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Everyone wants to spend the rest of their lives hand in hand with their loved ones, but not everyone can do so.
Most people, walking and walking, dispersed, thought they could walk for a lifetime, but did not expect the fate between each other, only for a while.
Although they were later separated, they once existed and loved each other, and this is true and can never be changed. Some people can turn around and keep going; others stay where they are, refusing to move forward.
In the former's view, the person who has loved can also be a passer-by in life, and since the fate is over, it should be forgotten.
But in the latter's view, love in this life is eternal, even if separated, the other party still exists in their own hearts, although they will not deliberately remember, but they will never forget.
In the face of love, everyone has their own opinions and their own persistence, it does not matter whether it is right or wrong.
However, with different attitudes, the future life will be completely different.
People who live with memories are difficult to re-accept new people, and those who dare to let go and bravely move forward often live more freely and more open-mindedly.
One: People who have been deeply loved will be engraved in life
People's memory ability is limited, and the things they have experienced in the past and the people they have met will slowly blur and fade with time. For example, now, can you recall the name of every classmate in elementary, middle, or high school?
You won't, you think of only those who have a good relationship with you, or who are more impressive to you.
In the same way, what you slowly forget is those who have little connection with you, and what you remember must be unforgettable love.
This is especially true for men, if they have loved a woman wholeheartedly, even if they are separated, they will keep it in their hearts, and no one can replace it.
Even if you meet a better, better, and more beautiful person later, you can't replace her place in your heart.
Just like the emperor in the TV series "The Biography of Zhen Huan", he deeply loved his wife Chun Yuan, and after Chun Yuan left, he never really loved a woman. Even if Zhen Huan looks like Chun Yuan, it is just a substitute.
A woman who has truly loved will be engraved in life.
The influence she brings to herself will always be like a shadow, her voice and smile will always be buried in her heart, no matter how many people she meets later, she will not be able to let this thought fade.
Two: The regret of love and not being able to accompany a person for a lifetime
If there is no contact all the time, how long does it take for a man to fully once be the woman he once loved? The answer is that if you can't put it down, it will take a lifetime.
If you let go, she will slowly become blurry over time.
So the crux of the matter is still up to you.
Whether you can let go of the past, whether you can let go of your innermost obsession, will directly affect and even determine the answer to this question. Know that true forgetting doesn't require effort, and when you find out that she can't influence you, you let go.
However, if you are obsessed with this problem, it only means that you still care.
Two people who love each other, there is no irreconcilable contradiction, there is no separation between life and death, and the persistence of love for each other is true, but because of this or that reason, perhaps it is an insurmountable gap in identity.
Maybe it's the irreconcilable contradictions in the family, or maybe the encounters at the wrong time, and finally they can only end up separately.
But love, it is impossible to say that it is broken, although the two people are separated, but this woman will always remain in this man's heart, the deepest place.
Men are generally the relatively strong side in love, dominating the direction of love, so that a relationship that ends without illness will become the biggest regret in men's hearts.
They will feel that they are not strong enough, not strong enough, not brave enough, not able to fight against this world, so that they can not spend this life with the woman they love most.
Since then, behind each of their successes, they will carry this flaw, and the glory of each summit will be less shared by this woman.
Such a woman remains in the hearts of men, the most memorable and the most dangerous.
Because men do not forget them for a moment, men will still hold on to that glimmer of hope, as long as there is a little wind, the flame of their love will rekindle in their hearts, and they will think about whether they can continue the leading edge.
Maybe in this life, they can't let go of this woman.
As the lyrics of White Moonlight sing:
"White moonlight, somewhere in the heart, so bright but so cold." Everyone has a period of sadness, and it grows to hide. ”
There is always an unforgettable white moonlight in men's hearts, occupying the softest corner of their hearts, unable to pull out, unforgettable.
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