1. Grasp the moment and win respect
At this moment, it was a sunny afternoon, Li Qinqin was sitting quietly in his rather simple but neat and orderly rented house, surrounded by several stray cats and dogs from all over the world.
Some of them snuggled up to her, some slept on her lap, and from time to time they licked her fingers with their tongues very intimately to face this situation, Li Qinqin's face was full of kindness, and his smile was extremely bright.
Although it was a modest home, it was just a place she had chosen out of love for the homeless little ones. In daily life, Li Qinqin has always adhered to the principle of frugality and simplicity, and his diet is just simple steamed buns and leftovers, and his clothes are mainly old clothes.
However, she never felt the slightest shame or inferiority in the face of such a lifestyle, but was deeply proud because she was convinced that she was doing her best to cherish food and at the same time try her best to care for these weak creatures.
When working in the crew, Li Qinqin was often nicknamed "The Ugly Duckling" because she was always willing to accept small roles such as "evil mother-in-law" that others did not want to play. However, she doesn't care about this, instead believing that every role should be fully interpreted, regardless of its size.
It is precisely because of this firm pursuit of her career and professionalism that she has won the deep respect of her peers in the entertainment industry.
Whenever she finishes filming, Li Qinqin always takes seriously the leftovers prepared for her by the crew. She chews slowly and savors every bite of food with all her heart, which is her sincerest respect for life.
She often said to the people around her, "It is a great blessing in my life to be able to marry abroad, because I have learned the importance of cherishing and satisfying."
It is true that she has experienced three failed transnational marriages, but she has not fallen into a trough because of this, but has lived her ideal life. Despite her simple life, she is far happier than many people.
The ups and downs of the second and third marriages
Looking back on the past, Li Qinqin's three marriages are like short dramas, each with a beautiful beginning and a helpless ending.
The first marriage was an exotic affair with a Japanese man, Taichi Yamane. When she first stepped into Japanese territory, she regretted her impulsive decision. In this strange country, money is disappearing like flowing water, and her dreams are gradually becoming unattainable, and she can only find work on the streets to make ends meet.
Just when this lady was thinking of giving up completely, fate unexpectedly played a big joke on her - on a flight back home, she met and met this passionate Japanese journalist unexpectedly!
The first time they met, the two were like old friends reunited, talking happily, laughing constantly, and falling in love and tying the knot in an instant. However, life after marriage is like a roller coaster ride, which is still in the United States today and will be in France tomorrow.
However, just as he was newly married Yan'er, Li Qinqin unexpectedly found that he was already pregnant.
Due to the nature of her husband's profession, he was always busy, leaving Li Qinqin alone at home waiting for childbirth. The different life that I once longed for is now like a mirror and unattainable.
Just when the contradiction between the two gradually deepened, old friend Zhao Baogang asked her: "Are you still eager to return to the entertainment industry?" So, Li Qinqin decided to return to his homeland and rededicate himself to his acting career, however, the rift in the marriage could not be repaired, and they finally chose to part ways.
After the hopelessness of remarriage, Li Qinqin completely lost confidence in marriage, however, who would have predicted that she would have an emotional entanglement with an American man, Peter? At first, the time was as beautiful as a fairy tale, and Peter's romantic feelings were like fireworks, and every day he offered her a bouquet of delicate roses.
However, when married life returned to reality, cultural differences and lifestyle conflicts became the fuse that detonated the conflict, and even more fatally, one day, Li Qinqin inadvertently witnessed Peter's intimate interaction with other women, which made her firm in her determination to divorce.
The brief French romance was more like an episode, just because she shaved her hair for a theatrical role, the French husband refused to appear in public on the grounds that she was "too ugly", and the marriage ended in tragedy.
The failure of three marriages made Li Qinqin suffer psychological trauma again and again.
3. The frustration of three marriages
Looking back on these three marriages, the reasons for the failure are nothing more than cultural differences, imbalances between career and family, and the gradual drift of feelings.
First, there is the huge gap in lifestyles and values caused by cultural differences. Growing up in China, Li Qinqin expected to follow Chinese traditions and be filial to her parents, but her foreign husbands found it difficult to understand this, even deriding her father for being a "barefoot doctor."
