Two days ago, Shu saw Yi Mengling's friends send a group photo, pushing the message "Ma Siwei and Yi Mengling suspected of breaking up" on the hot search.
Surprisingly, in the comment area, everyone jokingly called Yi Mengling's new friend "old sister-in-law".
Uncle searched again, and even Yang Mi was "scolded" like this.
Once upon a time, a sister-in-law was a sister-in-law, a princess was a princess, and a celebrity was just a celebrity.
Whether ridiculing or serious, these obviously neutral and non-emotional female identity words now have their own negative meanings.
This reminds Uncle Oxygen of Women's Day, which has been constantly renamed over the years.
Whether it is advocated or disciplined, Women's Day has become Goddess Day, Girls' Day, and Queen's Day, as if the word "women" is hot, and I can't say anything.
The same goes for retouching stickers
IMHO, like all feminine words, the word "woman" does not need to be substitutionary, substitutionary, substitution, and should not be mentioned with ridicule and whispering.
On Women's Day, it's time to lift the layers of stigma and discipline and restore the beauty of women who have been hidden from the past to the present.
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Chilling beauty
They did not ask for salvation, they forged a sword themselves
It is said that women are old, as if except for the eternal retention of girls, there is no preciousness to sing in the development of women's lives.
From women to women, the clues can be seen literally alone:
This is the process of a woman toppling a mountain.
From women holding brooms to women overthrowing mountains
Women's Day, also known as the United Nations Women's Rights and International Day of Peace, originated from a global rise in women's consciousness in the early 20th century:
The vast number of young women workers protested gender discrimination at work, demanded shorter working hours and higher wages, and fought for women's right to vote.
From New York, USA, in 1908, to Germany, Denmark, Switzerland, Austria in 1911, and Russia in 1917.
Then in Guangzhou, China, on March 8, 1924, Chinese women fought for the right to celebrate their own holidays.
Look, women are not duckweeds who passively wait for salvation, let alone the embodiment of snarky and unknowledgeable, they are obviously warriors who hold the cards in their hands and take the initiative to attack neatly.
They are Second Lieutenants Salon and Ginsburg who resist the pattern of the "good girls should not go to court" era.
The former found that the male colleague had an allowance and did not choose to sue, while the latter defended strongly, lost the case and then appealed, and finally won.
Ruth Budd Ginsburg, the second female justice in the history of the U.S. Supreme Court
It is Shen Jilan, who has not received systematic education and is simple and ordinary, who is bent on letting her sisters stand up and believe that "labor is liberation, and struggle has status."
Equal pay for men and women for equal work became a reality in a small village at the foot of the Taihang Mountains in 1951, and equal pay for men and women for equal work was written into China's first Constitution.
It was also in the face of the male-dominated black pressure on the House of Representatives in the audience, and made a sonorous speech, prompting France to become the first Catholic country's health minister Simone to legalize abortion.
How is it done?
Although trembling and nervous, they will clench their back teeth and take steps in search of equality, and women holding hands at critical moments are an unshakable wall.
"Little Annie"
Behind Women's Day is the result of countless women standing up and experiencing hard struggles in an unequal social situation.
They did not need to be redeemed, they forged a sword themselves.
Cut through the sky, all cold, super cool.
02
The beauty of imperfections
They reject perfection, they carry hot freshness.
From the 20th century to the 21st century, efforts and struggles have not stopped, and social trends and values have also encountered ups and downs.
In the first two years, the hot search always tried to persuade her not to be Yuan and the princess, because Yuan can only attract attention, and the princess only uses beauty.
To be decent and pleasing to you, it is best to be beautiful and thin, and be a perfect girl under social discipline; Be effeminate, dignified and family-oriented, get male love, and be the perfect woman under the brand.
Is it really good to be such a perfection?
Throughout the ages, there have always been female compatriots who break through the glass ceiling of stereotypes and shackles, and show you the beauty of complex and fresh and hot women:
"Gone with the Wind" Hao Sijia, who exposed the weakness of human nature, is vain, selfish and unscrupulous, but she has always been extremely tenacious in the face of life and death and war, with strong courage and skill.
