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Rice noodles know that the most watched by the rice grain mother is the documentary.
When watching this kind of more professional film, I will generally concentrate on absorbing knowledge, its breadth and professionalism make me addicted, and our family will have a fixed viewing time every week, that is, to watch some high-quality films.
▲ Happy movie viewing time every week
However, watching this kind of film all the time requires a high degree of concentration, and it is indeed a little tiring to watch one.
So whenever I want to relax and change my taste, or do housework and want to open a background sound, I will pick some cool dramas of big heroines to watch.
For example, the previously written "Russian version of Wu Zetian" and "French version of Mulan", this film tells you: what is the "big heroine ceiling"! " and a particularly enjoyable "This "Female Slaughter" of all the evil people, can it still be a fire? 》。
More people, directly cool to open and hang, have become the heroine of the movie! For example, the prototype of the Japanese high-burning movie "Hot Girls at the Bottom", Kobayashi Sayega.
"Bottom Hot Girl" can be said to be a must-see movie for children in their student days, the plot of the film is completely adapted from real people and real events, extra real and convincing, and the contrast between the heroine in the movie and a little regain confidence, trying her best to counterattack, so that many children feel particularly burning!
The highest point is that her counterattack life is not yet finished. At that time, she hit the bottom and was admitted to a famous school to become a legend, and now she chose to give up everything and start again, and was admitted to the graduate school of Columbia University to continue her studies. She constantly refreshes her ceiling, constantly striving towards her goals, super inspirational!
Too sister also has a head start?
The story begins when she was a teenager as a student.
Born in 1988, Shayaka Kobayashi seems to have been labeled a "problem student" and "rebel" since childhood.
In elementary school, she and her parents lied about being "bullied" at school and asked for a transfer.
In junior high school, she began to play with some schoolgirls dressed as sisters, dyeing her hair, making up heavy makeup, and miniskirts, how to attract attention.
In high school, through her unremitting "efforts", she successfully built herself into a "bottom hot girl" with a countdown score, a score of 0 on the test, and a deviation value that is only equivalent to that of the fourth grade of primary school students. (The deviation value is a scoring method for Japanese schools, and the higher the deviation value, the more capable the student is.) ）
The grades have fallen like this, does the family care?
Speaking of this rice grain mother, Sayaga's father put all his energy into his precious son, bent on training him to become a baseball player, and he almost didn't ask about this daughter.
In my opinion, Sayaga will step by step to the road of "rebellion", and why not hope to attract the attention of the family, and want to use all kinds of bold and out-of-line ways to let dad look at himself more?
Fortunately, my mother found the clue.
Unlike her father's concept of "stopping the loss in time", no matter how ugly the people around her said, Sayega's mother always believed that she could get into a good university, and also enrolled her in Mr. Pingtian's cram school.
Because he had to study for 15 hours a day outside of school, he had no time to sleep at all, so Sayega snoozed several times in school classes.
Then, the parents were invited.
It is reasonable to say that she worked hard to provide for her children to go to school, and as a result, she slept every day, and who put this matter on her body was going to be angry, right?
But Sayaga's mother was really a cruel person, and she was not annoyed, but instead pleaded with the teacher and said that our children had to study outside for 15 hours a day, and only this little time to make up for sleep during the day.
He even brought a pillow and slippers for Sayaga to go to bed and school.
In order to make up for the tuition, the mother only secretly worked several more jobs at night, and also comforted her daughter that "it doesn't matter if she can't pass the exam", although she doesn't say anything, Sayega found out that her mother secretly worked.
When Sayaga took the money she had earned from her hard work in her mother's hands, Saya knew that all her efforts had a direction.
In fact, the wholehearted trust and support of parents is the greatest comfort and confidence of children. Although dad is unreliable, but this attention and unconditional love, Sayaga got twice as much from mom!
A changed life
Let's talk about another nobleman in Sayaga's life, Nobuki Hirata.
▲ More domineering motto
He can be regarded as a good mentor and friend of Sayega, and instead of laughing at her lack of common sense and not even understanding the topics of elementary school students, he will take her to read comic books and study history, and set her grand goals that he dare not think.
In the face of Sayaga, who scored zero, he praised her for filling in the wrong answer creatively; when reviewing the questions and answers, he singled out her weaknesses, and as long as the answer was wrong, he had to remove her makeup; he blew her rainbow fart every day and asked her which idea to pick, saying that Sayaka really analyzed it carefully.
