Young people are like glue, middle-aged people are sticky and carrying their children, and the elderly are together: they dare not speak loudly, for fear of frightening outsiders.
I am talking about the secular, but also conventional thinking, but life is not for others to see, legal couples, even in old age, the same room is free, of course, also need the support of objective conditions.
1, living habits are different, together will disturb each other to rest, not living together is better.
A friend said one thing, there is a big mother who wants to remarry and find a wife, there is a request, that is, to have a bedroom. She sleeps lightly, lives together, and when his wife turns over, he will wake up, and when he wakes up, he can't sleep.
Just because of this hard condition, it was rejected by many uncles, and one uncle said bluntly: You don't sleep with me, why do I look for my wife? Are you here to be funny...
But this big aunt really found Zhiyin.
A great uncle agreed to the request of the aunt, saying that they would not disturb each other and sleep well.
It turned out that uncle's former wife, uncle snored and she kept nagging, and then slept separately. The bedroom is next to each other, which is a partition. The two quarreled less, and they could sleep peacefully.
Uncle said to the aunt: You can live separately, but take care of each other when you are sick...
In fact, when people are old, the meaning of their wives is more to take care of each other and increase the heat and temperature of life.
2, husband and wife are used to each other, the feelings are very good, of course, to live together.
During morning exercise, I often see two old people, two people holding hands and walking together, that picture, feel so warm.
People are old, unlike when they were young, busy working, busy calling friends, old, like slow-paced days.
The relationship between husband and wife is very good, and there are occasional quarrels, but also because of love.
People love loneliness when they get old. Sleeping together at night, you can also chat about the warmth and cold of the world, take care of each other, and the feelings will become stronger and stronger.
3, 60-year-old wife, can be a "weekend couple".
When it comes to "weekend couples", young people are reminded of them, because they are busy at work and have no energy to be together.
Relative to the elderly, there is plenty of time, but it is boring to be together all the time.
Not all wives can spend the rest of their lives with the wind and rain, more in a place of chicken feathers noisy.
If one party's emotional control is not very good, it is better to live separately on weekdays, but occasionally live together, you can also be happy and make life more warm.
60 years old, not too old. For married life, there are also needs, I think, whether it is living in a separate room or living together, it is best to feel comfortable with each other.