♪ You are so special, how can I be disappointed ♫
Every day at 9:30 a.m., Sister Yi is waiting for you here
Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Ye Ziyao
A few days ago, the entertainment industry staged a "great reconciliation of the century".
Divorced for more than ten years, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming interacted in the air.
On his son's birthday, Pan Yueming posted a video of his son setting off fireworks, with the text: "My son is so handsome, happy birthday!" ”
Dong Jie not only followed Pan Yueming on Weibo. also directly forwarded Weibo response: he will definitely get better and better.
How embarrassing the two were "torn" when they divorced, how shocking this sudden interaction was.
Pan Yueming was buttoned up as a gambling addict and ignored his family, and Dong Jie was saddled with the scolding of green tea who cheated in marriage.
At that time, the agents of the two sides also stood up one after another, eager to kill each other.
At that time, Dong Jie's agent slandered Pan Yueming for "gambling, domestic violence, and sexual impotence", and Pan Yueming directly won the case in court, and the court ordered the other party to apologize and pay more than 4,000 yuan.
Pan Yueming's agent angrily scolded Dong Jie for "poisonous mushrooms poured out of urine", which is not a harmless white lotus flower for humans and animals.
(Until Dong Jie starred in "The Legend of Ruyi" and collided with the role of Empress Fucha played by Qin Lan in "Yanxi Raiders" next door, Pan Yueming's agent still did not let go.) ）
In short, that divorce, both lose, no one is the real winner.
Dong Jie took his son to the top alone, and was as ruthless as inside and outside.
For Pan Yueming, he was not allowed to see his son, and Pan Yueming expressed love for his son's birthday at zero every year.
For yourself, you don't need your parents to help bring the baby, unless you can't help it when you go out to film, and you do it yourself the rest of the time.
The two who had a smooth career before marriage, after the divorce turmoil, both fell silent.
Dong Jie appeared on the Spring Festival Gala as a teenager, acted in a skit with teacher Zhao Lirong, and served Nicholas Tse as a "bride".
In his first movie, he became a "mogul girl" in Zhang Yimou's "Happy Time".
A "Gold Dust Family" has achieved the well-known "cold autumn".
Of course, at that time, no one thought that success would be clear and defeat would be clear.
Because the pure and flawless "cold autumn" is too deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, the series of operations of the divorce turmoil are even more frustrating.
Coming back, she can no longer be a heroine, and even the supporting role is an unpleasant role. For example, the scheming ex-girlfriend in "Tiger Mother Cat Dad".
Such an opportunity to appear on the camera was also hard-won, and it is said that Chen Kun helped, including "The Legend of Ruyi" that was later co-produced with Zhou Xun.
On the other side, Pan Yueming, his debut is also the life of the male protagonist.
"The Legend of the White Snake", "Red Clothes Shop" and "Jinghua Smoke Cloud", either in the central eight or in the center brush the face.
After the divorce, people have fallen fat, and goodbye to the "white-faced scholar" has read all the vicissitudes.
It wasn't until 2017 that he waited for a "White Night Chase" that made him popular.
This time, 11 years after the divorce, Dong Jie Pan Yueming interacted publicly for the first time, which even attracted the "compound" conjecture.
Personally, I don't think it's likely.
Pan Yueming was revealed as early as 2017 that he had a girlfriend, singer and actor Yin Shuyi.
The two co-produced "White Night Chase", emotionally stable, and even suspected of being married.
However, the "reconciliation" between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie has long been clued.
If the longevity of marriage requires at least the "dead heart" of one of the parties, then the possibility of a relationship relaxation requires at least one party's disregard for previous suspicions.
Right and wrong in marriage, only the parties know best, and the end of any relationship is the result of joint efforts.
In terms of personal nature alone, since the divorce, Pan Yueming has no intention of dying and not getting along.
When he was slandered, he only aimed his gun at Dong Jie's former agent, insisting that Dong Jie was just seduced.
When Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced, he bluntly envied the end of such a decent divorce.
All interviews after the divorce did not talk about the son and ex-wife.
Born in Beijing since he was a child, Pan Yueming, who was well protected by his parents all the way, confessed that he had no ambition and utilitarianism, low emotional intelligence, and no solid judgment on life.
After the divorce, the mood was particularly brittle for a while, and it was fragile when touched by the past. Whether it is regret or grievance, or both, we do not know.
On the stage of "Crossover Singer King", Pan Yueming directly blindfolded and sang a song "For Yourself" by Li Zongsheng.
The lyrics read: "The vow of old love is like a slap, every time you remember a sentence, you get a slap in the face." ”
A few years later, in "Lu Yu Has an Appointment" like a bystander looking at himself on the stage, the music sounded, and his eyes were still red.
Some netizens said that Pan Yueming was "in love with the brain", but it is not necessary.
It can only be said that in the entertainment industry, where it has long been commonplace, such unconcealed joy, anger and sorrow have been absent for a long time.
What he misses is more like those times that he can't go back. Those who don't have to work too hard to start a career and a time that both the family and the children have.
And Dong Jie, who studied dance, served as a soldier, drifted to Beijing, and the tenacity in his bones can be imagined.
A divorce, from the first line of the entertainment industry to the N line, the unwillingness in the heart can also be imagined.
We wrote before that after the divorce, Dong Jie always hangs the tightness of living with a breath.
Treating not being allowed to see his son as a "punishment" for the other party is actually putting thorns on his back.
So no matter how much she tried and worked hard in recent years, she had little effect.
Filming, either unpleasant, or silent.
Participate in variety shows, no matter how professional it is, the audience vote is not passable.
On the contrary, since last year, Dong Jie, who has become increasingly relaxed in daily lenses, has earned a batch of praise and received more attention.
For example, in her down-to-earth short video, she shares the whole process of a leek box from the vegetable field to the table.
For example, he will appear in front of the camera with his son generously, and he will not have the strength of his own mother to compare with his future daughter-in-law.