, eat together, chat together, do some interesting things together, in fact, are very good, I believe that children will eventually understand, do not always take into account the ideas of others, the rest of life is not long, you also have to know how to live for yourself.
Second: when people reach their old age and find their way back, they need to keep their own money jars, and saving money for the elderly is a reality.
In fact, it is not very realistic to rely on children to give you pensions, children also have times when they are powerless, even if some children have money, but if they are not filial piety, they will not give you pensions, and even dislike you.
And they have a pension, they have some money, so they don't have to look at anyone's face, when they are sick, they have money to go to the doctor, when they want to eat, they can buy, when they want to travel, they can also go to the group.
JingHui Grandma in "North and South", she actually lived a very transparent life in her old age, for her children, which is not biased, no one wants to beat her idea of pension money, she lives alone, keeps her own pension, life is actually very moist.
In the old age, a little money is the bottom line, which is the return of life, and it is the most practical.
Third: When people reach their old age and find a way back, they also need to have friends.
When you are old and live alone, in fact, you no longer want to find a wife, then friends are also very important.
It's also good to have friends to accompany, play together, and chat together.
Far water can not save the near fire, when they encounter something, the next door friends and neighbors can help, help.
Therefore, when people are old, they still have to get along well with friends and neighbors, have good popularity, they will help each other at any time, put away your strange temper, get along well with others, talk well, and actively integrate into the group, find good friends, and life in your later years will be very colorful.
The environment of mutual help and mutual assistance will make the elderly living alone away from loneliness. With the help of the power of the extended family, the life of the elderly will also be more decent.
Finally, may you go through the vicissitudes and remain safe in your heart. People in old age, forget age, live gracefully, live optimistically, for the rest of their lives, applaud themselves.
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