Na wen should be regarded as the happiest woman who lived after the great change of fate in "Breaking into Kanto".
Several women in the play, Xian'er, because of fate, missed the transmission, missed the transmission of martial arts, and wandered in the turbulent displacement all their lives.
After Xiu'er married Chuanwu, she stayed alone in the empty house for 18 years, which was pitiful and regrettable.
Yushu's role is not much, her life has always been a smooth sailing, there are no twists and turns.
Only Na Wen's life can be described as ups and downs, and overnight, she has gone from a noble personality with golden clothes and jade food to a helpless orphan girl.
At that time, most of the descendants of the nobility, because they could not accept the great changes in fate, most of their lives ended in tragedy.
And that diploma has three ways to survive, hard to play a bad hand, into a king bomb, in that war-torn era, safely and happily spent her ordinary life.
01 The Way of the Tamer of Navin
Born in a turbulent world, dynasties change.
Na Wen went from a noble character to a commoner overnight, and the family was implicated, so she had to defect to her uncle outside guanwai.
On the way, all the money was swept away by the accompanying small squatters, Na Wen begged all the way, after thousands of years of hard work to go to the uncle's house, I thought that the family had fallen, the uncle's family was always a place to stay, even if the uncle's family had long been destroyed, and the uncle's words made the text who still dreamed of the revival of the family completely awake.
To what mountain to sing what song, to what place to say what words, you are not a gege, said bad is a refugee, you are also a young lady body and life.
From a gege to a refugee, Nawen did not have much heart to be sad and compassionate, nor did she immerse herself in the dream of reviving the family style, but calmly accepted her uncle's blind date arrangement, which was also her only way to survive.
When an imperial relative marries a farmer, Na wen does not show superiority in his bones because of this, but adapts to this family as much as possible, first lays his feet, and finds a shelter for himself.
On the wedding night, it was learned that Chuanwen was Xian'er's fiancé, and Chuanwen and the Zhu family also began to be vague about this marriage, and there was a big meaning to give Xian'er an explanation.
Na Wen's identity is awkward, but she did not give in because of this, she knows that the Zhu family is her only way to survive, a lonely girl who has no one to rely on, and the wedding night is suspended, and the future road is sad to think about.
To stay in the Zhu family, the first task is to conquer Chuanwen's heart, Chuanwen is ashamed of Xian'er, she slowly impressed him with tenderness, nothing to sing to him, teach him to write, respect him and praise him for relying on him.
Chuanwen has always been stable and more than stable at home, lack of courage, and lack of fire in everything he does, nawen's respect and dependence on him have greatly satisfied his vanity as a man, so he is also extremely fond of his husband.
Na Wen's skill of driving a husband is actually quite clever, and she often coaxes Chuan Wen to be stunned, so that Chuan Wen willingly spoils her work and laziness.
She felt that she was happy and would tell Chuanwen:
Sir, na wen is now very happy, I have not asked my husband to be a high-ranking official, ride a horse, nor seek family wealth, and I will be satisfied to live such a leisurely and quiet family life.
When she doesn't want to work, she will coddle him:
You see people's hands are grinding blisters, hurting people's homes, discuss with you, I and my mother change it, I go home to be hungry, let my mother work in the field.
When she was tired and suffering, she would shout to the messenger:
Sir, I can't live for my wife, my body is sore, my bones are cracked, you pinch me and press, otherwise your wife will not survive the dawn.
It is said that the crying child has candy to eat, and Nawen never hides his laziness and tiredness, but it is such a daughter-in-law who cannot work, cannot cook, and is slippery and lazy every day, but everyone in the Zhu family can't hate it.
Facts have proved that in marriage, it is useless for a woman to blindly work hard and complain, so that she will only spoil a "giant baby" husband and raise a wife full of complaints.
Speaking well is the first step to a long-term marriage.
02 Na wen's way of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Mother Wen once commented on the text:
This daughter-in-law, all day long with her hands, the work in the crop yard will not do anything, half of the pot cake will slip to the bottom of the pot, as soon as she is told to make a living, she frowns, when she wants to talk about playing, there is one thing, the etiquette is complete, ask Ann three times a day, one bite by one, and it is strange and sweet.
