At present, most kindergartens have started the spring 2022 enrollment work.
When the kindergarten freshmen entered the kindergarten, some parents of the baby who had already entered the kindergarten were not satisfied with the kindergarten where the child was located, hoping to take the opportunity to transfer a better kindergarten to the child, and some children had already transferred the kindergarten more than once.
Is it good for children to transfer kindergartens so frequently?
Teachers and children in different kindergartens need children to be familiar with each other, and the differences in material environment and behavioral habits also require children to adapt slowly, and they cannot go deep in one place, and the child's heart is not solid, and there will be a feeling of turbulence, which is not conducive to the baby's physical and mental development.
In fact, no matter how good the child is in a kindergarten, it is also possible to encounter one kind or another problem, if there is a problem to transfer to the kindergarten, do not say that the child can not eat, parents are also very tired.
So, how can we not only not transfer kindergartens, but also let children have a good time in the group?
Choose your garden carefully!
When a child goes to kindergarten, it is best to "start from one to the end".
The key part is that parents should investigate and compare several candidate kindergartens before their children enter the kindergarten, walk around the kindergarten, take a look, touch it, ask a question, and then talk to the head of the kindergarten, and compare the ideas and positioning of these kindergartens with what kind of education they want their children to receive, how to develop in the future, and what kind of childhood they have.
For example: some kindergartens advocate early intellectual development, from the age of two years old began to train children's mathematical, logical reasoning, foreign languages, literacy and other aspects of the ability, and you want to let the baby early exposure to these contents, you may wish to put the child in such an environment;
Some kindergartens pay attention to giving children a relaxed environment, so that children can develop freely in it, pay attention to emotional education, help children develop a good temperament and tolerant attitude, learn to interact with people, cultivate good behavior habits, if you want your baby to live in such an atmosphere, enjoy a happy childhood, you should choose such a kindergarten.
In the following cases, it is not necessary to transfer to the park
1
The environment is in and out
After the baby lives in the kindergarten for a period of time, the parents find that some of the things promised in the kindergarten, especially the things that the parents most want, are inconsistent with the parents' feelings, such as relaxed education methods, heuristic teaching, and the understanding of enlightenment education.
This is mostly because of the kindergarten director's thinking, intention and philosophy, and different teachers will have differences in understanding and implementation. What if you encounter something similar? Transfer the garden or find a way to coordinate it? The more feasible approach is, of course, the latter.
Countermeasures: After Mom and Dad obviously feel this, they may wish to talk to the director of the kindergarten about their feelings, make corresponding suggestions, and ask the director to help find a proper solution.
At this time, the parents' mentality must be peaceful, the attitude should be calm, and I believe that the head of the kindergarten and the teacher have the ability to interact and guide the teacher to change in the specific operation. A change in the way teachers teach can benefit all the children in the class, not just your own baby.
2
Small environment is not good
Because of some small things in the child, parents and the teacher with the class misunderstand each other and the relationship is not harmonious; some parents are not satisfied with the ability of the teacher in the class;
Or because there are often some small frictions between children, such as the baby being beaten and caught, there are individual children in the class who are particularly naughty, and they are afraid that individual intellectually disabled children in the class will affect their babies, and propose to transfer kindergartens and shifts.
Countermeasures: In similar situations, "escape" is not a positive attitude, what parents need to do is to communicate with the teacher, let the teacher understand the parents' ideas and requirements, and also try to understand the teacher's intentions, and prescribe the right medicine for specific problems.
Conflicts occur between children, and through the resolution of the teacher, the teacher will understand the real motivation of the child's beating behavior, analyze the reasons, give appropriate guidance, and avoid unpleasant trouble between parents.
Whether it is a parent or a teacher, you should allow the differences between children, treat children with love and tolerance, teach them to get along with their friends, even if they treat backward children, they should also help in the case of their ability, which is good for the development of children's personality and easier to adapt to society. Here, trust in the teacher is indispensable.
3
Life care is not in place
Parents feel that the teacher gives the child less water to drink, and the fire causes a cold and fever. For two- and three-year-old babies, parents tend to pay more attention to the standard of living care they receive in kindergarten.
For example, some mothers complained to a kindergarten director: Why doesn't the teacher let the child defecate when he leaves the kindergarten at night, so that the child can't play after picking it up, and rushes home?
Countermeasures: Children around the age of three cannot clearly express their intentions and need more care from life teachers. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to talk to the teacher more, so that they can have a good idea of the child's living habits and basic situations, such as the time of stool, the amount of water to drink, the size of the meal, and at a certain time, the teacher will remind the child what to do and how to do it. Sometimes, a word from a parent can solve a big problem for the baby.
If your child is in a kindergarten and the family feels exhausted, you may wish to try to transfer to a kindergarten.
· The road is long
If the kindergarten is far from home, the child and parents are very inconvenient and hard, the baby's sleep is insufficient, and going to kindergarten has become a burden for the whole family, it is time to change the child's kindergarten. One of the criteria chosen should be relatively close.
Inconsistent goals
The idea of running a kindergarten in which the child is located is inconsistent with the parents' vision of the child's future development. For example, kindergartens emphasize learning knowledge, while parents pay attention to the education of children's behavior habits. Due to differences in educational positioning, you can consider transferring kindergartens.
Strong rebellion
The child does not adapt to the life of the kindergarten, showing rebellion; or is very obedient in front of the teacher, and returns home surprisingly crazy, indicating that the child is very depressed during the day. Over time, it is possible to cause a distorted personality or a dual personality.
Decide whether to transfer the baby to the kindergarten, to do a variety of aspects of the investigation, in addition to the above mentioned factors, but also to see:
Is a kindergarten based on the development of children, or is it based on the convenience of teachers?
Is the teacher's behavior setting the stage for the child's growth?
Is there a concept of education in some seemingly ordinary, trivial little things?
Basically, this can provide a good environment for the healthy growth of children.
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