Because of an interview, many people's former "childhood idol" He Junxiang collapsed and sent himself to the hot search.
In this variety show, the topic is about three children, 37 years old this year, He Junxiang, who already has 2 daughters, was asked by reporters about "whether to have three children" and "the age difference between children is too big trouble" and other issues.
He Junxiang's original answer was decent, but when he talked about whether he wanted the three children to be male or female, he officially began to "confuse the speech":
"I hope that the third child is a son, and I must hurry up and ask for some secret recipes for asking for children!"
"Make sure the third child is the son's rebirth."
At this point, the reporter asked incredulously, "Is this possible?" He Junxiang naturally replied, "Yes, because gender can be confirmed in 7 or 8 weeks now."
The reporter asked "what if it is a daughter"? He Junxiang calmly said, "If it is really a daughter, it is possible that she will not want to have children."
After the interview video was exposed, it immediately triggered a number of netizens to discuss, and some netizens complained, "Does your family have a throne to inherit?"? Some netizens expressed their confusion: "It is understandable to want children and daughters, but if you really don't want them because you are a daughter, it is too much."
Although after the fermentation of public opinion, He Junxiang urgently "debunked the rumors", saying that the original intention was not to want his wife to work too hard, and it was only a hypothesis, which had nothing to do with son preference, and he also loved his two daughters, but he was obviously very weak, and netizens did not buy it.
Fetal sex identification is illegal, too "crazy" for parents of boys
Since 2002, China has clearly stipulated that "non-medical needs for fetal sex identification and artificial sex selection are prohibited".
Although there is no explicit stipulation in this regard in Hong Kong and Taiwan, and the expectation of parents to "have both children and daughters" is understandable, as a public figure, it is indeed surprising to make such remarks.
In modern society, the concept of equality between men and women has been vigorously advocated, but there are not a few parents who still adhere to the feudal idea of son preference, and it is common to "pick up male treasures" online, knock on the side of doctors to ask the sex of the fetus, and even draw blood to send to Hong Kong for testing.
In 2016, Wenzhou Yongjia police destroyed a huge fetal sex identification network covering more than 30 provinces and cities across the country, involving more than 300 people and illegally testing more than 50,000 copies of pregnant women's blood, with an amount of more than 200 million.
It is conceivable that if the fetal test results do not meet expectations, how many girls will eventually lose their right to come into this world.
Previously, CCTV had also exposed the mysterious "birth drug".
I gave birth to a daughter, last year I had a female fetus, and the day before yesterday I checked my stomach as if I was a, kneeling for a fetal medicine, fulfilling my son's dream. The mother who has a "sincere desire for a son" posted a request for help in a social forum, hoping to get a "fetal medicine" to turn the daughter in her belly into a son.
The so-called fetal drug, also known as "fetal change drug", as the name suggests, is a kind of "miracle drug" that can convert the sex of the fetus in the stomach through a certain "mysterious" principle.
In fact, as long as there is a little biological knowledge, the sex of the fetus has been determined at the moment when the sperm and egg combine to form a fertilized egg, and it is undoubtedly a fantasy to achieve "female turning man" through a small pill.
But many parents have long lost their minds in order to give birth to a son, and the birth pill is like a straw in the hands of a drowning person, even if it is useless, it will be tightly grasped.
And this terrible transfecation drug, after taking "useless" is actually the best ending, CCTV report mentioned that the market of transfecation drugs contain a large amount of methyltestosterone (a male hormone), resulting in some fetuses in the birth will even become intersex, ruined life.
Having children and daughters is the same, and educating children well is the last word
Due to traditional concepts such as "raising children to prevent aging" and "marrying out daughters are like spilled water", many parents will sincerely believe that it is stronger to give birth to boys than girls, even if they do not say it, but there is a patriarchal behavior.
In the final analysis, this is that ideological concepts have not changed in time, and the social reality of "having children and daughters is the same" has not been recognized.
In real life, it is not uncommon for a son to lose all family property, regardless of the situation of elderly parents, and cases of giving birth to daughters are thriving in their careers and providing for their parents.
For parents, "having children and daughters are the same" is not empty words, whether boys or girls, parents educate their children well, so that they know how to honor their parents, and it is the last word to become better talents in the future.
Instead of dwelling on the gender of the child in the belly, parents should think about how to change their patriarchal thinking and educate their children better in the future.
Old Miao Conclusion:
As a public figure, it is even more important to be cautious in words and deeds, and it is undoubtedly inappropriate to make remarks with obvious preference for sons in public.
As parents of ordinary children, we must abandon the feudal crap idea of preferring sons to daughters, because in the current era, there is really no difference between having a son and having a daughter.
Today's topic: Do you have patriarchal parents around you?
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