Getting married is a very festive thing, but some people always like to do something on the wedding day, thinking that it is a little clever, but the result is a big loss.
Happiness is not something that can be achieved by playing a little trick, happiness requires two people to work hard together and run a life together.
If you don't have the ability to manage happiness, even if you rely on some shady small means to have happiness, you will slowly return it in the end.
Instead of playing that little clever, it is better to put your mind on the management of life, and the happiness that comes out of your own business is really happiness.
Some netizens participated in a wedding, and there is a local rule that the groom should prostrate to his father-in-law and mother-in-law before picking up the bride, and send his own red envelope.
It was a very normal thing, but someone took this opportunity to make a big fuss, and the mother-in-law made the groom prostrate on his knees all the time and did not let the other party get up.
Because the custom stipulates that the elders must receive the red packet, the person who kneels and prostrates can get up, and the other party has not received the red packet, and he has not been able to get up.
Even if you want to test the other party, if you hesitate a little, you will get it, and the smart person will immediately take the red envelope and help the juniors from the place.
Later, the people around them could not see it, but it was not good to refute the face of others, so they took a quilt to cushion the groom, after all, it was cold to kneel, and the knee joints should pay attention to protection.
Obviously, the woman's elderly move is to pinch the man, may have some contradictions before, or want to give the daughter a boost to the status after marriage.
This is actually a very stupid method, and now the groom in the public may not be angry in order to get married, and you are at your disposal.
But when the wedding is over, when the two children go home to live by themselves, can you guarantee that your daughter will not be pinched by the other party?
Informed netizens revealed that although there was such a file on the wedding day, the wedding was finally successfully completed and still worth celebrating.
However, some netizens retorted that although it seems to have been successfully completed, it can ensure that the other party will not resent in their hearts, and this marriage has not yet begun to sow bad consequences.
There are also netizens who share their own experiences, there is a family in their neighborhood who get married, and the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are distant relatives of a village, and it is reasonable to say that because they are close to each other, the result is a mess.
First of all, there was a long stalemate at the bride price, and then the two sides pinched each other in various ways, and on the wedding day, the woman found that the wedding shoes bought by the man were small.
Although I was very dissatisfied in my heart, I was able to hold the wedding smoothly because of my face, and when the bride got married, the wedding shoes were wrapped in tape on her feet.
The man thought that he had won a big victory, and gave the bride small shoes to wear on the wedding day, and the result was that the bride was very capable, and after a few strokes of marriage, the husband was packed up and pasted, and the mother-in-law did not dare to easily find trouble.
Facts have proved that these "little cleverness" are useless at all, but will increase the contradictions between the two sides, and their own ability is the source of confidence.
Many netizens said that don't say let yourself kneel for 20 minutes, that is, kneel for five minutes and don't wait, you are married not to be humiliated.
Although the netizens' words are a bit extreme, but there is indeed some truth, but although the anger on the spot is relieved, the good wedding may be ruined, it is better to take a step back from the sea and the sky.
When they are young, many people think that as long as two people love each other enough, they can live happily, but later they find that there are too many factors that affect happiness, such as parents on both sides.
It is understandable that parents are in a good mood for their children, but it is a bit too much to interfere in their children's marriages, or even to suppress each other for the sake of their children.
If there is any dissatisfaction, you can directly say it, everyone talk about it openly, don't hold the grievances in your heart, that will only make the contradictions bigger and bigger.
Parents should learn to let go, participate less in their children's emotional life, put the focus of life on themselves, and live their own lives.