After the "double subtraction", I ghostly sent God to watch "Bottom Hot Girl" again. If you're also an anxious mom or dad, this film is worth watching with your heart, or N times. You and you may secretly rejoice that it is still too late.
1. Always be on the side of the child
As a child, Sayega was lonely, and her dream was to make friends. When you are a teenager, you can't fit into the circle of your peers, how terrible, only those who have experienced it know. In the world of children, it is a big thing not to make friends, not only to endure loneliness, loneliness, but also to linger in the self-denial of "I am not good enough, not worthy of love". Many children spend their academic careers trembling in long-term spiritual bullying such as exclusion, isolation, and ridicule.
A child of a relative's family, who was once a junior high school bully, was ostracized by his roommates in high school, usually chatted and did not let interject, went out to play and did not let him follow, garbage was also thrown in his place, laundry detergent shower gel was mixed with unknown liquid, after three years of suffering, even college could not go to college.
Sayega was lucky that her mother was on her side at all times and kept transferring her until she made 3 good sisters. An ordinary woman twice questioned the school education policy. For the first time, in the face of campus bullying, my mother spoke out in time: this should not be the school's educational policy, and it is not necessarily right to exist all the time.
The second time, when the principal pressed and asked, "Who else is the one who smokes can be exempted from expulsion." Mom was even more domineering and retorted: "Betraying your friends for yourself is the educational policy of this school?" If I really think this is a good way to educate, my daughter is willing to drop out of school. I am very proud of my daughter who doesn't say anything. ”
Such a fairy mother can "come and fight". Parents are the biggest supporter of our children, and we often forget to stick our shoulders out.
2. Just do what makes you happy
In the film, my mother said: "There must be a different world waiting for you in the new school... Sayaga just has to do what makes him happy." In the hit drama "Hello, Li Huanying", the mother said: My future daughter, I will let her be healthy and happy.
"Happiness is good", these four simple words, how long have we lost the ability to say it. Sayega did not get good grades since she was a child, and her grades fell directly to the bottom of the grade in high school, but her mother never blamed her. When she returned from private school, her mother said happily, we Sayaga look so happy. When I went to visit Yingqing University, my mother said that I really hope that Sayaga can go to school here, and the children here look so confident.
In the film, all the starting points for mom: as long as Sayaga is happy. It is to fully respect the wishes of the child, this "bottom of the pond" problem girl, did not "long crooked", on the contrary, to give a little light to shine, and finally from the scum counterattack to the Japanese famous school.
Reflecting on the road of education, are we overly utilitarian? How long has it been since our children laughed? Parents are lifelong careers, and I hope it's still too late.