Just as the so-called "lover's eyes out of the West", the man and the two sides in love, to see how each other is good, not tired of looking, the other party's shortcomings will also become advantages, naturally will be willing to spend money for each other.
During the period of love, both men and women will inevitably have some expenses, and in terms of spending money, it is natural that the man will take the initiative to pay. Even on some special holidays, couples will send red envelopes between them to increase the sweetness of their feelings.
But love is not always so sweet, it is normal to divide and merge, if the two parties are not compatible because of certain things, then the cost during the relationship has become the reason why two people can't argue.
After the man broke up, he asked for 3422 yuan during the love period, and the dumplings discounted 8 cents a piece
It is normal for boys and girls to break up during love, and it is actually understandable to ask for some large amounts of money or more expensive items after the breakup, but a recent incident has really subverted the public's perception.
Recently, a message that "a man asked his girlfriend for money during love after breaking up" caused a hot discussion among netizens on the Internet.
A young couple broke up, which was a very normal thing, but the boy's performance after the breakup was puzzling. The boy ran directly to the police station to report the case, saying that he wanted to ask his girlfriend for the cost of the relationship period, a total of 3422 yuan.
What makes the police feel very speechless is that the boy also took out an account book, which recorded every expense of himself and his ex-girlfriend during the love period, and even the girlfriend went to his house for dinner, and the dumplings wrapped by his mother were converted into cash, 0.8 yuan a piece.
Judging from the ledger taken out by the boy, during the love period, the boy spent 2800 yuan to send the girl a cat, followed by some daily necessities and medicines, and then subtracted the amount of the items that the girl gave to himself, and finally got 3422 yuan.
I have to say that it is a good habit for boys to love bookkeeping in life, but this kind of behavior of discounting dumplings is really eye-opening. In this regard, the girl seems to be very free, without too much entanglement, very domineering direct transfer away, and the boy is also unceremoniously accepted, from then on it is estimated that the two are also passers-by, the two do not see each other.
Although the reason for the breakup is unknown, netizens are glad that the girl broke up as soon as possible
From beginning to end, we don't know why the two people broke up, but in fact, we don't have to think about it, it is estimated that girls can't stand the boy's "hammer must be compared" character, after all, the boy even counts the number and amount of dumplings that girls eat at their homes so clearly, it is really a little too "careful".
However, netizens are one-sidedly glad that girls can see the boy's face as soon as possible, and if they wait until later into married life, they will certainly not be happy.
Think of the boy in the heart during the love of his own "small calculation", it is estimated that in this relationship did not pay a very "sincere".
Although the boy's behavior is not a problem in law, from a human point of view, it is estimated that after this incident, many girls will not fall in love with him, after all, no girl can bear to eat dumplings by herself, but also be "settled after the autumn" mood.
In the process of falling in love, it is best to AA system
In similar incidents, it is often the male who asks for the woman, and some girls will respond decisively and leave like the above, and some are entangled with the boys.
In fact, no matter what kind of treatment, for girls, if you want to avoid this situation, no matter how sweet it is when you are in love, it is best to adopt an "AA system" attitude with each other.
In the education of girls, parents should also let their daughters know: whether it is during love or after marriage, they must be independent in thought, independent in personality, and most importantly, financially independent.
Even if you are not independent, you must have your own savings, so that when you encounter something you like, you can buy it yourself, and after marriage, you don't have to worry about being looked down upon by your in-laws when you don't have money to buy, and even be said that you will only spend money and will not make money. Girls must know that financial independence is more reliable than any relationship at any time.
Today's topic: What do you want to say about this boy's behavior?