Now many people know that there are tens of millions more boys than girls, so many people say that girls are not worried about marriage, and even can find a few more objects.
It is indeed easier for girls to find a partner than for boys, but to say that they are not worried about marrying, it is far from reaching this level, and there are still many girls who cannot marry.
Excellent boys and girls are not worried about finding objects, mainly depending on those boys and girls with general conditions, how they choose objects.
It is not that desperately being good to a girl can get her heart, which not only cannot catch up with the girl, but also deepens the inner volume of male mate selection.
Now there is a word called "licking the dog", which refers to those who have no bottom line to please the opposite sex, and even if these people have paid a lot, there are only a few who really hold the beauty.
In fact, when chasing a girl, you must not be too good to her, let alone spend more money, otherwise you will beg for food, which can be explained from the following aspects.
First of all, any relationship requires the efforts of two people, and as a result, you have everything to cover, how the other party still plays, and finally two results will be formed.
In your case, she can't play, she runs to play with others, or be a little ancestor at home, and wait until the day when you can't stand it yourself.
Feelings also have a degree, everything must be reversed, feelings are the same, you can hold each other in the palm of your hand, but you must not provide for it.
Look at the parents who spoil their children too much, what their children look like when they grow up, excessive love is actually a poison.
Marriage is all about finding true love, finding a partner, running the day well together, and facing the ups and downs of the future together, rather than finding an ancestor for yourself.
The old ancestors have long summarized a lot of great wisdom for us, such as "Sheng Mi En Dou Mi Revenge", which is also very common in feelings.
Why many women can't adapt to married life, feel that their husbands are not alone at all before and after marriage, and have a huge gap in marriage.
On the one hand, these women themselves cannot change roles, but the husbands of these women have overplayed themselves before marriage, and after marriage, they feel that they will not pretend to complete the task, or they will not pretend to be tired and do not want to pretend again.
Before and after the change, normal people will doubt that you were good to yourself before, whether you are acting, this is the typical Sheng Mien Dou Mi revenge.
So don't be too nice to the other half, don't engage in some false good, you can behave as you like, and your feelings are sincere at all.
It is said that money cannot be used to measure feelings, but many men keep throwing money in order to get women's favor, is this not taking money to buy love?
On the one hand, it is said that women do not take money to measure feelings, on the other hand, they continue to use money to seduce women, so the double standard is not gender but in character.
This kind of behavior of using money to buy love is not worth advocating, and men must not do it, otherwise they will bury themselves in later life.
There is also a kind of woman who takes the initiative to ask for money, you give her money she will be good to you, you do not give her money, or can not meet her material requirements, you will immediately become nothing.
This proper person is in Cao Ying's heart, she does not love you at all, but likes the money in your hand.
When in love, you must not spend too much money on each other, which will make the feelings mixed with too many substances, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.
And talk about feelings to chat more, go out on dates more, other things are all snakes, such as spending too much money, and in the end it is easy to be bad.
Can't be too good to a woman, give up their principles and bottom line for the other party, to know that women are more admiring of the strong, you can't conquer her, the more humble you are, the more she will only look down on you.
Maybe because of your money, she didn't show this contempt on her face, but she must have looked down on you very much inside.
A lot of women's love is admiration, they all look down on you and how to love you, this is not pure fantasy, men must remember these points.