This cultural gap undoubtedly exacerbated the conflict between the two.
What follows is the conflict between her career and family life. In order to pursue the flickering stage dream in his heart, Li Qinqin had to be busy and difficult to make wise trade-offs on the scales of career and family.
As time passed, she gradually neglected to take care of her family, which undoubtedly worried her foreign husbands.
Immediately after, we talked about their growing estrangement. As a talented actor, Li Qinqin's professional nature has left her expatriate husbands confused and uncomfortable.
The conflicts between husband and wife continue to accumulate, and the rift in love deepens, which eventually leads to the tragic end of the marriage breakdown.
These three factors are intertwined, and together they lead to the failure of Li Qinqin's three marriages.
In the fourth part, we reviewed her dream when she was young - filming in Beipiao.
Looking back on the past, Li Qinqin's original dream in his heart was to become an outstanding actor. Although she was born into a poor family, her father expected her to get on the right track, but fate seemed to favor this girl who was known as a "star looker".
By chance, Li Qinqin was selected to star in the heroine of a TV series. Her outstanding appearance, coupled with her talented acting skills, has won high praise from the director.
In this way, the seeds of dreams quietly took root in her young heart. In order to realize her dream, she firmly chose to enter the Beijing Film Academy for further study, and in the process met her classmate Zhao Baogang.
During his college years, Li Qinqin was loved by his classmates because of his cheerful personality and beautiful appearance, and he also had a passionate love experience during this period. After graduating, although she has made a name for herself in China, she always feels that her dream has not yet been fully realized.
The desire for the unknown gradually burned in her heart, and coupled with the craze for going abroad in China at that time, she decided to go to Japan to seek new development opportunities.
At that time, Japan's film and television industry was a global leader and it was adjacent to China, so Li Qinqin was full of hope and embarked on a flight to Tokyo. However, she never expected that this decision would open another magnificent chapter in her life.
In the fifth part, we explored her family's opposition and support.
Li Qinqin was born into a family of soldiers, and his father was a military doctor when he was young, and he experienced the cruelty of war firsthand. Therefore, when he learned that his daughter was about to marry a Japanese, deep down he could not accept it in any way.
In his memory, Japan was once their enemy, how could a daughter marry an enemy? He was extremely angry, and released cruel words in front of his daughter: "If you dare to marry him, I will definitely break one of your legs!" ”
In the face of his father's anger, the young and enthusiastic Li Qinqin resolutely confronted him fiercely at first, with a determined light in his eyes and a slight challenge and provocation in his tone.
When her emotions gradually calmed down, she changed her humble posture and whispered to her father for forgiveness, promising that she would live a happy and fulfilling life, and her tone was full of sincerity and determination.
Looking at his tearful daughter, the father's heart was full of helplessness, and he could only reluctantly nod his head in agreement, after all, this was the first time that his daughter had expressed her thoughts so firmly since she was a child.
In fact, the father's reason for opposition was very simple, he just hoped that his daughter would be able to live an ordinary and stable life, free from the troubles of the world. However, it was this firm belief that inspired Li Qinqin to finally choose a different path in life.
6. The passionate pursuit of different experiences
Li Qinqin's yearning for foreign romance stems from her deep pursuit of different experiences. From childhood to adulthood, she has been praised by her neighbors and is known as a "star-like" beauty embryo.
However, her father did not lead her to the path of acting, but expected her to become an outstanding athlete in the future and win glory for her country.
Soon after, Li Qinqin realized that he did not have much talent in sports, and his life in the sports team was not going well. Subsequently, she changed careers to become a registration clerk in the hospital, repeating monotonous work every day, and her life seemed boring and monotonous.
Although her beautiful face has made her a beautiful scenery in the hospital, her heart is far from satisfied.
She has developed a sense of boredom with the ordinary life that she has never felt before. At this moment, a chance came and she was chosen as the leading role to participate in a TV series, which opened the door to her dreams.
However, just realizing the dream of being an actor is far from satisfying Li Qinqin, she has higher ideals. Coupled with the craze for going abroad in China at that time, she germinated the idea of going to Japan for development.
At that time, Japan's film and television industry was a world leader and adjacent to China, so Li Qinqin embarked on a flight to Tokyo with a dream and began a new journey in life.