A recent video has stirred people's hearts, showing a female student being besieged by three people, unscrupulously, punching and kicking and sticking, while dozens of onlookers are left unattended, and laughter can be heard from time to time.
At present, the police have dealt with this incident, have dealt with the relevant personnel, and because they are all minors, they have ordered their guardians to strictly manage them.
Minors are a very large group of people in our country, and many people in this group have a very violent tendency, and there are many reasons for their violent tendencies, most of which can be attributed to the following points: caused by the family environment, social environment, school environment and personal character.
First, the family environment caused, parents are the child's first teacher, many parents in front of the child did not shy away, when the two quarrels will not keep a distance from the child, and even in front of the child to fight, which makes the child subconsciously think that the only way to solve the problem is through force, through the facts, the method of reasoning can not solve the problem.
There are also some parents, in the process of education, always like to use force to make children submit, which makes children feel that I am so afraid of my parents and mothers, because my parents are stronger than me, I can't beat my parents, so if I want my friends to listen to me, I need to be stronger than them in force, and I don't need to let them understand that I am attracting my friends in personality charm. Therefore, for this part of the child's personal belief, it is necessary to explain some truths to the child's parents first, mainly, so that parents who like to scold and quarrel in front of the child understand that parental quarrels can be solved through other ways, it cannot be solved, and it can also be done by not letting the children see when dealing with contradictions; in addition, when disciplining children, we must guide the children to change the three views, and do not just let the children think that force is the only means to solve the problem.
Second, caused by the social environment. In the past, in our time, contact with society was mainly with their neighbors, relatives, and this part of the people, most of whom were family personnel, and their quality would basically be similar to the family environment. But the impact of the current Internet era allows children to see a lot of violent cartoons, TV series, movies, etc. prematurely, which makes children have some curiosity when they are young, and they will learn. This makes these children very eager to solve problems by force.
Third, the school environment is caused. In fact, there is a saying that is good, where there are people is the jianghu, where there are people, there are three, six, nine, etc., and in the school is no exception, the conventional idea is that in the school, people can think of using academic performance to distinguish. In fact, there is also a way to distinguish between the child who is bullied and the child who is bullied. No one wants to be able to be a child who is bullied, so in school, many children like to be the child who can bully people, then the child is small, it may solve the problem through force, so that other children are in awe.
Fourth, the child's personality. When children do not have a certain level of three views and culture, many children use force to solve problems, so for children not only need parents, but also need society and schools to pay more attention, we must guide these children correctly, otherwise now the children are small overlords, and when they grow up, they will pay more attention.