-01-
It's really magical to like someone.
It seems that as long as that person sits next to you, even if you don't say a word, as long as you can sit quietly with each other, you will feel very happy.
However, true love needs to be clearly spoken.
In other words, you need to let the other person know your intentions, so that two people can cross the "we are just friends" boundary and move towards the dependence between lovers.
How many feelings, obviously moved the heart, but finally fell flowers intentionally, the water is merciless, the moment of turning around, the two people went to a strange road.
Therefore, a lot of good love is always short-lived, and if you don't reach out and grab it, it is likely that the other party will become a passer-by in your life.
A man's love is often straightforward, if he is moved by you, he will definitely put away his routine and smoothness, so that you can feel his sincerity and sincerity.
However, a woman's mind is always too delicate, and there will always be doubts about the people close to her, doubting each other's intentions, and doubting whether the other party really loves herself.
Therefore, most women's attitude towards love is to "take first" to prove the sincerity of men, and then dare to give.
However, you must also understand that while a man is giving, he is also taking, but what he wants is different from that of a woman.
-02-
The essence of love should be the mutual attraction between two souls, not the seduction on the skin.
So, when a man is really in love with you, he will not only be fascinated by your appearance, but more importantly, he will find your inner beauty through the bits and pieces of getting along with you, and he will be attracted to your inner temperament, so that he feels very comfortable with you.
This kind of love is the real sense of the heart.
In this life, in fact, true love is only once, and even if you experience a tight love after that, it is just a repair that has broken your bones.
And, the man's heartbeat, there will always be some psychological pull, so that he can clear his heart, can understand: the original woman, has already entered his heart.
So, when a man asks you for these three things, don't doubt it, he must be really touched on you.
Asking you for "happiness" is a confession of his love for you
Life, like a white colt, crosses the gap.
A lot of beauty becomes the past in an instant, and the encounter in the red dust is probably the happiness we want to find in this life.
Everyone longs to meet someone at a young age who can "fall in love to the point of whiteheadhood" from then on. However, most people will end up in the regret of "if the two feelings are long, they will be in the twilight of the dynasty".
Just because, when love is lingering, men will always give everything to a woman, and when the freshness passes, they will become more and more cold to her.
Therefore, if he has passed the period of mysterious exploration of you, always complaining to you, and cannot find a sense of love and happiness in you, let you feel that his attitude towards you is hot and cold, far and near... Most likely, this man, he doesn't love you that much.
The person who truly loves you, he will always maintain his steadfastness towards you, he will take the initiative to ask for companionship from you, take the initiative to ask for love from you, what he longs for is that you can give him enough tenderness, overflowing affection, and what he wants is that he can be quiet with you in the future.
He will not care about the efforts for you, but will also look at your "good" in the eyes, you believe in each other more and more, more and more inseparable from each other.
In this way, for a long time, it can show that he is really impressed with you.
Instead, the more you get along, the more numb you get along, the more you get along, the more you have nothing to say, you feel wronged, he feels bored with you.
A brief love affair is not a heartbeat, but at most a kind of attraction in the skin bag.
The real heartbeat is that he comes close to your "heart" again and again and asks you for "happiness".
Asking you to "feel at ease" is to long for two people to truly love each other
Love needs to be real.
How many people, because they like a person, gradually live the way the other person wants.
Especially women, men like her long hair, they immediately continue; men like her to wear short skirts, on the menstrual period, go out in winter and wear short skirts; men like her "sensible and obedient", they don't want to work, just to take care of his diet and living...
But, will this make him fall in love with you from now on? Not necessarily, I'm afraid.
The man who truly loves you, what makes him move, should be the real you, he will not let you feel depressed, bound, but will make you feel respected, recognized.
The "peace of mind" he wants is that you truly adapt to each other, truly grounded, truly in the fireworks of the world, and live out the most authentic way you are with each other.
Remember in "Ode to Joy", Qu Xiaoxiu's personality is praised, smart and spicy, sober and sophisticated, but in front of Zhao Qiping, it always makes people feel less confident, as if they have changed a person. She was worried that he did not see that he was "uncultured", so she did not like to read books and newspapers, and she had to pretend that she liked to read; even if she did not like to listen to concerts, she would offer to let Zhao Qiping go with her.
However, this deliberate cover-up is exposed when playing poker with Andy and Singularity because he does not know "Macbeth".
Later, she sent a car to Zhao, which made Zhao dislike her city servants, but strangely, the true temperament when she later denounced Qiu Yingying made the two reconcile.
It can be seen that what a man really loves is never what you "pretend to be", after all, living a life, it is chai rice oil and salt, it is getting along day and night, it is eating and drinking Lasa, it is burping and farting... It's a "peace of mind", not a disguise of each other.
Therefore, a man, if he is sincere with you, what he wants must be the real you, he does not need you to match him perfectly, he does not need you to be so good, how beautiful, what he wants, is just: your love is grounded, love is not wronged.
Asking you to be "single-minded" is to firmly grasp your proof
Human nature is always unpredictable.
Women, always can't look at the appearance to make up their minds. Just like the seaweed in "Snail Residence", Xiao Bei's affection for her cannot resist Song Siming's "bombing of money and power" on her, stepping on two boats with one foot, and pinching people to spit on.
Therefore, if a man is sincere with you, he naturally desires that women are exclusive to him, will not be confused, and will not treat him as a spare tire.
In this world, there has never been a couple with a high degree of fit, there are only two people who are close to each other, and there is no room for a third person among the two people.
True love, when like a jade, need to be carefully polished, can not be mixed with any magazines, if he treats you like a pearl jade, cherish the baby, and you are like grass to him, want to throw it, want to change it, then most of the time between you, is a tragedy.
Love, in itself, is a responsibility, but also a kind of cherishing.
Men will also have panic about love, there will also be fear, he will be afraid that you have more around the opposite sex, more suitors, he is afraid that he can't give you the life you want, you will leave him.
However, maybe he can't give you too much romance, can't give you too much material, if he moves the truth, he will definitely give you his sincerity and loyalty, whether it is a skin bag or a spiritual sincerity.
He loves you, he will patiently approach you, spoil you, give you care, he also longs, you can come up with the same attitude, to treat him, so that you can be tied together for the rest of your life, can keep your fate.
Life is long, how much love, originally affectionate, but finally lost in the chicken and dog fragments of ordinary life, lost in an "unknown freshness" around.
Therefore, single-mindedness is not only the adherence to a feeling, but also the attitude towards life.
-03-
Yeats once said in "When You're Old":
How many people have loved your joyful and charming youth, loved your beauty, with falsehood or truth, only one person he has loved the heart of your pilgrim, loved your aging face, the wrinkles of pain ...
It can be seen that people who truly love you are eager to get along with you and accompany you until they are old.
When people are young, they will always long to meet the brilliance of a lifetime, and then when they are dying of old age, when they look back on this love, they feel that love is "worthy" and love is "joyful and bright".
Therefore, if you love, you love seriously.
Rolling red dust, everyone, every day rubs shoulders countless, and love and hate, there will always be countless regrets interspersed in it, the most beautiful heartbeat, like the most brilliant blossom in life, dotted with our endless life of bitter sea.
Therefore, if a man shows his true heart and asks you for these three things, he must have been ready to be with you in this life, and he also longs for you to be in the same mood as him, equal to his love.
He will spoil you, love you, protect you, be loyal to you, put it in his heart, and also hope that you can give him happiness, give him peace of mind, and give him cherishing.
The rest of your life is long, if you meet this person, you must cherish it.
Finally, may every pair of lovers be able to choose one person to grow old, and the white head will not be separated.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!