Perhaps many people have a lot of controversy about "male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology", thinking that there should be no male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology, but in fact, this idea is wrong, because male doctors also have many advantages in obstetrics and gynecology, and some male doctors are indeed better at this aspect of expertise, so this is beyond reproach.
01 The male doctor did this for the mother, and the father-to-be chose to actively avoid it
On the day xiao Chen gave birth, he communicated with the hospital whether he could let his father-to-be accompany the delivery, and after obtaining consent, Xiao Chen's husband also followed into the delivery room after Xiao Chen's palace was almost open. Of course, there are still some steps to deal with before giving birth, just take the matter of preparing the skin, which was handled by a male doctor for Xiao Chen at that time.
Xiao Chen's husband saw this situation and chose to take the initiative to avoid, and later when Xiao Chen asked him, he said, "It is certain that he is uncomfortable, but since he can let him deal with it, it means that he is professional, I don't look at it because I feel that I can't see my heart and don't feel annoyed, why should I find myself unhappy, there is no need to blame the doctor." ”
Her husband's words made Xiao Chen very moved, thinking that her husband was not as macho as other men, after all, some men did not care about three seven twenty-one at all, seeing male doctors dealing with these more private things for pregnant women, anger suddenly came up, and even quarreled with doctors, which was really inappropriate.
02 Rational view of male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology
It is still necessary to emphasize the ideal view of male obstetrics and gynecology doctors, some of whom are also male, and in the process of childbirth, it is naturally more difficult for women to retain privacy. But in fact, from another point of view, if the professional level of male doctors is stronger, then is there more protection when delivering babies?
There may also be some pregnant women who have experienced the experience of being "hand-stripped placenta" by male doctors, which has too much embarrassment and embarrassment, and they dare not talk to their husbands about those things in the delivery room. But in the end, it is still the problem of "personal mentality", some women are more open, thinking that this is a very normal thing, but some women are relatively grumpy, feel very embarrassed and uncomfortable.
There are even some women who refuse male doctors during obstetric examinations and delivery, which is actually irrational practice, because the doctors on duty and delivery arrangements in the hospital on the day are stipulated in advance, how to temporarily refuse, or resolutely do not want male doctors to deliver babies, which will only bring trouble to themselves.
Therefore, we must look at male doctors rationally, believe that doctors will have their own professional qualities, and believe that they have professional ethics. Of course, in the eyes of doctors, pregnant women are only patients, and organs are only organs in their eyes, so don't bring colored glasses to doctors.
If you really don't want a male doctor to deliver a baby, then you should communicate with the hospital before giving birth, and hope that the delivery doctor arranged by the hospital is a woman. Previously, a friend of mine was assigned to a male doctor, but fortunately, she communicated with the hospital in time, and the hospital was relatively well staffed, so it was too late to transfer.
But if the hospital is originally relatively short of manpower, then the request to change the doctor is rejected, pregnant mothers should not be too entangled, adjust their psychology, do not be nervous when facing male doctors, and calmly accept each other's roles, this situation will be much better.
In fact, many male obstetricians and gynecologists are very gentle, compared to female doctors, they know that they will receive more "different eyes" in obstetrics and gynecology, so they will also be more gentle, and they will get along better with the mother, and they will feel that they are both gentle and powerful in the process of childbirth.
Just like many women after leaving the delivery room, in fact, male doctors are not so terrible, you calmly face them, there will be another sense of trust, believe that they will bring the fetus to the world safely.
03 How to communicate with your husband
Some pregnant women are easier to convince, but the father-to-be is not necessarily, they can't accept that their wives are seen by other men for privacy, this is a man's self-esteem at work, you can understand this aspect, but at the same time still hope that the fathers-to-be can adjust their mentality.
After all, the professional level of many male doctors is indeed higher, whether they are in surgical practice or in the handling of emergencies, they will be relatively calm and calm, and they will respond quickly. But some female doctors are more busy or relatively nervous.
Therefore, do not completely deny male doctors, they also have their own advantages, just because they work in the obstetrics and gynecology department, they are treated more differently, not to see the shining point, which is also unfair to them.
Conclusion: Whether it is the mother herself or the family, you should change your view of male doctors, pay attention to their professional qualities, try to communicate with the doctors, and find that they are not as "bad" as you think.