In the countryside, the appearance of bare sticks that cannot marry a wife is also a very normal phenomenon, and in the international community, there are many rural people who cannot marry a wife, such as in countries like India, who have more single sticks than in china's rural areas.
According to the results of the seventh national census, China's male population is 723.34 million, accounting for 51.24%; while the female population is 688.44 million, accounting for 48.76%. And there are a full 34.9 million more men than women.
What does this data mean, it means that there are about 30 million male population in our country, and they will not be able to marry a daughter-in-law. Among the 30 million people, the phenomenon of single sticks in the countryside is even more serious.
If nothing else, take our village, for example, there are 1200 people in our village, of which the number of men who cannot marry their daughters-in-law is more than 50, and the vast majority of rural single sticks are over 40 years old.
This is the case in our villages, and the thousands of counties and villages in the country are also evident, so the problem of marrying a daughter-in-law in the countryside is a heavy task and a long way to go. So now the question is, what should so many people in the countryside who can't marry a wife in the future?

As for the so many people in the countryside who can't marry their wives in the future, what should they do? First of all, I am here to tell a very true story, the story is very sad, but after reading it, it makes people think deeply.
There is an old single stick in our village, surnamed Li, but everyone likes to call him "Silly Wang".
Silly Wang seems to be in his 60s now, I haven't seen him in a long time, maybe he is still a bare stick.
So is Silly Wang really stupid, according to the reason, in fact, Silly Wang is not stupid, but it is too filial piety, too good at living a life. It is also in this way that Under the influence of his father, Silly Wang has beaten a lifetime of bare sticks.
Speaking of Silly Wang, when he was young, according to his family conditions, he was also able to marry a daughter-in-law, because Silly Wang's father used to be the only landlord in our village.
Although the composition of the Silly Wang's family was the landlord, although the landlord at that time was not very good, the house where the Silly Wang family lived was the most in our village.
However, when the matchmaker proposed to Silly Wang, Silly Wang's father had several small nines and nines in his heart, and also gave the following reasons:
First reason: The father of the local lord of silly Wang, with the superior conditions of his own family, did not want to give too much bride price.
At that time, most of the people in the village were very poor, but the Silly Wang family was an exception, although during the struggle, Silly Wang's father was also frequently paraded in the streets. However, the skinny camel is bigger than the horse, and the Silly Wang family is still relatively brilliant.
In the seventies and eighties, if the family was poor and could not afford the bride price, it was difficult to get married without the introduction of the matchmaker. Compared with other families, although Silly Wang's father paid the bride price, he was a "very miserly" rich man, and even wanted to marry Silly Wang's daughter-in-law without paying the bride price.
Therefore, in the end, under the "careful calculation" of Silly Wang's father, Silly Wang was more than 30 years old, and he still could not find a ruyi daughter-in-law.
The second reason: the crooked reasoning of the stupid old father, "After the son has a daughter-in-law, he will not be filial to the old father..."
I don't know if the stupid landlord father had any shadow before, or some other reason. When I was young, every time I went to his house to play, he said to me, "Don't believe in long hair, long hair is a lie." ”
At that time, I was small, and I didn't know what "long hair" meant, and when I grew up, I didn't know that the long hair that this stupid old father said was originally the meaning of a woman.
So why does Silly Father often say the phrase "long hair is a lie"?
Listen to my grandfather said: In the year when Silly Wang was 7 years old, I don't know what the reason was, Silly Wang's mother ran away with others, maybe Silly Wang's father was a member of the landlord.
So since then, Silly Wang's father has also had a sense of rejection of women, and believes that "anyone with long hair is a lie".
Of course, there is another reason why this stupid father is not willing to marry a daughter-in-law to Silly Wang. It is "a son who marries a daughter-in-law will forget his mother." ”
When I was little, there was a folk song that said:
Flower magpie, long tail,
Married daughter-in-law forgot the mother,
Carry the mother into the ravine,
Carry the daughter-in-law to the kangtou
Flower magpie, long tail...
So in the end, due to the delay of Silly Wang's father, this obedient Silly Wang still did not marry a daughter-in-law when he was young.
When Silly Wang was 35 years old, Silly Wang's father died of illness. And after Silly Wang buried his father, he was naturally carefree.
But this stupid Wang is also a person, although he missed the best golden time to find a wife, but the "dry heat" in his heart always made him unable to help himself.
Finding a mother-in-law to live a life has also become the only dream of Silly Wang's 35-year-old. Therefore, he frequently traveled to the matchmaker's house in the village and asked the matchmaker to tell him a wife.
However, I don't know what Silly Wang thinks, and his conditions for finding a wife are also quite high, such as:
Divorced mothers-in-law with children, especially divorced mothers-in-law with sons, this stupid Wang is not happy.
Because Silly Wang felt, "My son is not my own child, why should I raise my son for others?" ”
In addition, there is a need to find a daughter-in-law who must find a yellow flower girl, if there are no children after divorce.
Just imagine, with the 35-year-old of "Silly Wang", with the rural conditions of Silly Wang, he can find a divorced woman with children, and talk about the conditions for finding a "yellow flower girl". Isn't that silly?