That Wen in the Zhu family's several daughters-in-law, should be the farthest away from the mother-in-law, Yushu can be said to be the mother-in-law grew up watching, Xiu'er because of the snub of Chuanwu, let the Zhu family feel guilty about her, so for this daughter-in-law, Wen Ta Niang is also the most distressed one.
That text is different, as a daughter-in-law in a farmer's family, she can't lift her shoulders and can't carry her hands, she is always too tired to work in the field, and her hands and feet are not sharp enough, but she still gets Wen Ta Niang to praise her for being good, which mainly comes from her clever mouth.
Work is not done, just make up for the number of etiquette, three times a day to please Ann, small mouth one by one screaming and coaxing, so that the mother-in-law can not pick out the slightest mistake for her, and even indulge her laziness like a message.
Of course, for the mother-in-law's pickiness and dissatisfaction with her, Na Wen is not unaware, but she pretends to be stupid every time, laughs, and when the mother-in-law is unhappy, she says that she "don't look at everyone's show to know the book Dali, it is a little two, but also happy people", she also playfully asked "Mother, what is two?" ”
A sentence made the mother-in-law laugh, and also resolved a family conflict.
Na Wen's seeming lack of heart and eyes is actually her wisdom in dealing with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
No matter how close the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will always be some friction in life, if everyone is calculating, all day for some trivial things to do, then it is difficult to have a stable day.
03 The Way of Doing Things in Na wen
Some people say that Chuanwu is Zhu Kaishan's favorite son, and Nawen is Zhu Kaishan's favorite daughter-in-law.
Zhu Kaishan showed different trust and tolerance for Nawen from the beginning, she wanted to open a school, without saying a word, she asked for money, and gave it to her without asking.
And na wen never disappointed Zhu Kaishan, helped Chuanwen to give advice, and accepted a group of elders who had never disobeyed Chuanwen's discipline.
What impressed Zhu Kaishan even more was that because Xiu'er, the Zhu family and Han Laohai had formed a grudge, and the whole family was at a loss, Nawen used ten oceans to go to the town to play cards and bet money with Han Laohai and others, winning half of the Zhu family's belongings.
Those who lost money ran to the Zhu family to beg for forgiveness, Zhu Kaishan pushed the boat along the water to sell personal feelings, and used this opportunity to resolve the Crisis of the Zhu family, let everyone help the Zhu family carry frost, in the end, the Zhu family survived this difficult time, and NaWen also became the biggest hero of the Zhu family.
Among the three daughters-in-law of the Zhu family, NaWen is the most careful person in the eyes of everyone, she has her own shrewd little calculation, but she can grasp this measure very well, and will not let everyone get tired of her and annoy her.
She has a ditch in her heart, but she is good at hiding, never drops the chain when she should be shrewd, deaf and dumb when she is confused, does not give in to the struggle, shows weakness when she is weak, is not afraid of things when she encounters things, and is not afraid of ghosts when she encounters ghosts.
It is the wisdom she shows in dealing with people that will make her "useless" be liked by everyone in the Zhu family.
04 Conclusion
As one of the heroines in the play, NaWen's life is actually not much worse than Xian'er' life, Xian'er has a home no matter what, and the moment Nawen comes out of the palace, her identity becomes a helpless refugee.
Therefore, the most realistic thing in front of her is to survive, in order to live, she must have a place in the Zhu family, even if she sympathizes with Xian'er, she must not give up this only chance of survival to Xian'er.
And she can win the hearts of the Zhu family, let Chuanwen love her, and her in-laws protect her, relying not only on her clever mouth that will coax people, but also on her ability to control life and wise means of doing things.
She is not as humble as Xiu'er, nor as strong as Xian'er, she does not care about small things, big things are not confused, she will hold a bad hand of life, but still live a good life.
Life is not easy, no one can guarantee that life can always be smooth, if life encounters great changes, I hope you can also be like that text, can be optimistic and positive to face, life is trivial, to learn to let go and not to calculate; in the face of great right and wrong, to keep a clear head, should strive to know how to fight, should give up do not cling.