Drowning and outings | reflections on happiness

The opposite of happiness is not unhappiness, but numbness, i.e., loss of the ability to perceive happiness and happiness.

No matter how numb a person is, he also craves warmth and happiness. But the craving is similar to the drowning man's struggle. All efforts and efforts have a very clear goal - to go ashore as soon as possible. As long as you go ashore, then everything is fine. Once ashore, the struggles, sins, and pains that had previously been in the water became meaningful. It can be remembered, beautified, and sublimated.

What if you can't get ashore?

Or being told to stay in the water forever?

Does the days that lie ahead in the water still make sense? Are the previous efforts made to get ashore still valuable?

Many people's expectations for love and marriage are probably the drowning people's desire to get ashore as soon as possible. This undoubtedly puts considerable pressure on love, on marriage, and on oneself and one's significant other.

Stress can indeed act as motivation. But there is no light load on the long road, living under pressure for a long time, people will be deformed.

As a result, disguise and deception have become the norm for some couples. Same bed, different dreams, drifting away. The most familiar stranger, said this should be so.

However, whether you go ashore or not, the days still have to pass day by day, and the joys and sorrows of chai rice oil and salt should be how or how.

At this time, we may need to reflect on whether the survival mode of the drowning person needs to be adjusted and converted, such as how about the outing mode?

No longer thinking of doing their best in a battle, no longer fantasizing about the prince and princess living a happy life from now on, but walking a long way, rejoicing for a while. To discover, to participate, to grow, to appreciate. The premature end of a journey is certainly regrettable and resentful, but it does not change the pleasure and enjoyment of the past journey, does it?

Moreover, many times it is necessary to end a journey in order to better move to the next stop. Instead of two people complaining to each other on the road, suppressing each other, and attacking each other, it is better to go their separate ways and rejoice.

Of course, this is not something that a numb person can do.

Unfortunately, the more numb you are, the more you need to drink to quench your thirst.

Ps: Believe me, everything I said is wrong.

The caption image comes from: Yu Ying mobile phone

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