With this confidence in the famous school, Mr. Pingtian added another code to her in his own way.
Feeling the support of his mother and Hirata-sensei, Sayaga's own little universe was completely ignited!
She wanted to see the world higher and farther away, and wanted to be a knowledgeable person like Hirata-sensei. So, she really began to work hard to study.
Although there were several twists and turns in the middle, she was finally admitted to the dream Keio University.
In the movie, Sayaga's story ends here.
Off-screen, however, Kobayashi Sayaga's life has only just begun.
Life will not go all the way, after graduating from a famous school, she did not enter a famous enterprise and become a senior executive; nor did she become a legend in the industry.
After graduating from Keio University, she chose her favorite profession and became a wedding planner because she could witness the happiness of others.
The days passed a few years uneventfully, until the popularity of the movie "Bottom Hot Girl" made her story public.
She is constantly invited to speak around the country and shares her journey with children. After meeting her, many children will excitedly say "Your story changed my life!" ”
The children's feedback gave Sayega a new idea, and she wanted to help more students.
The courage to start over
Teacher Pingtian once told her that she studied psychology in college and usually used a lot of psychology knowledge when teaching.
▲ Sayaga with the teacher
Hirata's nod once again gave Sayaga a way forward, and she decided to continue her studies.
In 2019, at the age of 31, Sayega enrolled in the Graduate School of Sacred Heart For Women to study education, and she is also preparing for a larger plan to study more advanced educational methods abroad.
But the first big problem in front of us is the language barrier.
Sayega had basically no contact with English since graduating from Keio University, and coupled with the fact that she had to learn professional pedagogical content, a large number of unfamiliar words were like mountains in front of her.
At this time, she is 32 years old, her memory and learning ability are far less than her childhood self, and there is still a family to take care of in life, and sufficient study time is a luxury for her.
Indeed, after becoming a middle-aged mother with a family and a baby, my own time is compressed, compressed, and compressed again, and I used to be able to sit down quietly and read a book quietly, but now most of the book intake is done by the ear, and sometimes it is multiplied.
Rice grain mother remembered that she had also written about a legendary Japanese woman before, 50-year-old An Zheng Makoto, carrying her husband and son, and took the exam herself to Dongda! The article is "The boy re-entered the famous school, and after a year he got the notice as he wished, but when he opened it, he found that...".
True Bow Sister is particularly good at arranging her studies with a handbook, she said: "Write the next things you are going to do with a pencil, and write the things that have been done with a ballpoint pen, so that when the future review plan changes, the pencil handwriting can be erased and rewritten, and the notebook will not appear too messy." ”
And she will set herself a small goal of stages, every 3 months for a stage, so that it will not be too long, the goal is too long-term easy to slacken off, nor because the time is too short to see the effect and have no sense of achievement.
In terms of hard work, True Bow's son studied 10 hours a day, and she had to learn enough for 15 hours. (It was another 15 hours, and That's how Sayaga worked at the time.)
In life, she took care of the whole family, she did not delay at all, studied intensively and completely blocked the news of exams, even the husband next to the pillow did not know.
What a cruel man!
Sayaga is the same, he has experienced the taste of hard work, how can he be willing to the status quo?
The experience of the counterattack has allowed Sayega to always retain that fighting spirit in her heart, and what she has been changed is not only a test score, but has the ability to drive herself and lifelong learning.
She firmly believes that with hard work, she can change her life at any time!
Sayaga, who had studied hard for 15 hours a day, was back, and there were pain and tears in the process of preparing for the TOEFL, and she did not think of giving up, but the next day she gritted her teeth and insisted on continuing.
It took two years for her to finally improve her TOEFL score from 62 to 104! At the same time, she also received the long-dreamed Columbia University acceptance letter.
The "Bottom Hot Girl" of that year has long ended, but in real life, Kobayashi Sayega used his own efforts to add a big Easter egg to everyone!
Perhaps, Sayaga, who was admitted to Keio and admitted to Columbia University, may not eventually become a great person.
But for her, this experience along the way has already given her the ambition to do her best to give it a go, change herself, and change the lives of many people!
We must finally let children understand that life is a marathon, maintain the ability of lifelong learning, strive for the goal, and have the courage to reopen life at any time, which is the most important thing.
As Mr. Hirata said to Sayaga: The experience of fighting for a grand goal will become the strength of your life!
May our children have this power!
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