Super Daddy's division of duties

In this era of increasingly advocating that "fatherly love cannot be missing", there are really very few fathers who can really bring high-quality companionship to their babies. Are dads really very talented in parenting, not working hard enough, or don't want to do it at all?

Dads in Mom's Eyes: Never been so unreliable

Let Dad make a milk powder, the water temperature can burn a layer of skin in the mouth...

Let the father change a diaper is not wet, he can change you crooked, the child pees...

Let Dad put on a dress, he can button up...

Let the father wipe the fart, the baby is crying dead and alive, he can also slowly wipe the two fingers Zen...

Ask Dad to help him take a bath, he can almost press the baby into the water...

Let dad help to put to sleep, and within 10 minutes, the whole building where the baby can cry can be heard...

This is just unreliable fathers, those who are too lazy to move their legs, too lazy to open their mouths, too lazy to get up are even more hateful in the eyes of their mothers:

No matter how sad the baby cries, as soon as people enter the toilet, they squat for half an hour, and they have to lock the door, you can't go in and scold him...

No matter how hard you work, as soon as people come home, they will continue to rest for a while, Erlang legs upturned, mobile phone play, a play is an hour...

No matter how tired you are at night, holding your waking baby around the house, people are sleeping like thunder...

Who dares to say that meeting such a husband does not have a headache... The most important thing is that the husbands in the world are still similar. Ha ha. No wonder it is said that the heart that wants to divorce in the first year of giving birth to a baby always rises and falls, haha

Daddy in the baby's eyes: Who are you?

Dads think that babies are the same as in the TV series, well-behaved and cute, and they are a good toy. Many fathers come home no matter what the baby is doing, they come up and pinch their faces, funny, most babies don't buy it. The baby thinks of you who, during the day does not take me, come up to disturb me to play, hands are still heavy, I want mother, I want grandma, wow wow crying. Therefore, the father was irritable, and the good quietly handed it over to others, and the bad one made a big noise to the baby.

Dad's eyes in himself: I am the best dad in the world

I work hard every day to earn milk powder money and clothes money for the baby, and I try to provide him with the best material conditions; before I came home, I would play games to see how perfect I am now, and also take time to accompany the baby. I give so much, the baby only recognizes her mother, I am not jealous. I cry as soon as I hold the baby, you think I want to, but I don't still insist on holding him...

In this way, it is true that in the era of rapid social development, whether it is a mother or a father, it is not so good. There are many dads who will have a change after the children (especially boys) are a little older (around the age of 2), that is, they are more willing to play with their dads than with their moms who are responsible for eating and drinking, but before the age of 1, dads can leave them alone or there is no suitable thing for dads to do? I deliberately summarized some things that are suitable for dads to do, for your reference:

1. Singing and telling stories. Especially for fathers who have done prenatal education, let him sing to the baby, the baby will experience the fun of a different voice from the mother.

2. Cut nails, treat your navel, shave your hair. Although Dad's hands and feet are clumsy, but he is bold, these things that are a little dangerous factor Mom does not dare to do, just leave it to dads, and it will really get better and better.

3. Playmates of the development of the big sport. From the birth of the baby, the father is more able to play than the mother, which I really admire. At the beginning, my baby did not lie down for a long time, his father put a cylindrical cushion under his arm, and then grabbed the cushion and the baby, let him move on the bed, and the baby smiled happily. To the turnover stage, in order to be lazy, dad let the baby lie on the foam pad, and then dad used his feet to go to the diaphragm baby's waist, and then gently give a force, let the baby go out of the semi-turned state, the baby himself turned over with a hard effort. When the baby can sit, his dad lies down, holds the baby high in his hand, and then rotates the baby left and right like a clock... In short, his various "unreliable" creative ways of playing make the baby laugh happily.

4. Feed complementary food. I think that dad is more suitable for feeding complementary food than mom, dad is naturally playful, and seeing the baby's pilaf in his hand, holding a spoon and other actions will not stop, but encourage. He can make dad eat dirtier (because he doesn't have to clean up the house, haha) and he can make the baby happier.

5. The reaper who sleeps the second half. Although it is best not to change people in the middle of sleep, it is enough for you to hold a little guy of one or twenty pounds for more than half an hour. So you may wish to try the mother to let the baby quiet down first, and then transfer it to the father, the mother whispers next to it, the father is more powerful, the hug is more stable, and can hold longer. The baby falling asleep in Daddy's arms will also make Daddy more confident.

6. Go out and hold the baby artifact. Whenever we go out on outings, visit shopping malls, go to early education, playgrounds, and everything that needs to make a lot of effort to hold the baby, all the fathers...

7, all the work that Dad himself is willing to do... Haha, you are not wrong, as long as the father is willing to let him do it, the old mothers move less mouth, you can move less legs, why not.

How, dad can do a lot of work, of course, the mother should also be more encouraged when the father is working, can not come up to crackle and criticize, and then quote some parenting experts to educate him. You must know that the father is also a bear child, and he also needs to be coaxed to praise and encourage. In this way, after the father's self-confidence is inflated, he will be more willing to learn parenting knowledge, and may be able to ask you for advice.

Of course, I will not tell you, once in a while mom also has to play a trick, steal a lazy, hide in the toilet or pretend to sleep, let the father experience the fun and bitterness of a baby alone, he will understand you better.

Moms hurry up and raise your family to be a super daddy!

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