Life is a process of continuous realization and continuous growth, and we are all growing.
Dong Qing once said: "We better not grow up, but we better always be in the process of growing up, this is the most beautiful state." ”
Growth is a lesson that accompanies a lifetime, and learning to please yourself, accept yourself, and take care of yourself is the main theme, which is the core of life.
There are too many people who put the focus on the outside, have been paying attention to others, worrying about whether others are doing well or not, but they forget to pay attention to their own lives, busy being the audience and audience of other people's lives, but forgetting to interpret their own lives.
What an inversion.
Life is fair for everyone, because only this time, so it should be cherished.
What accompanies you from beginning to end is yourself, your great self, whether you are sad or happy, whether you are at your lowest or highest, it is your own joy.
In this life, you will meet all kinds of people, some people pass by you and become passers-by in life, and some people stay to be your friends, but you are the protagonist in your life from beginning to end.
Don't forget to go your own way and live your own life because you pay attention to external people and things.
The outside world is noisy, but you will eventually have to face the real heart and return to peace.
Now that it is the occasion of the Spring Festival, it is very lively to visit relatives and friends, but the holiday is short-lived, and soon it will be restarted and return to the ordinary days.
No matter what age you are at and what kind of work you are doing, loving yourself, taking care of yourself with all resources, settling in your heart, and maintaining inner peace and tranquility is the constant purpose.
No matter how good other people's lives are, it is someone else's business, other people's suffering, you need to cross it yourself, and the good and bad of your life needs your personal participation and personal interpretation.
Please adjust your positioning, do not be a supporting role in other people's lives, but actively be the king of your own life, do not escape, and bravely face your own life.
Contemporary society has a very important problem, that is, the problem of identity, we look everywhere, seek the recognition of the outside world, chase the noise, always push into the crowd, want to find some comfort for the lonely soul, but find that it is always empty.
As Mr. Yang Dai said: "We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, and in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others." ”
A person has a world, in his own world, and to live in peace with himself, to accept himself, to enrich his spiritual realm, to let our minds rest, to give our tired hearts a place to live, to find a long-lost sense of belonging.
Whether you are willing or not, whether you want to escape or not, you must finally face the true voice inside, go through your life in the way you want, in order to obtain inner peace.
After reading so many books and walking so many roads, I found out how simple the real truth is, it turns out that I love myself well, take good care of myself, accept myself, take care of myself like the people closest to me, take care of myself, pay attention to my feelings, so that I will not live up to myself.
Nietzsche once said: "Every life that has not danced is a failure of life." ”
The new year is a new beginning, let us establish a new belief, inject love into our own minds, learn to love ourselves, continue to practice the lesson of loving ourselves, be kind to ourselves, and live up to the gifts of life.
Fame and fortune are just clouds of smoke, inner peace is eternal, what kind of ability, what kind of life, with hard work to fight, but do not cling to the results, always love life, always love life, live into a light in their own lives.
I have read so many books and heard so many truths, but I still can't live my own life well, only because I haven't let go of my hands and feet to experience life, but I am afraid of my hands and feet, and I dare not face the darkness of life.
When you dare to let go of your hands and feet, to experience, to live, to experience, life is full of gain, every day is a novelty, you use your hands to personally write your life, use your feet to measure your life, every day is a landscape.
Instead of caring about other people's lives, it is better to live your own life with your heart, always keep curious, explore your own life, take care of yourself, and have the joy and happiness of the New Year every day.
Life is a process of experience and realization, to be the protagonist of your own life, like taking care of the person you care about the most, to take care of your own feelings, to make yourself physically and mentally healthy, emotionally accessible, is already a very beautiful thing.