The secret to staying happy: don't be annoyed, don't argue

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.

I often hear people complain that life is tired. But life, where is the smooth sailing? Aren't we all struggling in turn in tiredness and happiness?

For life, acceptance is a norm, and the taste of life lies in tasting and acceptance. Only after experiencing it, will you really understand the taste. Look down on the gains and losses, and the heart will not be bored.

There was an old man who was too old to take an ancestral painting to an expert for identification.

The old man said that his father told him before his death that the painting was made by a famous artist and was extremely valuable. After identification, experts believe that it is a fake, because the imitation process is good, so it is worth a few hundred dollars.

Afterwards, many neighbors learned of this matter, and they all sighed and felt sorry for the elderly.

However, the old man smiled and said, "Well, I don't have to worry about someone stealing this painting anymore, and I can finally hang it in the living room for decoration." ”

There is a proverb that goes like this: "Kicking a stone in anger will only hurt your own toes and fingers." ”

If a person is obsessed with some unnecessary trivia all day long, and the mediocre disturb themselves, in the long run, where is the happiness to speak of?

Life is a process of slow growth and slow seeing. There are few things in the world that have the best of both worlds, fish and bear paws cannot have both.

If you look down on the gains and losses, you won't be worried about them.

Which is more intimate than fame and life? Which is more valuable than life or profit? Which one is more harmful than getting or losing?

A person who pursues fame and fortune too much will pay more.

Everything must have a degree, beyond which it is worth the loss.

There is a painter who has the habit of taking a nap every day, and his daily life is to paint for a while, stay for a while, and be at ease.

One day, his agent told him, "Your two paintings were sold and auctioned for a very high price." ”

When he saw the long list of numbers on his bank card, the whole person could not calm down.

With those two paintings, he became famous, and his life became more and more busy, going in and out of salons, banquets, and interviews all day long.

Instead of taking a nap, my body became worse and worse, and I often lost sleep all night and all night.

In the past, he looked down on fame and fortune and did not worry about which painting was not painted well.

Now, he scratches his ears and scratches his cheeks because a certain painting is not painted well, and there are countless worries and troubles every day.

The painter slowly wanted to return to his previous life, and he tried to find a balance between gain and loss, so he closed the door and pushed away most of the useless banquets, trying to return his life to the previous plainness.

Although the coldness of the moment is a little unaccustomed, but after a long time, he has changed back to his former leisurely self-amusement.

In addition to fame and fortune, there are many more important things in our lives.

If fame and fortune are blinded by a leaf and forget the meaning of life, then fame and fortune will only be a sharp blade that destroys people's lives.

There's a saying that goes something like this: "Happiness never depends on how much you have, but on how much you look down on." ”

There is a line that says, "When you clasp your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands." ”

We always have all kinds of gains and losses. Face every person and every relationship with a normal heart, whether it is friendship or love, look down, and you will not be distressed by its sudden departure.

Life is like a long journey.

Life is like a baggage, the more things in it, the heavier the pace of moving forward.

Life is a long road, where will someone have been smooth sailing?

Therefore, everything must be looked down upon, looked open, and seen through, in order to be happier and happier.

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Author: Ah Ming Source: Philosophy Life Network (The copyright of this article belongs to the original author, the author can contact us in order to distribute the manuscript fee) Editor: Deng Qi

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