I'm sure everyone has heard the saying, "Parents live for their children." ”
The growth of children is inseparable from the love and cultivation of parents, parents have poured a lot of effort into their children, because children are the hope and future of the family, and investing in children is the most cost-effective business.
There are also some parents who also hope that their children will have a career, and their approach is different. They have a lot of children, thinking that there will always be one child who will come out on top and the whole family will benefit from it. It is difficult to evaluate whether these parents are right or wrong, after all, there has always been the concept of "many children and many blessings" throughout the ages.
Rural women have 6 children in 3 years, the quality of life at home plummeted, and her husband ridiculed: "When I got married, I planned to buy a house and a car, and after having these children, my plan was all in vain!" ”
Xiao Yun (pseudonym) lives in Shangqiu, Henan, she is an ordinary rural girl, in her 20s, she was introduced to her husband Xiao Qiang (pseudonym) blind date, they like each other, love each other, after a period of dating, get a license to get married.
At the beginning of the marriage, the mother-in-law told Xiao Yun to have a child early, it is best to have a boy, because Xiao Qiang is the only child in the family, he is responsible for the task of "passing on the generations", the mother-in-law believes that only the birth of a boy can pass on the blood of the family. Although the mother-in-law's idea is very outdated, many families in the countryside are like this, and everyone has long been surprised by this.
Xiao Yun also wants to have children early and enjoy the happiness and joy of being a mother, and reached a consensus on this issue. After getting married, Xiao Yun and Xiao Qiang began to prepare for pregnancy tightly.
In 2014, Xiao Yun gave birth to her eldest daughter, and the child looked very cute. The mother-in-law was happy and her face was slightly dissatisfied, XiaoYun knew her mother-in-law's thoughts, and soon after giving birth to the child, Xiaoyun began to prepare for the second child.
This time, Xiao Yun's stomach was surprisingly large, she walked hard, gasped for breath, and couldn't even turn over to sleep. Xiao Yun went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor told xiao Yun that she was pregnant with multiple babies. The family was happy to learn of this, and they thought that their wish to have a boy would soon come true.
The family was immersed in the anticipation of a new life, and the results were not satisfactory. Xiao Yun gave birth to quadruplets, and they were all girls. Looking at the four daughters who look exactly the same, Xiao Qiang's five tastes are mixed, and the mother-in-law's face is even more ugly.
Fortunately, Xiao Yun can give birth to three children, and Xiao Yun will continue to fight for three children. In 2016, Xiao Yun gave birth to a boy as she wished, and the whole family was overjoyed. Xiao Yun gave birth to 6 children in 3 years, and finally the in-laws waited for a boy, how could they not be happy?
As the saying goes: "It is easy to have children and it is difficult to raise children", for most families, raising a child is very difficult, raising two children to spend double the effort, the family with three children bears greater pressure, Xiao Yun and Xiao Qiang have to raise 6 children, and the weight of the burden on their bodies can be imagined.
After having 6 children, XiaoYun can't go out to work, and she doesn't have time to do housework, Xiaoyun spends most of her time watching and managing her children, taking care of her children's food and drink, and being able to take care of her children well is the biggest success for her.
The age gap between these children is very small, Dabao is only two years older than Xiaobao, and it is common to fight and grab things. Xiao Yun just coaxed the two children to be good, and the other two children beat together, which happened from time to time.
During the day, it is better to say that as long as you try to distract the children, at night when you go to bed, one child cries and the other children cry. In the first two years, Xiao Yun's sleep was seriously insufficient, and she really tasted the taste of "raising children is not easy".
In ordinary life, Xiao Yun has to buy 6 copies no matter what she buys, so that the children will not be conflicted by uneven distribution, but another problem will follow.
The economic situation of the Xiaoyun family is not very good, and the children's expenses are increasing day by day, which invisibly increases the burden on the family.
Usually Xiao Yun is at home with children, Xiao Qiang makes money outside to support the family, they have a clear division of labor, each performing their duties, in their joint efforts, the family loves each other, and he Meimei, life is not bad.
When there is nothing to do, Xiao Qiang will play with the children, and when the children make mistakes, Xiao Qiang will also put on a "strict father" posture to criticize. Xiao Qiang loves these children very much in his heart, but the pressure of reality often makes him unbearable.
Xiao Qiang said helplessly many times: "When I first got married, I planned to buy a house and a car, eat and drink like others, be dashing and happy, with these 6 children, the money I earned can barely maintain the life of a family, and my plan is all in vain!" Now I have nothing but children! ”
It is normal for Xiao Qiang to have pessimism, but watching the children grow up happily and happily has a strong head.
Usually Xiaoyun will send some fragments of life to the Internet through short videos, many netizens are very interested in this special family, for a time Xiaoyun and his wife and 6 children have become "Net Red Families", they attract a large number of fans, Xiaoyun has an additional income.
Some netizens said: "I can't take two children with me, but you have to bring 6 children, and I can't stand it!" Xiao Yun replied: "There are also benefits to having more children, there are things that need to be done at home, the children will finish in a while, 'people are more powerful' is the truth!" ”
Xiao Yun's mind is all on the 6 children, under her education and cultivation, the children are both sensible and polite, and their academic performance is good, which is the most gratifying thing for Xiao Yun.
When he has time, Xiao Yun will take the children out to play, they wear uniform costumes, walking on the road is very windy, often attracting passers-by to watch and take pictures. Watching the children help each other and care for each other, Xiao Yun experienced happiness and warmth that other families could not match.
Because of family reasons, Xiao Yun and Xiao Qiang gave birth to 6 children, and after having these children, their lives have changed dramatically. Women of the same age as XiaoYun are either working hard for a career, or busy with their studies, or talking about a relationship vigorously. Xiao Yun had to carry the burden of taking care of the child, she could not be idle for a moment, her waist and legs were sore at the end of the day, and she was physically and mentally exhausted after a year.
Xiao Qiang's life is not good, he gave up the idea of buying a house and a car to enjoy life, had to work hard to raise children, he wants to plan the future of a family of 8, but also to save enough living expenses and education expenses for 6 children, the burden on his body is even heavier.
But then again, Xiao Yun and Xiao Qiang have 6 children, and they can enjoy more happiness and happiness in raising children, and they can also enjoy the reunion and celebration of their children and grandchildren around their knees. At the moment they are very hard, but the difficulties are short-lived, and after the hardest time, their future days will become sweeter and sweeter.
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