Who doesn't love the phrase "Tomorrow is another day", just reading it along will overflow from between the lips and teeth;
Seriously gaze at love and life "Little Women" Joe dares to say what is in her heart out loud, she said:
Women have thoughts and souls, not only feelings, they have ambition and talent, more than beauty, I am fed up with people saying that women are only suitable for flirting and love.
Song Huiqiao, who is like a cloudy sea in "Dark Glory", sets off a storm and waves against the bully, and no one can harshly blame her for the lines on her face, which is a thick story belonging to a woman;
The princess does not need to wait passively for the prince, nor does she need to be perfect enough to be flawless.
The beloved Ling Na Belle is a little hero who wants to be a knight no matter how sweet and soft she is, and the admired frog princess Gu Ailing is a fresh girl who believes that there are flaws that are interesting.
Why does a celebrity have to be synonymous with X?
It is obviously Zhang Xiaohui, who "relies on her own small hands to turn nothing into something", and Michelle Yeoh, who fists to the flesh, kicks and kicks broken rules, and disperses the macho arrogance.
It may be fragile, it may be angry, it may be vain, it may be politically correct, but there are ten thousand possibilities, not defined, not defined.
Chizuko Ueno said, "Feminism in my mind is the idea of pursuing freedom, and as long as you live freely, you can do anything."
Just like before praising Han Suximei, praise her strength, relying on playing a third party to become popular and even acting fearlessly, the heart that wants to win and want to come out is on the bright side, and women's ambitions are very moving.
In the male condensation society, break the preset expectations and labels, get rid of the stereotype of seemingly "perfect", and only become want to be, the so-called shortcomings are beautiful to shine.
03
The beauty of sobriety
They participate in the game and compete for a cause that no one else has competed for
Shu flipped through social media in the past two days, feeling that more people have responded from jerky to accepting "women" status this year.
What does this mean?
It means that more and more people are stepping into this long and grand game, competing for the cause that no one has ever competed for.
From various perspectives, constantly improve self-participation in social processes in all walks of life, just like Brownian motion mentioned by Huang Sihan in "Almost Done": tiny particles, irregular, never stopping.
Thoughts from the Spark:
For example, 1804 girls who went to the world from the Mountain Zhonghuaping High School.
Adopt Principal Zhang Guimei's school motto: "I was born a mountain and not a stream, and I want to look down on the mediocre ravines from the top of the peaks." I was born a man and not a mustard, and I stand on the top of a great man and despise the lowly coward" to go further.
Or, a random street interview with a blogger that Shu brushed two days ago, and the blogger asked passers-by to rate his body appearance.
This kind of problem that was prevalent in interviews in the early entertainment industry is now soberly rejected by most people, and they don't want to add firewood to the objectification of women.
CR Rui Ruizai
To the light that can set the plain ablaze:
For example, be a leader in various fields, deeply interact with the whole society, and break the brainwashing package that can only be dominated by men in a certain field.
Like Mila Murati, the chief technology officer of OpenAI, who Time magazine called "the creator of ChatGPT."
For example, we have the brave and powerful lion girl, Asia's first UFC world champion Zhang Weili, and the female football volleyball player who never gives up.
Image source @ Dongguan United Church Lion Dance Lion Awakening Troupe
There are rocket connector system commanders, pilots, and missile operators.
Zhou Chengyu, the youngest female conductor at the Wenchang launch site;
Xu Fengcan, the army's first female pilot in solo flight, an advanced individual in the "four haves" in the southern theater;
Zhang Jingyun, a missile operator on the Xuchang ship, is 22 years old holding a weapon and facing pirates.
You talk about your baseless doubts, ridicule, and stigmatization, and I will give you those honors, peaks, and medals that you cannot reach.
Michelle's words are like the morning words engraved on the table by Mr. Lu Xun, which is always sobering:
We always underestimate ourselves, we are obviously smart, we work hard, we are good at what I do, I have super talent, I have great ideas, I have the ability to execute.
As women, we always don't approve of praising ourselves, we always have some submissiveness, and we cede power very easily.
But why accept the concept of stigmatization and cede one's power?
Restore the beauty and power of women, starting with this Women's Day.
The 23-year-old Ziwei Star will be thousands of awakened women.