On the morning of December 15, some media received rumors that Wang Lihong and his wife Li Lianglei had already completed the divorce procedures.
Rumors about Wang Lihong's divorce have been circulating for a long time, and what is rare is that This time Wang Lihong finally responded to the divorce.
"Lianglei and I have filed for divorce, but we will always be a family."
The intimate Wang Lihong is well aware of the terrible power of the network, and also considers Li Lianglei and tells a lot of details to avoid outsiders from thinking wildly.
"Lianglei and my private life is very simple and simple, so I will not respond to any media again."
In these years of marriage, I have done too much and regret it.
Now we have different ideas and plans for the way we live in the future, so we decided to live separately. ”
Regarding divorce, Wang Lihong attributed more of the blame to himself.
This is a lot of shortcomings, and it seems that it is easier to think of what the relevant media have said.
Wang Lihong has a very strong mother, and Li Lianglei's mother-in-law relationship has always been very tense.
Coupled with Wang Lihong's well-known filial piety, Li Lianglei suffered a lot of grievances.
The two sides have different ideas and plans for the future way of life, take Wang Lihong's lifestyle.
Since his marriage for 8 years, in addition to splitting up the time to accompany the children, he still has to spend a lot of time on music.
Li Lianglei is different, graduated from Columbia University, has a higher education, has a good education, and has the ability.
But after marriage, children are born year after year.
Having a child also invests time and energy in companionship and education, and the work of a housewife is 8 years.
Judging from the state of the two people in 19 years, the media has speculated that the two people have a tendency to separate.
Not only did the two parties not post a group photo on social media for a long time, but in the subsequent social network, they mostly participated alone.
None of them responded to their disappearing partners, but spent time with their respective friends.
Wang Lihong's naked eye is more and more invisible to the image, the beard is not shaved, and he no longer shows his wife and muscles.
After two years of the Cold War, the contradictions between the two sides have not been resolved.
Escape is not the way to go, and if it is dragged on, it will be discovered by more people.
Since someone broke the news that there must be evidence, Wang Lihong simply did not run away this time, and directly responded to the official to avoid further speculation by the media.
8 years of marriage, 3 children, the separation of two people makes many people regret.
But marriage is for pleasure, and so is divorce.
After all, some repression is enough to crush a person's patience and consume a person's love.
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The overly strong family atmosphere is suffocating
Whether Li Lianglei's mother-in-law is too excessive, the real situation is only known to their family.
But it has to be said that a strong mother-in-law is a disaster for a marriage.
Yi Nengjing especially felt this, and she once wrote in the book:
"I'm in your house, with your family, and the television is turned on regularly for a long time.
Five o'clock cartoons for your sister's children to see, six o'clock entertainment news is your mother's concern for your work;
At seven o'clock, the news meeting that your ninety-year-old wife wants to hear is particularly loud.
You don't read my words, you don't watch my performances, you don't care about my glory, you just love me and ignore the exit of my soul. ”
Many people have seen "Kangxi Is Coming", and many people in it have said that Yu Chengqing is good to Yi Nengjing.
He is very good, but on the issue of getting along with his family, the two people have a great contradiction.
Later, Yi Nengjing remarried, and the man was Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than himself.
This time, Yi Nengjing's life was no longer full of darkness, and she not only felt her husband's love for her, but also felt the love given to her by her mother-in-law.
Yi Nengjing loves to eat mangosteen, and her mother-in-law brought it from her hometown.
Marrying Qin Hao, the mother-in-law will really treat her as a family member and put her in her heart, and in Yu Chengqing's family, Yi Nengjing can only be the one who can't bear to swallow her voice and is not important.
Women want not only the verbal love and patience of men, but also the need to have someone to support themselves and respect the life they want to live.
If you have to be angry everywhere, you have to be patient all the time, you can't even do what you want, and there is no moment to calm yourself down.
In the end, the uneasiness of the heart will not entertain the angels, but will only attract the devil.
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It's good to be a mom, but you also have to have your own pursuits
In the 8 years of marriage, Li Lianglei, who graduated from Columbia University, in addition to the profession of full-time mother, also served as a producer in Wang Lihong's album.
It seems that the husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken.
However, some media have revealed that Li Lianglei once wanted to meddle in Wang Lihong's acting career and invest more of her own ideas.
But in the process of communication and progress, it was not very pleasant.
Someone broke the news that although Li Lianglei looked soft and weak, she also had her persistence in the face of certain problems, and even had a little strength.
In the end, Li Lianglei did not integrate into Wang Lihong's acting career, but chose a different way of life.
And now, Li Lianglei chose to pursue her dreams, and there are three children who accompany her to pursue her dreams.
Divorced, they are not enemies or friends, and the two people just change the way they get along and continue to love and care for their children.
Li Lianglei can freely gather with her girlfriends to drink, and she can also take her children out to step on the lawn to see the scenery.
It's just that she no longer needs to carry the title of who is who is the wife, and she can let go of the accounting for some people, more purely face her own needs, and face the children more unburdened.
Divorce is not the end of life, but two people continue to explore a more suitable space to spend together.
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Divorce – the hardest topic to ignore this year
As of December, the celebrity couples who officially announced their divorce this year have almost occupied the hot search in various months.
It seems that there are many couples who divorced this year, but in fact, just with the changes in society, everyone seems to have higher and higher requirements for love.
Those feelings that are not pure, sincere, and disrespectful are no longer worth the other person's efforts for the other person.
The increasing divorce rate is actually a wake-up call, marriage is for warm love, not to become a low waiter.
Love requires courage, and marriage requires care.
Love can come and go freely, and marriage is no longer a prison that traps people.
Many people in the older generation do not understand why young people can marry so happily and divorce so happily.
Marriage is a sacred thing in the minds of most people, and marriage does not only represent a wedding, but also represents the birth of children.
Marriage represents a flesh-and-blood, soul-and-soul person who wants to play his own value with someone who understands himself and pursue each other's happiness.
Do one thing, from the beginning to the end, if two people can take it seriously, take care of it carefully, and solve the suffering they encounter together, that is the profit and loss.
Instead of just one person enjoying the glory of the sun, let the other person live under the shadow and look up.
Love needs to be respected and seen.
The author | Yubing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and improve themselves.