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During this time, I have been chasing "Ruyi Zhuan", and I have seen more humanity from the play.
Ruyi and the emperor were teenagers with deep love and righteousness, and they had a rare wishful thinking in life.
Since entering the palace, although Ruyi has experienced the hardships of being calculated, entering the cold palace, burning, releasing snakes, poisoning, etc., she has always believed that the emperor's love is her dependence, and believes that the emperor will always protect herself.
Indeed, the emperor's love for Ruyi was deep, and his love really protected Ruyi's safety.
However, there are always times when two people live a misunderstanding, and the emperor who is above ten thousand people is even more suspicious.
Ruyi's wisdom, understanding and love, there are always times when the emperor does not take good care of it, and when a long gap is born, a gap is born, and there is a heart knot in the heart, and the heart knot is difficult to understand, and the feelings between the two will no longer be the same.
It's easy to misunderstand in marriage, and it's easy to dispel them, but it's hard to get rid of knots.
The emperor believed in qin tianjian's celestial signs, which hurt Ruyi's heart and caused misunderstanding between husband and wife.
A woman who experiences the pain of pregnancy and childbirth, the pain of losing a child, and then the pain of being ignored by her husband, no matter how deep the emotional foundation of her youth, after experiencing this series of blows, will also change.
The relationship between Ruyi and the emperor also created a gap from then on.
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The feelings of two people are estranged, and it is necessary to repair them well if they want to go back to the past.
However, the emperor's desperation and indifference made Ruyi see the coolness of human nature.
It turns out that the feelings of teenagers will change, and no matter how deeply they love each other, two people will also go to the time when they look at each other and hate each other.
When she first entered the palace, Ruyi experienced all kinds of difficulties and dangers, but she was still full of hope for the future and could still be innocent, because she had the love and trust of the emperor.
Gradually, she lost the emperor's favor and trust, and the emperor became cold and indifferent, because Princess Kami could not have children, Ruyi was actually punched in the face by the emperor.
Ruyi saw the husband who cheated in marriage, and saw that the man who regarded her as a confidant's favorite had changed, becoming self-absorbed, thin-hearted, selfish and hypocritical, suspicious and incomprehensible.
This man was no longer the young man who appeared in Yi's youth.
He is now powerful, rich, and can let go of his feelings and desires, and Ruyi's affection is not so precious.
This is the man that many women promote in marriage, his wings have hardened, he feels that he can do whatever he wants, do whatever he wants, and the woman who gave love for him at the beginning has not been understood by him.
He can hurt recklessly.
Ruyi's true heart was wantonly trampled and doubted by the emperor, and he targeted Ruyi, doubted her sincerity, hurt the people who had helped her, and made her understand that without the emperor's patron, Ruyi could not even see her own son.
Such a picture, how much like a divorced family, a crazy man, and a husband fighting for custody.
Such a husband made Ruyi afraid and afraid, she never expected the emperor to become like this.
But she still maintained that true heart, and she didn't want to erase the emperor's former goodness.
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In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", although Zhen Huan's life is tragic, she finally protects her children and her own life with her own efforts and determination.
But in "The Legend of Ruyi", the tragedy of Ruyi has already told us how miserable a woman who can't bear to stop losses in time is?
In "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Chun Yuan is the white moonlight in the emperor's mind, and in anyone's heart, what is not obtained is always the best.
Some people say that it is Chunyuan who dies early, and it is Ruyi who dies late.
Chunyuan loves the emperor, Ruyi also loves the emperor, Chunyuan died when the emperor loved deeply, so she became the eternal white moonlight in the emperor's mind, and Ruyi died when she fell out of favor, and her position in the emperor's mind was obviously much darker.
The empress dowager said a very good sentence, and the harem could not be sincere.
Because Zhen Huan also experienced Ruyi's life, when she first entered the palace, she worshipped the emperor and fell in love with the emperor.
If you rely on the emperor's love to live, it is always not long, the emperor's love is true, indifference is also true, thin affection is also true, relying on a man's feelings to live a lifetime, always let people suffer from gain and loss.
The emperor changed Zhen Huan's life, and also made Zhen Huan live more soberly because of love and hate.
Her situation made her understand that living by men will always make people sad, and stopping horses on the cliff in time to find her own life direction is the most correct choice for Zhen Huan.
Her approach is very much like those women whose marriages have failed, fighting back, preparing for the rain, and finally relying on their own efforts to find their own wonderful way to live.
And Ruyi's approach is very much like those women who use too much affection in marriage, seeing the cheating husband, the man who has changed his heart, and finally dying of depression, which is sighing.
Zhen Huan is Zhen Huan, Ruyi is Ruyi, they are two different people, the biggest difference between them is not that Ruyi is not sober enough, but that she cannot put down her sincerity and stop the loss in time.
It is a pity that women who are too deep in the trap will always accidentally miss their own lives.
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