Haruki Murakami once said:
"People don't get old slowly, they get old in a flash."
When we found ourselves with a white hair and an extra wrinkle on our face, we had to admit that the years were unforgiving.
But there is also a kind of woman who not only does not feel that they are old, but feels that they are becoming more and more beautiful.
You can't even tell their age from their faces, this kind of woman seems to never grow old, and she has a different charm.
In the long river of time, what they have grown is experience, and what is not old is temperament and demeanor.
Women with a good mentality are not afraid of aging
The famous English poet Byron said:
"Although pessimistic people are still alive and dead, optimistic people will never grow old."
Women with a good mentality can always calmly face life and skillfully resolve the troubles they encounter.
Sorrow dissipated with the wind, and a smile grew on his face.
Recently, Zhou Xun made a stunning appearance on the stage of "Readers", which attracted continuous applause from the audience.
Seeing her current state, it is difficult to believe that the "Princess Taiping", who was once delicate and bright and eccentric in "Daming Palace Words", is now 47 years old.
Time enriches the journey of life, and also makes the beauty look old.
When starring in Ruyi in "Ruyi Zhuan", some netizens have complained that "Zhou Xun is old" and "there is no aura".
It was also from this moment that Zhou Xun suddenly realized that he might be really old.
Even for a long time, she was anxious.
I also thought about whether to take some measures to retain my youthful appearance, but age is irreversible after all.
Since you can't change the reality, adjust your mindset.
As long as the heart is not old, there is no fear of old age.
This time in the "Reader", when the host asked again the "age anxiety" question that had made her miserable and cry, Zhou Xun laughed and said:
"It's a process from entanglement to face, there will be a period of time to slowly accept, and then slowly 'go to yours', that's it."
After saying that, he laughed with the audience.
When she reads affectionately on the stage, she is no longer a girl, and she has more of the beauty of the years.
Although she can't go back to the "Princess Taiping" period, she can still challenge characters that the audience has never seen before, and explore the infinite possibilities of life.
Cartoonist Tango said:
"The so-called children, adolescence, and adulthood are all concepts, and life is their own business."
Living a good life is the highest attitude to life. ”
Life is not just dancing, we can't take two steps back, and then take a step forward, we can only follow time forward.
A woman with a good mentality is never afraid of the passage of time.
They live as beautifully as flowers, as calmly as water.
They enjoy every stage of life, occasionally dancing, sometimes smiling, always maintaining an elegant posture.
Even though life will come to an end, the soul will always exude a unique charm.
We can't change our physical age, but we can change our mental age.
Beauty is an attitude, and no matter how old we are, we should maintain a young heart.
One inch wider heart, three points more beneficial.
A woman who has a lot of love, full of energy
There is a saying that goes like this:
"As long as people still have everything they can pour themselves into, then they will never really grow old."
Life is not long, we always have to live according to our own wishes, so as not to live up to this life.
Women who always have a pursuit of life and have a favorite thing, no matter what age, can experience the joy of life.
I once saw such a news on the Internet:
There is an aunt Guo Xiuqing who makes steamed buns, who is loved by many people for making strange brushed steamed buns.
Aunt Guo has been learning to make steamed buns with her mother since she was 16 years old, and has been around for more than 30 years now.
Making steamed buns is a manual work, kneading dough on the board every day, repeating an action all the time, not only tired, but also slightly boring.
But she loves steamed buns, but she enjoys the production process, and also took the delicious steamed buns to the recording of the third season of "China on the Tip of the Tongue".
Since participating in the show, many people have come to her shop to eat steamed buns.
But there are also some young people who don't like to eat traditional old noodle steamed buns.
To this end, the 56-year-old Aunt Guo, after thinking hard for several days, decided to take her own research and development team to upgrade the steamed buns.
At the beginning, there was no experience, either the color ratio was not correct, or the taste did not meet the requirements.
But she didn't give up, but tried it over and over again, and enjoyed it.
Doing what you like is always a state of full spirit and vigor.
Finally, after more than five months, we finally developed a steamed bun that can be drawn.
This steamed bun is soft and sweet to eat, with an endless aftertaste and can also be drawn.
It was quite popular with young people, and sales went up at once.
Seeing this achievement, Aunt Guo had a full sense of accomplishment in her heart, and the joy in her heart was beyond words.
She said:
"Making steamed buns is not only a technique, but also an emotion in it."
If you have sustenance in your heart, you will not feel that life is boring; doing what you like is always the year of fighting.
Aunt Guo lived out the best of a woman.
Have their own small life and small ideals, do not envy anyone, do not depend on anyone.
Sanmao said:
"Sincerity and love are qualities that I never give up."
Hobbies make us shine in the gray-headed life.
A woman who loves in her heart can always live a wonderful and abundant life, bury her head in herself, and have no time to worry about time.
Women who maintain their learning ability will never be left behind
Someone said:
"A woman who studies for life, she is endlessly charming."
Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
Women who maintain their learning ability like to read, think, explore a broader life, and save enough confidence for themselves to survive.
They keep up with the development of the times and will never be eliminated.
The protagonist of the novel "Jane Eyre", Jane Eyre, is a person who changes his destiny through learning.
Jane Eyre grew up with both her parents dead, living in her aunt's house, being rejected, despised, and even insulted.
Leaving my aunt's house and going to the orphanage to live is even more uneaten and warm.
But she was not overwhelmed by these dilemmas, but firmly determined to change her life status quo through learning.
It was a shortcut to a happy life for her.
Later, through her own efforts, she became an excellent graduate and got the opportunity to stay in the school to teach.
And during her time in school, she also learned to play the piano, draw, improve herself in many ways, and also found a job as a tutor, and her life was guaranteed.
For Jane Eyre, this is a big leap in life, and she is no longer a poor and helpless little girl at the bottom.
Even later, when she met Rochester, who was very rich, she did not give up her pursuit.
She always maintains an independent posture, does not please others, and does not wronged herself.
The books I have read and the knowledge I have precipitated have become independent abilities and confidences.
In fact, Jane Eyre is not a strong woman, and has some extraordinary ability.
She just maintained her ability to learn and update herself from time to time.
Confucius Ziyun: "Every day is new, every day is new, and every day is new." ”
The most beautiful posture of a woman is to surpass herself and sing all the way forward on the road of continuous improvement.
Women who are brave enough to try new things can adapt to the changes of the times.
They have new thinking, new skills, and life is always fresh.
Those women who never forget to learn and do not forget to inject fresh blood into themselves also walk in the crowd with their own light.
They don't get older, they just get better.
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The French writer Margaret Duras famously said:
"You were beautiful when you were young, but I prefer the face you have experienced now."
Man lives one life, he lives with that spirit, and true beauty is radiated from the inside out.
If the heart is not old, the person will not be old.
Each age group has its own growth and harvest.
The years have taken away the face, and the experience has matured the mind.
What has been precipitated is an indifferent and calm state of mind.
The woman who will not grow old has long lived into a poem, slowly reading each sentence has a sense of beauty, and carefully appreciates the rhyme between the lines.
Write [comment], may you be able to sculpt yourself in the years, and meet the best self in time.