Everyone has their own unique value, unique feelings, unique pursuits, and there is no unified end point, and there is no unified starting line.

Unconfident children: the most need to find out his little progress, and speak out, give timely encouragement
Arrogant child: what is needed most is not to strike, but to amplify his dreams and broaden his horizons, because of arrogance. It's because the world you see is too small.
Timid child: What is most needed is not encouragement, but to provide him with all kinds of opportunities to contact people and new things.
Children who are too demanding of themselves: what they need most is to let him pay attention to the differences of others and appreciate the differences of others, rather than caring about the evaluation of others.
Children who are not self-disciplined: What is most needed is not to urge, remind, but to trust them, and trust is the external force that they need to obtain the most.
Good education is an education that needs to be "left blank", appropriately let the child play himself, give him a certain amount of free time to play, imagine, and think, so that he can become an independent and better person. We should pay attention to the experiences, harvests, experiences and pleasures in children's lives, so that they can realize their own intrinsic value.
Parents are the roots, children are the flowers.
The nutrients of the roots are sufficient, and the flowers can bloom more brilliantly. No one is born a "perfect parent", but the road to educating children must be accompanied by continuous learning. Every small step you take is a big step for your child to be excellent.