Every woman longs to be able to
Have a happy marriage.
However, in today's society, people's hearts are too impetuous,
Many people swore yesterday that they would love each other for the rest of their lives.
But I turned around and threw myself into the arms of someone else.
So, before a woman enters marriage,
There should be these kinds of thinking,
That way your life isn't too passive!
01, be an independent woman
Getting married is not a once and for all thing, there is no bottom in marriage, and in the end it is yourself who is sad. Therefore, women must not be easy to be housewives, your life can also be colorful, in addition to children, family, you also have the right to achieve self-worth. Women must understand that the mountain will fall, and everyone will run. The only person you can rely on in this world is yourself, be an independent woman, and you will live a more exciting life.
02, your good should be given to those who deserve it
When many women first marry into the man's family, they have a heart to live in harmony with the man's family to integrate into the family. They think that people's hearts are exchanged for people's hearts, as long as they show kindness first, then they will definitely be able to win the return of the other party. But sometimes, some people's hearts are not hot. Your overtures, your low posture, will only make the other party look down on you and think you are a bully. Therefore, they ask for you, disrespect you, and even embarrass you everywhere. You must understand that not all people are worth your heart and lungs, and your good is only worth it to the right people.
03, don't do everything
It is a good thing that women are virtuous, but it is not necessarily good to be too virtuous. Women who are too virtuous think that their husbands only need to earn money to support the family, and the affairs of the family should not be worried about him. When a man pays less for a home, the less he understands your hardships and the less he cherishes the home. On the contrary, letting him participate in housework and raising children will make him understand your hard work and cherish the family more.
04, have their own bottom line and principles
Whether in love or marriage, every woman should have her own bottom line and principles. These bottom-line principles should be clearly told to the man, so that if he violates, the relationship may break. When a man knows that you are a "bad" woman, then he will consider your feelings before talking and doing things.