Text/Moran
It is said that in the second half of life, people must learn to do subtraction, and for the people and things around them, they must learn to give up.
Only when a person recognizes the things around him can he live better and cherish what he has. In this life, people do not have to learn to leave time for those who deserve it.
Many times, you go through something to really understand that people have limited time and there is no need to maintain a meaningless relationship.
We will meet many people in this life, but not everyone deserves to enter your life. Therefore, when people learn to break away in middle age, these people have no need to contact, there is no point.
No deep friends
In fact, our life is a process of constant encounter and loss.
We will meet new people, say goodbye to old people, and some people appear in our lives, in fact, they are a passer-by.
Maybe his presence will be valuable during that time, but in the days to come, you will meet friends who really accompany you to the end.
Those so-called general friends are treated as friends, and when they can contact, they will be contacted and cherished.
After separation, there is no need to deliberately maintain, originally not very good friends, there is no need to be polite, just maintain an ordinary relationship.
Once you get tangled up in everything, you may not be able to live yourself.
For some relationships, you should let go, some people are doomed not to participate in your life, and there is no need to break into the heart that cannot enter.
Everyone will start a new life with a new transformation, and the person who does not have too much intersection will let him pass and live in the memory.
Can't look down on your relatives
In this world, there will always be such a group of people who can't see you well.
For people who don't look up to you, in fact, there is no need to cater to, no matter what the relationship, a person is not willing to face you, there is no need to maintain.
As a relative, it is good to maintain the etiquette that should be there, and there is no need to break too much.
Some relatives, always used to compare, always compare their children with you, since they can't see you, they must have deep friendships.
People should get along with people who can talk, and those who don't know how to respect and look down on you will break off contact.
Instead of taking the time to maintain a meaningless relationship, it is better to please yourself, and the world does not have to have any relationship to live better.
For those people and things that consume you, you should stay away as soon as possible, and it is the most practical to live your own life.
There are classmates who come and go
In fact, I have always cherished the friendship of classmates, and it is rare to be able to meet each other, and to study together and accompany each other for a period of time.
Some classmate friendships can last for a long time, but some classmate relationships may end up as soon as they are separated.
Good relationships are always mutual, not maintained by one party.
If you say that in the process of getting along with people, you take the initiative to contact, but the other party has a perfunctory attitude, it is not necessary.
It is said that time should be given to people who are worthwhile, and there is no need to come and go for those who have no contact.
If you treat a person sincerely and cherish the friendship between each other, but the other party does not pay attention to it, then your feelings are meaningless.
Sometimes, the relationship between people is very fragile, as long as you do not contact and break, since it is destined to be so, then it may be the best way to separate as soon as possible.
summary:
We will meet many people in this life, people come and go, people leave, and everyone will have their own choices.
No matter who you meet and who you get along with, you should follow your heart and be worthy of yourself. For people who should not be nostalgic, there is no need to stay, and cherish the person who accompanies you.