Sure enough, a few years have passed, and the 35-year-old Silly Wang has reached the age of forty, but he is still empty, bare stick.
Thirty years east of the river, thirty years west of the river. With the passage of time, the very rich landlord Son Silly Wang, who was originally in our village, fell into the family road after the age of forty. And his home has become a ruined family in the village.
As for why Silly Wang's home has become like this, it is actually very simple.
In the past, Silly Wang's father also left some antiques for Silly Wang. For example, some oceans, as well as porcelain bottles from the late Qing Dynasty and the Republic of China, are very valuable objects.
However, due to silly wang's illiteracy, he rarely went to work. So these old things basically let Silly Wang get the set to exchange money.
And sitting and eating mountain air is the most likely to cause poverty, coupled with the bad habit of eating stupid and lazy, and a person eating enough for the whole family not to be hungry.
Therefore, the 40-year-old Silly Wang, although he also figured it out, no longer blindly looked for the "Yellow Flower Girl" as a wife. However, in the countryside, people who are lazy and idle will be favored by divorced women from which family?
After graduating from middle school, I was admitted to the high school in the county, and then to the university, and settled down in the city. Since then, I have never heard from Silly Wang again.
I remember that in the Spring Festival last year, I went back to my hometown, and accidentally passed by the door of Silly Wang's house, but found that the locks of Silly Wang's house were rusty, and through the crack in the door, I saw that the courtyard was desolate.
I felt puzzled, and when I got home, I asked my father again: "Alas, I just passed by Silly Wang's house, and it seems that there is no one left." ”
The father sighed and said, "I heard that a few years ago, Silly Wang went out to work, but he never came back." Eighty percent of them are stupid Wang lost, do not know the way home, but also eighty percent of silly Wang found a daughter-in-law in the city, unwilling to come back... ”
A year soon passed again, and the other day I called my father, and inadvertently I asked about Silly Wang's news again, but Silly Wang had not yet returned home.
They are all over 60 years old singles, I don't know where he is wandering now, maybe it is gone...
This is the story of the old single stick in our village, the result of the story is very bleak, but it contains five tastes and miscellaneous. Maybe Silly Wang can have a daughter-in-law, maybe it won't be like this in the future, but where are there so many maybes?
The story is over, as for so many people in the countryside who can't marry their wives in the future, what will happen in the future? I think there are several specific reasons.
First, try to save money to find a wife!
Of course, in the countryside, the people who can't find a wife are probably two kinds of people. One kind of person is a person who is reluctant to find a wife, who would rather live a single aristocrat all his life, of course, such people only occupy a small proportion.
The other kind of person is a rural person who is forced to beat a single stick for family reasons, personal reasons. This part of the people who can't find a wife is mostly related to unemployment.
When they entered junior high school, they were eliminated miserably, and many of them could not even go to college, and it was difficult for these people to find jobs as adults. If the family is already poor, only brothers and no sisters, if the talent is poor, it is basically the life of a bare stick.
In our village, most of the bare sticks who can't find a wife are also people who are not highly educated, have a bad family, and don't look good.
So what should this type of rural people who can't find a wife do next? I think it's got to get out there.
Guarding their own acres and three-quarters of land at home is impossible to find a wife in any case, and people who nibble on the old at home have no chance to know women (girls), and others will not introduce them.
Therefore, I think that in the future, the best way for this group of people who can't marry a wife is to work hard to make money, or go to the city, or go abroad to work.
Although there are many leftover men in our country, girls (women) from Russia, Ukraine, Estonia, Vietnam, and Africa are still willing to marry into our country.
Therefore, some young people in the countryside who cannot marry their wives should try to make money from now on.
Second, there are also some rural people who are unwilling to take on more responsibilities than to beat a lifetime of bare sticks.
The phenomenon of single sticks in rural areas is very serious.
The main reason for this is that some rural areas are more patriarchal, boys are more and less girls, plus girls are more good at studying, after studying, college or junior college have gone to the city, plus urban girls are reluctant to marry into the countryside, a large number of single sticks have been produced.
Generally speaking, in rural areas, men marry their daughters-in-law in basically two stages. A daughter-in-law is married to a young boy between the ages of 20 and 28.
For example, Zhu Xiaowei, the son of Brother Coat, was married at the age of 19 because his family had money. Although Zhu Xiaowei is now divorced again, he is naturally not worried about finding a wife.
At another stage, naturally, it is a 30-40-year-old rural boy. Such an old man, when marrying a daughter-in-law, because of objective reasons such as bride price, house, car, etc., is more difficult.
Of course, there are still some rural people who are unwilling to find wives, and naturally they are not willing to find wives because of houses, cars, high-priced bride price and other reasons.
Write at the end:
In the countryside, young people in rural areas are generally not in a hurry until they are thirty years old, and they are not anxious until they are thirty years old. But this is useless, your hard conditions are there, if you always belong to the poor file, you can't find it, and it is useless to be anxious.
There are many single people, and I am not the only one, and I am lonely and old, as for so many people in the countryside who can't marry a wife, what should I do? Except for some rural people who try to find wives, most single sticks can still be calmly accepted, they are used to living a life, and a person is also very good.