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The TV series "Xiao Min's Family" Li Ping's second marriage life has a crisis.
Li Ping is a strong woman, she is decisive and sharp, has a bad temper, but has a strong sense of enterprise.
Li Ping, who is bent on being strong, has been stimulated by Fa Xiaomin since she was a child, Xiaomin is beautiful and talented, likes to wear small white shoes, and when she married, she married Jin Bo, the son of the factory director.
And Li Ping is not as good as XiaoMin in terms of appearance or family situation, and when she married, she married Chen Zhuo, who had no ability, so Li Ping has been jealous of Xiaomin since she was a child.
In the marriage with Chen Zhuo, Chen Zhuo's content with the status quo could not keep up with Li Ping's rhythm, so the two chose to divorce when their daughter was 7 years old.
According to Li Ping's personality, she will definitely choose a person who has motivation in her career, so her second marriage partner is Hong Wei.
In the marriage of Li Ping and Hong Wei, the two were like-minded, Li Ping supported Hong Wei all the way to make his career bigger, and eventually Hong Wei became a small rich man, and Li Ping also became Mrs. Kuo as she wished.
As Li Ping's second-married husband, Hong Wei's approach also won Li Ping's heart, not only doing a good job, but most importantly, treating Li Ping's daughter as his own.
Usually, when a child celebrates a birthday or goes to school abroad, Hong Wei can also do his best to show his heart, which also makes Li Ping full of trust in Hong Wei.
In addition, Hong Wei is also very fond of Li Ping and is also very responsible for the family, such a second-marriage husband can be called a perfect level.
Therefore, when Li Ping and Hong Wei's careers were stable, Li Ping decided to have a child to repay Hong Wei.
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Li Ping has reached middle age, it is not easy to have a child, she has been ovulating for three years, and then she used a test tube to get herself pregnant.
Unfortunately, because of her daughter's love affair, Li Ping accidentally miscarried.
Even so, seeing that Li Ping was single-mindedly protecting his daughter, Hong Wei did not pursue this matter too much.
In this way, Li Ping and Hong Wei's marriage is already good enough.
All of Li Ping's thoughts were on her daughter, and Hong Wei had been looking at them all these years.
For Li Ping, the efforts she has made in her career over the years, in addition to allowing herself to surpass Liu Xiaomin and be looked up to among her classmates, the rest should be for her daughter.
As for Hong Wei, he is a traditional man, and he also hopes to have children of his own, but over the years Li Ping has been busy with her career and does not consider childbearing.
At this point, Hong Wei silently endured, and Li Ping's temper was not something he could control.
Therefore, in the absence of Li Ping's defenses, Hong Wei had illegitimate children abroad.
The child thing is always a problem that cannot be escaped between husband and wife.
Between Li Ping and Hong Wei, Li Ping's heart is always on his daughter and career, and Hong Wei's heart has slowly begun to change, and he has separated his heart from Li Ping and his career and transferred to his descendants.
He did not want his such a large family business, in the end there was no heir to inherit, Li Ping's daughter was not surnamed Hong after all, so he cheated on him and gave birth to an illegitimate child in marriage.
If it were not for the final company accident, Hong Wei's wishful thinking would have won.
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Speaking of the second marriage, I think li ping and Hong Wei's marriage is very happy.
There are several reasons for this.
First, Hong Wei has no children, and Li Ping does not have to worry about the children on both sides being treated differently.
Second, Li Ping did not live with her in-laws and did not have to worry about her in-laws treating her children differently.
Third, Hong Wei treats Li Ping and her daughter well, and is also a responsible man.
The reason why Hong Wei made the mistake of cheating and giving birth to an illegitimate child in marriage is actually inseparable from Li Ping's approach.
We often say that if there is a problem in marriage, it cannot be a person's fault.
Li Ping paid too much attention to her daughter, and even pulled Hong Wei for her daughter Zhang Luo's future, in part because Li Ping felt that she and Chen Zhuo were sorry for her daughter.
Her love for her daughter also contains guilt and regret, so she wants to compensate her daughter.
In her compensation, Hong Wei was pulled, but Hong Wei did not apologize to her daughter, but Li Ping's excessive attention and compensation to her daughter stabbed Hong Wei's heart.
As a man, he also wants to have his own children and enjoy what it's like to be a dad in the true sense of the word, rather than just being someone else's stepfather.
However, Li Ping's temper is uncontrollable by others, and she cannot give Hong Wei a child during the rising period of her career, at which Point Li Ping did not consider Hong Wei's psychology.
However, Hong Wei considered that Li Ping had difficulty in giving birth to a child in middle age, so he would borrow his belly to give birth to a child and fulfill his wishes.
His love for Li Ping is true, and his defense against Li Ping is also true; li Ping is also like this, she loves Hong Wei, and she is also afraid that if she goes bankrupt one day, she will not be able to compensate her daughter, so she also quietly prepared for her daughter.
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For the second marriage, Li Ping and Hong Wei are a happy couple.
Even if they are so happy, Hong Wei and Li Ping still have their own selfish hearts.
Therefore, for marriage, the problem of the first marriage may appear in the second marriage, and the problem in the first marriage may also occur in the second marriage.
To put it bluntly, second marriage has more challenges and tests than the first marriage, but human nature cannot withstand the test, life is like this, marriage is even more so.
There are not so many love in this world than gold, whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, a happy family needs to be operated single-mindedly.
When facing a partner deserting in marriage, in addition to issuing a warning and warning to the other party, you must also reflect on your own problems.
Every time there is a crisis in a marriage, it is an opportunity for both parties to reflect on themselves and repair the marriage.
In the movie "33 Days of Lost Love", Aunt Zhang, who experienced her husband's cheating when she was young, has a classic line:
"You young people now, when things are broken, they always want to change, and in our time, we only wanted to repair.
Buy a refrigerator, the warranty period is only three years, you marry someone, can you expect him to have no problems in his life? If something goes wrong, fix it.
Do you think we can get to this point by being affectionate and rejoicing? We also had stormy times, but we came over and lived together for a lifetime. ”
The truth of marriage is also true.
Don't blame an imperfect intimate relationship, repeatedly wrong marriages are a reminder to you to repair, only those who know how to repair can last forever.
On the contrary, a relationship that divorces as soon as something goes wrong will put a person in a vicious circle of constant substitution.
Speaking of Li Ping's marriage with Hong Wei, in fact, this relationship is already perfect, but it lacks the careful management, and finally there is a crisis.
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