In the face of the girl you like, have you also experienced this moment of hesitation, like a girl, and then you ask your friends for help: "Family, I want to confess!" Friend 1: "Don't think about it, just rush it, what if it happens?" Friend 2: "Brother, impulse is the devil, think twice before acting~"
If it were you, what would you choose? Gives you three seconds to think! Choose to punch the iron juice directly and send a big NO to you. Confess to girls, you have to pay attention to ways and methods, so hard rush can not work. Next, Chestnut teaches you 3 tricks to help you confess your success and harvest sweet love.
hint
The so-called hint, of course, is not to get straight to the point, rushing to tell the girls: "Hey! I like you, try it with me! "In doing so, girls not only can't feel your liking, but also easily misunderstand that you are a rash prodigal son." So what to do? Chestnut teaches you a trick: in the communication of daily life, let the girl slowly feel your liking for her.
The good experience brought about by the gradual heating up of emotions, and the small stimulation of guessing the mind, are not direct confessions. You can start by intermittently expressing your appreciation for her and making her aware of your careful thinking. At this time, don't come to some greasy to the explosion of earthy love words, what "you are particularly annoying today, likable, not tired of looking", which will make girls feel superficial and exaggerated, and avoid you.
When you talk about the ideal type, you can deliberately say some characteristics that belong to her, for example, she is short-haired and big-eyed, you can say that you have a special love for short-haired girls, especially the kind that can be cute and loveable with big eyes. I believe that as long as it is not a girl with a particularly large nerve, she can get your hint.
In addition, in the daily relationship can also show a little "horse's foot", in some small things appropriately eccentric, let her feel that your attitude towards her and others is not the same. You know, preference can make girls most moved. After doing this, it is time to observe the girl's reaction, if she does not act disgusted or even a little happy, then I have to congratulate the big brother, can successfully enter the second step.
Create mood swings
To put it bluntly: let girls have a sense of uncertainty. When a girl isn't sure if you like her, she'll focus more on you and be more attracted to you. For example, when you are chatting, you often express your liking for her consciously or unconsciously, so at this time the girl will think: Does he like me?
But when you usually get along, you take the degree well and refuse to offer courtesy and please. The girl is not sure of your intentions, and her heart will start to mutter: Doesn't he like me? Could it be that I misunderstood? At this stage, the girl may constantly test you, and you need to maintain this vague sense of ambiguity. Of course, this degree should still be grasped well, and the girl cannot think that you are the sea king out fishing.
While girls are attracted to you, while thinking about the relationship between the two of you, they will naturally become more and more up to you. But this ambiguous state should not be maintained for too long, the time is too long, either the novelty disappears, or it enters the ranks of spare tires. So, when you're roughly sure of the girl's intentions, all we have to do is the third step.
Seize the moment
Next, you need to create a strong sense of love atmosphere, and then when the atmosphere is most ambiguous, directly a big action out of the white, stable, accurate, and fierce to break through the relationship and win love. So how do you create such an atmosphere? This depends on the environment and dating content.
For example, after watching a love movie at night, walking on the way to send the girl home, the girl is in high spirits, take the initiative to tell you about her yearning for love, then you can first test in language and body, if the girl does not refuse, you can push the boat along the water to confirm the relationship.
Write in the last words
Of course, confession also needs to be tailored to people. Some girls need a formal confession, thinking that love begins with a bouquet of flowers and a sentence of "I like you", while some girls prefer a natural, low-key and reassuring feeling. Therefore, the skills should not be directly applied, flexible adjustment is king. Remember that a bite can not be fat, every step before falling in love is paving the way for your happiness. Let's take one step at a time, won't the love we yearn for come?
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Author | Yellow chestnut Ye
Consultant of the First Psychological Writing Group | Senior Emotional Mentor | Best-selling columnist on the internet