Fate has arrived, and falling in love is a natural thing.
When each other has established a relationship, how to get along tests the wisdom of couples.
In our lives, how many couples, holding hands in sweet encounters, are also unwavering in love; and when it comes to the dull period of emotion, everyone will become hesitant.
Why is this happening?
Two people with different personalities, holding hands because of love, often need a long run-in process.
Where the fate begins, in each other's eyes and hearts, surrounded by romance and novelty, all they see are the advantages of the lover, even if they find that the other party has shortcomings, they will choose to ignore it.
And when the freshness in the feeling is gone, the patience of loving each other will also disappear.
A fate, without positivity and enthusiasm, then the two people get along, it will be like a pool of stagnant water, making it impossible for people to find feelings of happiness and continue to expect anything. Unconsciously, the two sides had the idea of separation.
How do you tie a person up?
In fact, everyone wants love to last.
The wind and snow are you, and the bland is also you.
The person who holds hands with the loved one can spend the first month with the other party, and can also face the ups and downs.
It's just that getting along really requires wisdom.
If you are together and love each other in the wrong way, it is easy to throw the feelings out of balance.
From a man's standpoint, how to grasp a long-term love?
If you want to successfully win the hearts of women and make women not abandon you, men need to use their sincerity and patience to step by step to the other party's heart.
However, in the process of giving for love, it is necessary to remain rational enough. Otherwise, if you make emotional moves, it is easy to be led by love by the nose, and the result is not worth the loss.
Someone has done experiments on human nature.
In the relationship between two people, a person's bottomless payment may not be the gratitude of the other party. Once habit becomes natural, the other person will not only not appreciate the other person's efforts, but will even take it for granted.
This phenomenon is a manifestation of "Babe's law".
A lot of effort, at first, may bring people a sense of freshness. Over time, repeated stimuli will only numb people. Even between couples, the same principle is followed.
For example, in order to tie up someone, men send flowers once a week and gifts on special days, and over time, women's surprises will be reduced. When the girl's heart, the man's efforts are regarded as a matter of habit, and the cherishing in the heart will also become indifferent.
This means that if a man wants to win love, he cannot blindly give.
Smart men, who can realize this, often make girls realize that they are important through a step-by-step way, and use personal charm to tie each other. Psychology: Read "Babe's Law" and tie a woman's heart.
Lucky love needs to be run-in.
The feelings between people are usually a slow process.
Before they lack understanding of each other, they tend to have concerns and will not give up on some things.
When both parties have a certain understanding, or become friends who know the roots, the feelings will also usher in the opportunity to further sublimate. In fact, couples get along, but also need a gradual process.
Although, two people choose to come together because they are in love.
But at this time, what everyone is eyeing is often the advantages of the other party, or there are many advantages that they have not yet discovered. In this case, in fact, there are still certain limits to each other's understanding.
Couples who are truly in love often bring their two hearts closer and closer with the passage of time.
This means that if a man wants to completely become the object of women's entrustment, he needs to maintain a single-minded attitude in love, keep the original intention of emotion, and make women feel at ease day by day under the witness of time.
When the girl realizes that there is nothing wrong with choosing you, a heart can be regarded as completely accepting you.
A man's charm is the key to longevity.
Use flattery to win a person's favor.
In the end, it is easy to be disappointed.
People get along with each other, if you want to become in the eyes of everyone, a recognized person, often need to have their own strength. Especially in love, if a man wants a woman to have a heart in his heart, he often does not rely on humble flattery.
Truly intelligent men will start from themselves and strive to improve their personal strength.
In this way, girls can feel that this person is very attractive, and they will also find enough security and a sense of solidity from men. Once these feelings are formed, women will also love someone with a dead heart.
From the perspective of "Babe's Law", in the world of love, too much effort will seem too much. If you want to become the only one in a woman's mind, the only one for the rest of your life, you must first achieve excellent quality.
Love someone deeply and can't lose yourself.
Love can easily change a person.
After moving the heart, everyone is easily moved by love and willing to complete each other.
Many people think that if they work hard for love, they will be able to seize the happiness they want. In fact, in the process of falling in love, it will still be accompanied by a game, and once you lose yourself, it is easy to be in a passive position.
Imagine when a man becomes a non-committalist.
In the minds of girls, how much security can such a man bring to himself?
On the contrary, when men are strict with themselves and improve their personal qualities, in the woman's mind, they are a positive and trustworthy person. After all, happiness for the rest of your life is not achieved by flattery, but requires both hands to fight.
No matter when, men can not be lost in love, but should remain a little rational, with the beloved girl, together to run to the desired happiness.
Two people in love, not only romantic and beautiful.
In the process of getting closer to each other, it is inevitable to find that there are still many defects in each other. At this time, when each other ushers in a new understanding, how should we continue this relationship?
For men, what really attracts girls is usually not deliberately flattering.
If you want to achieve love, men may wish to read the "Babe's Law" and grasp the dominance of emotions.
Everyone should know that only by enhancing the charm and strength of individuals, in the process of operating love, grasping the measure, such a man can make women favor and relax in the degree of relaxation, and at the same time relax their hearts.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.